I take it you haven't tried it yet. Ok, I'll give you the theory: Babes get hit on all the time, like pages of stuff saying the same thing such as "Hi, I think you're cute", or, "do you want to have coffee sometime" or "How's it going?". Would a girl be replying to every guy's message like that? No, what she's gonna do is screen out all the guys who are acting the same leaving behind the ones who stand out from the rest. Replies like "bitch I knows yous ugly n' all but I gots 5 beers in me" or "wtf is that wig on your head fo, how much did you buy for that tit job". Keep it funny. Oh, and if she asks you to do something like, send me a picture or anything, remind her that you don't take orders. Now shut up n' do that and report back to us.
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I take it you haven't tried it yet. Ok, I'll give you the theory: Babes get hit on all the time, like pages of stuff saying the same thing such as "Hi, I think you're cute", or, "do you want to have coffee sometime" or "How's it going?". Would a girl be replying to every guy's message like that? No, what she's gonna do is screen out all the guys who are acting the same leaving behind the ones who stand out from the rest. Replies like "bitch I knows yous ugly n' all but I gots 5 beers in me" or "wtf is that wig on your head fo, how much did you buy for that tit job". Keep it funny. Oh, and if she asks you to do something like, send me a picture or anything, remind her that you don't take orders. Now shut up n' do that and report back to us.
Snoodle, was your comment above meant to be a joke or did you really give up after an hour and a half? A person can not expect miracles on a dating sites, your expectations could be messed up from paying for hot SP's and expecting the came caliber for free. The " dates " I found on POF were ones realistic to the ones I expected to find. I set my bar a lot lower than when I chose a SP.
erf...Suave king is on the board!
Just sayin'
Your breaking my balls Aly breaking my balls!
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Lily from Montreal
Hum, I don't know where you guys gets that being rude or vulgar is funny? Nooo...
Even in my line of work a message that include bitch or f... anything gets no reply so imagine if I was to be on a vanilla site looking for boyfriend material... Ladies wants gentleman ,not jerks, those have to see escort to get some...
Even in my line of work a message that include bitch or f... anything gets no reply so imagine if I was to be on a vanilla site looking for boyfriend material... Ladies wants gentleman ,not jerks, those have to see escort to get some...
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Lily from Montreal
I am not sure, when you see comment like ''I wrote to a slut on the site...'' just to write a thing like this makes me wonder where they were when time came to grow up loll...bisous ma belle xxxx
Funny, I can't tell if Gotsome is joking or serious either but I'm pretty sure snoodle is taking him seriously.
Anyways, my online dating has been hit and miss but the last 3 people I've dated over the past few years I've met through online dating. I can tell you I don't call them sluts and bitches or insult them, but to each his own. Good luck with your pick up lines / insults and how to pick up women courses; girls love those approaches.
Like the other guy said, if you spend too much time hobbying and somehow you mistake hobbying for reality, I'd write off any aspirations of meeting someone in real life, except those with the lowest of self-esteem.
Anyways, my online dating has been hit and miss but the last 3 people I've dated over the past few years I've met through online dating. I can tell you I don't call them sluts and bitches or insult them, but to each his own. Good luck with your pick up lines / insults and how to pick up women courses; girls love those approaches.
Like the other guy said, if you spend too much time hobbying and somehow you mistake hobbying for reality, I'd write off any aspirations of meeting someone in real life, except those with the lowest of self-esteem.
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Lily from Montreal
One of my girl friend found a husband on a dating site and a guy friend found his second wife so yes it is possible but it helps to have realistic expectations, if you want to find a supermodel lookalike maybe stick to the hobby and its game of mirrors...
How old are you? Reality check, do not believe people especially on an internet board. Can not believe you took that advice. I am still shaking my head over this one. If I get banned for calling you stupid it was worth it. WTF. I could go on but fuck.
WTF
I thought we were like a family here..everyone helping each other out..
I automatically assumed to suggestions mede to me were based on past experiences from another member that really work
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Lily from Montreal
It is not because it is from a internet board,I disagree with Sol here, it is because it is a very stupid advice ,why would you think insulting someone will make her receptive is beyond me...
This isn't the moderator writing.
Snoodle, you owe me a laptop.
I just sprayed my keyboard and screen with coffee when I read your post.
We're a big family and, in families, we sometimes need to tell it as it is. No hard feelings I guess!
Live and learn, and I'm certain you learned on that one. :lol:
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Sol Tee, there's a difference between calling somebody stupid and saying his action was stupid. This is a distinction most people forget about and a major cause of useless arguments.
I do believe your intent was to say Snuggle's action was stupid and you don't think he's stupid.
Most people will accept responsibility when they know what they did "qualifies" for some giggle but, not many will accept being called stupid or otherwise challenged.
If Snuggle don't see it the way I explained, I'll have no choice other than send you the way of the dodo birds for a while.
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Snoodle, you owe me a laptop.
I just sprayed my keyboard and screen with coffee when I read your post.
We're a big family and, in families, we sometimes need to tell it as it is. No hard feelings I guess!
Live and learn, and I'm certain you learned on that one. :lol:
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Sol Tee, there's a difference between calling somebody stupid and saying his action was stupid. This is a distinction most people forget about and a major cause of useless arguments.
I do believe your intent was to say Snuggle's action was stupid and you don't think he's stupid.
Most people will accept responsibility when they know what they did "qualifies" for some giggle but, not many will accept being called stupid or otherwise challenged.
If Snuggle don't see it the way I explained, I'll have no choice other than send you the way of the dodo birds for a while.
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Lol nice one !
But this pick up strategy only works with girls with a good sense of humor... Humm.. That's why It never works...
I'm with you Sol Tee Nutz; This post here said it all for me:
I'm pretty amazed at his inability to read between the lines there. She asks for a picture, she sees your picture and no longer wants to talk to you. Hmmm, do you seriously need an explanation?! Now I'm the one confused.
but I honestly can't tell if we're getting trolled or not! For snoodle's sake I'd feel better if we were getting trolled, but it's pretty obvious that he is very "eager' to get advice on how to pick up chicks, even asking to find classes to pick up women. Do you really think girls like pick up lines? seriously? The only reason one would work is because she wants you already and doesn't care at all what comes out of your mouth. If it works, it's not the pick-up line that works. This also applies to all of the approaches you've mentioned which all involve seeing a girl you find attractive and trying to pick her up, regardless of locale. At no point does your strategy involve "getting to know the person". If you think that's the only way to meet women then I can't change how your mind works but I'd personally take Alyssa's previous advice on how to do it.
So address the topic more thoroughly, I painstakingly went through the previous posts in the thread to point out some things that logically don't make sense. I really hope I don't get banned for improperly using Reply With Quote and also note that I'm not trying to be a dick.
So you acknowledge yourself that you're competing with 50 other guys but you also acknowledge that you're messaging girls 20 years young than you AND you have nothing in your profile AND no photo and you question why you're not getting a reply?! That's like getting into a fight with professional fighters when you're not in shape and have no skills and wondering why you're getting beat up. I think it's safe to say these other guys have at least a profile so the girl can find something in common.
The other thing I don't get is that you mentioned broadening your horizons by trying bigger girls and gilfs and how much fun it can be, but it sounds like you're only going for hot girls (and much younger) girls on the site. Don't you think it makes more sense to pay for hot young SPs and to go for less hot women in real life?
i said hi to one slut on POF she replies and asks me for a pic.
No problem..i send it to her and she immediately blocks me.
WTF !!!!! what is that bullshit. I didn't even say anything..no explanation.. no nothing...
I'm pretty amazed at his inability to read between the lines there. She asks for a picture, she sees your picture and no longer wants to talk to you. Hmmm, do you seriously need an explanation?! Now I'm the one confused.
but I honestly can't tell if we're getting trolled or not! For snoodle's sake I'd feel better if we were getting trolled, but it's pretty obvious that he is very "eager' to get advice on how to pick up chicks, even asking to find classes to pick up women. Do you really think girls like pick up lines? seriously? The only reason one would work is because she wants you already and doesn't care at all what comes out of your mouth. If it works, it's not the pick-up line that works. This also applies to all of the approaches you've mentioned which all involve seeing a girl you find attractive and trying to pick her up, regardless of locale. At no point does your strategy involve "getting to know the person". If you think that's the only way to meet women then I can't change how your mind works but I'd personally take Alyssa's previous advice on how to do it.
So address the topic more thoroughly, I painstakingly went through the previous posts in the thread to point out some things that logically don't make sense. I really hope I don't get banned for improperly using Reply With Quote and also note that I'm not trying to be a dick.
Is it maybe they are not replying because all the girls i message are 20 years younger than me ?
So you acknowledge yourself that you're competing with 50 other guys but you also acknowledge that you're messaging girls 20 years young than you AND you have nothing in your profile AND no photo and you question why you're not getting a reply?! That's like getting into a fight with professional fighters when you're not in shape and have no skills and wondering why you're getting beat up. I think it's safe to say these other guys have at least a profile so the girl can find something in common.
The other thing I don't get is that you mentioned broadening your horizons by trying bigger girls and gilfs and how much fun it can be, but it sounds like you're only going for hot girls (and much younger) girls on the site. Don't you think it makes more sense to pay for hot young SPs and to go for less hot women in real life?
I've had lots of success on POF in the past even when it comes to Intimate Encounters.
You have to know the right things to say and not let rejection bother you.
What I did learn was that it's not only the girls that have mentionned they are looking for intimate encounters that are looking for intimate encounters
Goodluck & Happy fishing.
You have to know the right things to say and not let rejection bother you.
What I did learn was that it's not only the girls that have mentionned they are looking for intimate encounters that are looking for intimate encounters
Goodluck & Happy fishing.
Agree with your post except with this... Who is more respectful with a girl, the guy who send stupid compliments on photos, thinking a flattery will be enough to put her in his bed (which means : I think you are a stupid and narcissist girl), or a guy who makes a good macho joke (which means : I think you are an intelligent and open minded girl) ?
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