Overnighters ... is morning sex expected ??
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ive had a few overnites and i sort of expect it but sadlee it was not 100%. it is same with 1 hour msog encounter. some ladys initiate the second sog and some ladys who dont initiate it dont understand or pertend not to know what is hapening wen guy starts the kissing and touching again
I dunno... lol, to me it all depend what is the "bargain" between you and her... Does she is paid for a certain hour to another... or does it depend on when you wake up? All a bunch of different factors...
Men wake up with woodies, but many women want to be left alone in the morning. It is definitely something to discuss beforehand to avoid ending a night with a disagreement.
Why even do an overnighter if you are going to screw around a few hours, go to sleep and then wake up and not do it again in the morning? I have had a few overnighters and they all included a couple hours in the morning. And I didn't discuss it beforehand. We just did it. I guess you have to do this with women you are comfortable with and her with you, and you know would not object to sex in the morning. Non-pro sex is most definitely that way.
Exactly, discuss things beforehand and then there is no second guessing or wondering in the AM. Voilà!
My thoughts exactly. In my opinion morning sex should be a given on an overnighter. It's a big part of the fun.
I have had several overnighters and I always enjoyed morning fun. However, this was without any prior request on my part and the woman always initiated, so I marked this down as 'go with the flow'. One aspect of overnighters I have not experienced is "wake up in the middle of the night sex". I have several overnights with an SP that was mentioned having offered this, but she never initiated it with me, and I found out that the reviewer in question had specifically requested it. It makes sense.
Like others mentioned here it can be enjoyable with SPs you know well and are not the type to go on 'autopilot' after the first SOG. Generally speaking, if at the end of 2-3 hours I wish I had spend more time with her, then next time I will go for a 6-8 hour date. If I still feel like I wish I could have extended the time, then I know she is a good candidate for an overnighter. There are also other small indicators, like if she invites you to shower with her (versus you having to ask), if she pays attention to your needs and takes initiative on starting subsequent SOGs.
Also this may or may not make a difference, but for longer dates and overnighters I think booking a nicer hotel room motivates the SP to spend more private time with you.
Like others mentioned here it can be enjoyable with SPs you know well and are not the type to go on 'autopilot' after the first SOG. Generally speaking, if at the end of 2-3 hours I wish I had spend more time with her, then next time I will go for a 6-8 hour date. If I still feel like I wish I could have extended the time, then I know she is a good candidate for an overnighter. There are also other small indicators, like if she invites you to shower with her (versus you having to ask), if she pays attention to your needs and takes initiative on starting subsequent SOGs.
Also this may or may not make a difference, but for longer dates and overnighters I think booking a nicer hotel room motivates the SP to spend more private time with you.
And i would agree with that as well, thus why i replied as i did earlier. Discuss beforehand so everyone is on the same page.
This is definitely an exception, there is an expectation of some sleep time on an overnight!
i agree but you will also get ladys for a 1 hour meeting who advertice msog with plenty of time left in the hour will either not initiate another sog or when you initiate something without verbaly about it like touching and kissing, they just pertend nothing is goine on.
My Ex wife was a huge snorer ( after the first child ).... perhaps the loudest I ever heard, at the beginning of our breakup her ( our ) bedroom was at one end of the house upstairs and the spare bedroom I slept in was in the basement at the other end ( 50 foot house ) and I had to close both doors to fall asleep. Not pleasant.
Jeez! I'm not that bad! But I do have a host of things I have to do for overnight guests. Disposable ear plugs, a noise machine (generally playing running water), or I advise the person I'm with to download some sleep aid apps. I have a couple that play white noise or stormy weather (love that last one. I sleep like a baby under the sounds of an approaching thunder storm.) If all else fails, I will simply tell my sleep partner to just wake me up if I'm snoring too loud. I know I snore & it won't offend me.
Now, stealing blankets, that's a whole other thing...
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