Prelude to the deed

[montreal_guy00]

Hey guys,

I’ve noticed that some of the “high end” providers that advertise in the independent section on merb like to spend 10-12 mins of the 1 hour session getting to know you before commencing any activity. Then it’s takes 5-7 mins for the shower and you need 5-7 minutes to get ready after the deed.

Do you think it’s fair that they take 10-12 mins of your paid time to “Get to know you” at the premium price?

 

[Gabars]

Most of us don't want her to be looking at her watch and counting the minutes, I think it's basic etiquette to return the favor. Get longer sessions if you really need the extra 10 minutes in bed.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Do you think it’s fair that they take 10-12 mins of your paid time to “Get to know you” at the premium price?

I think its just normal for 2 total strangers meeting up for the 1st time, to make aquaintance, in the end we are social animals. What do you think?

 

[Flyingby]

Just book longer if you aren’t happy
Or book elsewhere

 

[Gazoo64]

That’s why some Indys prefer minimum 90 minute appointment for first time meeting.
As was mentioned, I think it’s normal for 2 strangers to spend a few minutes getting to know each other.

 

[IamNY]

Do you think it’s fair that they take 10-12 mins of your paid time to “Get to know you” at the premium price?

Most are doing this to set the mood and help both of you get comfortable and they will probably go over your hour by 10-12 minutes anyway. For me, the get to know you time is better after the deed. I've met girls that I couldn't stand in the first 10-12 minutes but I would definitely still like to bang. To each his own.

 

[sene5hos]

Yes, all tastes are in nature.

When I started the hobby I didn't take the time to get to know each other, but I realized that this way no complicity could be created.

As I got older, I preferred to get to know each other better before making love.
And for me in general that way the sex was better.

 

[liloudallas]

When you pay top dollars to meet an Indy you expect to experience the whole package. The whole package beeing an educated top notch looking girl that goes the extra mile to provide you with an amazing experience. It's more than just meeting and banging a hottie (you can get plenty of those in the agencies). Taking the time to chit chat a bit to get to know each other is part of the experience. It is basic "etiquette" in the marvelous world of Indy's. If you are on a budget or if you only want to be the energiser bunny and bang the entire time you pay for, stick to the agencies cause there is a good chance you'll be disappointed with your experience.

 

[envelopes]

I tend to skip indys who write stuff like this.

I actually spend 60% of my sessions just relaxing, I'd say I'm a pretty easy client, but I don't like feeling like I'm being nickled and dimed.

"High end" but reading that just feels tacky

 

[rollingstone]

Its important to me to know the person I am about to fuck. The 'get to know you' part of the date builds up the anticipation, and I savior it. I know not every one cares to book multiple hours like me, but in a one hour appointment I still think there is time for chit chat and fucking. MSOG is nice in theory but for me is not practical in a one hour setting.