Party Girl - What it means / Are guys into it?

[adeci]

I see a lot of ads especially Classifieds advertising “Party Girl”. The definition has never been too clear for me
as I picture the scene from Pulp Fiction where the guy takes his friend’s wife out and has to deal with her overdose. For my part I’m usually just looking for a release not a 2-day bender on amphetamines. Is there a disconnect here between male/female expectation and reality? is there really a subset of clients who regularly like to get ripped and have sex?

 

[bodick7]

When I see snowflakes with the mention it recalls me some endless nights…

 

[Joe Thighsman]

To me it means she’s willing to have a few drinks, maybe smoke a joint or do a line. Are some guys into it? I presume some are.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

It sure will involve booze and drugs, I avoid these at all cost.

Although I’ve had sex on booze and drugs several times when I was a young man filled with testosterone I have to admit that these were not the best experiences on a sexual level. It really made my senses numb and deprived me from feeling any pleasure. Sure I could go on forever and put to shame any given pornstars but in the end it was very dissatisfying.

I realized that for me, sex is most enjoyable when I am sober, 1 or 2 glasses of wine before/during action is the maximum I will go.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

When a service provider advertises themselves as a "party girl," it typically signifies that they are open to extended encounters, enjoy drinking, and may engage in drug use. In my personal experience, the term "party girl" often indicates a focus on financial gain, as service providers may target customers who are intoxicated or under the influence of drugs, rendering them more vulnerable. Some providers have recognized that customers in a partying mindset can easily lose track of time and money, potentially extending sessions for up to 12 hours or until the client is financially broke. It is important to note that some service providers may embrace the "party girl" persona as a means to facilitate easier sessions, while others may find it challenging due to potential difficulties in maintaining erecting caused by drug side effects and the customer being annoying and demanding. In my past experiences involving partying and cocaine use, sessions with service providers could last anywhere from 3 to 16 hours, until I was broke. I am grateful that those days are now behind me.Conclusion, the label of a "party girl" is often overrated , and if you are someone who doesn’t enjoys partying and drinking, it is advisable to keep your distance.

 

[ThunderLipps]

I realized that for me, sex is most enjoyable when I am sober, 1 or 2 glasses of wine before/during action is the maximum I will go.

I on occasion smoke before I see an SP ( habit from the ex ), as for coke it gives me shrink dink and I can not afford that at all.
As for party girls, we used to hire them for stag parties, would never hire one for personal use.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

I'm so naive I learned what it meant very recently, I thought it just meant we were open to have a drink and dance I love dancing and having fun with my clients haha I thought that's what party meant

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

I on occasion smoke before I see an SP ( habit from the ex ), as for coke it gives me shrink dink and I can not afford that at all.
As for party girls, we used to hire them for stag parties, would never hire one for personal use.

Smoking is a very terrible habit. Suggest you treat it like your ex.

Tobacco, cannabis, coke or any other drug that has a mind altering effect, can cause low grade inflammation of the brain, which since the brain has no pain receptors is not felt, but presents itself in personality changes and even snappy passive aggression in the person that's abusing the drug. It can change people into extremely reactive, defensive and even abusively unfair individuals.

Nothing healthier for the brain than to lead a drug free and holistic life that includes a clean diet and physical activity.

Consider that if you can't say no to any drug, or can't live at least 3 months without any usage by choice, then don't discount that you may have an addiction, even at a low level. Your body is a temple, and should be treated as such. The people that you care about and care for you, should also be treated as such.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Tobacco, cannabis, coke or any other drug that has a mind altering effect, causes low grade inflammation of the brain…

So does alcohol, even though it is traditionally more « socially acceptable" only because it’s been legal for a much longer period, as opposed to weed. The damages to general health including mental health is undeniable.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

So does alcohol, even though it is traditionally more « socially acceptable" only because it’s been legal for a much longer period, as opposed to weed. The damages to general health including mental health is undeniable.

Absolutely, excellent point. They all have damaging effects, albeit some more severe than others.

 

[ThunderLipps]

Smoking is a very terrible habit. Suggest you treat it like your ex

My mom passed away awhile ago, do not need another one. I am in my late 60's, have been smoking since 16 and still have my wits about me and probably healthier than most people my age.

 

[bodick7]

I'm so naive I learned what it meant very recently, I thought it just meant we were open to have a drink and dance I love dancing and having fun with my clients haha I thought that's what party meant

No, not at all. In fact, some love to party during winter season. That's why they put snowflake icons.

 

[cru_33]

If I was looking for a party, I would be down, but in most cases, I want as authentic of an experience as possible, and "party favors" tend to make that hard.

I do enjoy 420 as it relaxes me and helps me zone in on the moment.

 

[AirBo]

When I read "Party Girl", I see a girl sniffing a rail of coke or some shit like that. Drinking alcohol and smoking weed is just very common.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

It means they like to numb the meaninglessness of existence by using something to alter their natural state and consciousness while you’re around. They are willing to do so for a short period or an extended period. That’s all. Don’t read more into it than that. Same as some guy or chick who goes out to ‘party’; it part and parcel implies getting shit faced because excess is part of escapism and enjoyment for the vast majority.

If the party bit is accompanied by 2 or 3 other signifers you should absolutely stay away for your health and safety though.

 

[Anong]

My mom passed away awhile ago, do not need another one

Bingo!

 

[IamNY]

Party girl means they party and by party they mean open to doing drugs.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

My mom passed away awhile ago, do not need another one. I am in my late 60's, have been smoking since 16 and still have my wits about me and probably healthier than most people my age.

I'm sorry to hear that, one truly sympathizes. Can't be easy if that's true.

An old dear colleague of mine, Prof. Claus Van Cleef would often say in his 'Psychology of Human Development' class, "the only thing worse than the absence of a good mother, is the presence of a bad one." i.e. their presence or absence can influence our psyche, but not our value system. That's an internal trait. Commonly referred to as 'Character'.

That's why some of the nicest souls can come from the most challenging situations... like a Phoenix.

Glad to hear that even after almost 5 decades of smoking you are in good health. You must have good jeans.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Bingo!

Check! (Apologies, Chess and Scrabble are more my games).

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

You must have good jeans.

Levi’s, nothing else!