What if your sp or your clients were very racist or very homophobic ,would you continue to see them.
Question For SP And Clients
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Wow. So because we are hiring women for sex means we don't have any moral?
I wouldn't want to give my hard earned money to someone who is racist or homophobic. Having a choice between a girl who is racist/homophobic and one who isn't I would go with the one who isn't. You know Wolfie, most of us here think with our brain, not with our penis.
Can you clarify the difference between very racist and simply racist?
Not that it really matters, for me it strictly comes down to bust size in proportion to total body fat.
I don't care. If she is Gorgeous and has a very nice body. I'll screw her.
I'm not racist nor homophobic.
I'm not racist nor homophobic.
All hail the self-righteous!! :hail: :hail:
Wow, you must be a liberal with that sense of humor. Or lack thereof. :lol:
Ok, now get off the soapbox and find the definition for sarcasm in the dictionary. :wave:
If making your own decisions, for yourself, rather than just following the herd and doing what society deems "right", if that means you're thinking with your penis... :lol: I guess I think a lot with my penis!! Damn, who knew??? Who needs a brain anyways?
Maaaaaan, and here I thought I had a big brain. :faint:[SUB][/SUB]I have never asked an sp if she was racist or homophobic, and they have never blurted out 'you white bastard' or 'are you gay' during a session.
I tend to keep most discussions related to our sexual encounter, life in general, the current state of the roads in montreal, and how coderre spends more time eating catered lunches and watching sports than being an actual mayor.
I tend to keep most discussions related to our sexual encounter, life in general, the current state of the roads in montreal, and how coderre spends more time eating catered lunches and watching sports than being an actual mayor.
Ah gosh...Well sorry, I thought you were serious and not sarcastic. My bad.
I'm just sensitive with the subject. I have 2 close friends who are gay and friends who are black and asian, I would never ask if a SP is racist or homophobic but if I knew in advance I wouldn't feel right to have sex with someone who has such a screwed up view of the world. Hot women are everywhere, I wouldn't mind losing the opportunity to fuck a hot gal.
Sorry again. *getting off the soapbox* :lol:
I'm just sensitive with the subject. I have 2 close friends who are gay and friends who are black and asian, I would never ask if a SP is racist or homophobic but if I knew in advance I wouldn't feel right to have sex with someone who has such a screwed up view of the world. Hot women are everywhere, I wouldn't mind losing the opportunity to fuck a hot gal.
Sorry again. *getting off the soapbox* :lol:
I was joking on the moral guidance.
I am dead serious on libertarian-ism. If an SP is homo-phobic, I don't care. Doesn't affect my service. As long as it's not directed at me, I could care less. An SP is not a girlfriend. And personally, for me, I could care less even if a girlfriend was homophobic.
Even if the racism was directed at me, I don't take it personally. Grow some skin. Get over it. Move on. Nobody is forcing you. (Though I can't possibly fathom why an SP would pass up a beautiful Asian man!! :eyebrows: :lol: I mean we are such wonderful lovers! No??? :lol: :lol: :lol
Look, if an SP chooses not to see black clients, or Asians, or old guys, or fat guys, whatever. It's their fucking choice! I'm not going to bash them on a review for that. It's their body, their intimacy to share. I wouldn't want to take a foot-long horse cock either! (Before anyone jumps all over me, the word is hyperbole.) I defend everyone's right to choose and think for themselves. Off my soapbox.
I am dead serious on libertarian-ism. If an SP is homo-phobic, I don't care. Doesn't affect my service. As long as it's not directed at me, I could care less. An SP is not a girlfriend. And personally, for me, I could care less even if a girlfriend was homophobic.
Even if the racism was directed at me, I don't take it personally. Grow some skin. Get over it. Move on. Nobody is forcing you. (Though I can't possibly fathom why an SP would pass up a beautiful Asian man!! :eyebrows: :lol: I mean we are such wonderful lovers! No??? :lol: :lol: :lol
Look, if an SP chooses not to see black clients, or Asians, or old guys, or fat guys, whatever. It's their fucking choice! I'm not going to bash them on a review for that. It's their body, their intimacy to share. I wouldn't want to take a foot-long horse cock either!
(Before anyone jumps all over me, the word is hyperbole.) I defend everyone's right to choose and think for themselves. Off my soapbox.
Discrimination is what separates us from the NORM in life, to each his/her own, if an SP tells you she don't like a certain type and you don't see her again for it then you are discriminating and you are no better, but we are all different and we look at things in life in a different way, whatever way we see things, does not make us any better then the other, sometimes we don't think about our actions and consequences and this makes us human.
Wolfie7, i agree with your responses and read between the lines and saw that you were on track with your comments, i agreed because i don't see why it would effect my evening if the SP is racist or VERY racist and would your evening be any better if you agreed with her on the subject, for some yes, others maybe. Now if she says my mom is fat and ugly well, then i am putting that lady over my knee and slapping that ass and if she enjoys it then ill stay, but if she protests, i am out of there.:thumb:
Lets see if we can answer this, have you ever opened the door and the lady standing there was not what you thought she would look like and told her sorry wrong room or no thank you and sent her back to the agency? Well, i understand that we are paying some high stakes at times but these ladies have feelings and they are not a steak that you ordered WD and received it RARE and sent it back. I have never asked a lady to leave, i saw the evening thru, sometimes it turned out ok but i would never do that to someone.
Does this make you very racist, very homophobic or just shallow? Discrimination?
Thor Jr
Wolfie7, i agree with your responses and read between the lines and saw that you were on track with your comments, i agreed because i don't see why it would effect my evening if the SP is racist or VERY racist and would your evening be any better if you agreed with her on the subject, for some yes, others maybe. Now if she says my mom is fat and ugly well, then i am putting that lady over my knee and slapping that ass and if she enjoys it then ill stay, but if she protests, i am out of there.:thumb:
Lets see if we can answer this, have you ever opened the door and the lady standing there was not what you thought she would look like and told her sorry wrong room or no thank you and sent her back to the agency? Well, i understand that we are paying some high stakes at times but these ladies have feelings and they are not a steak that you ordered WD and received it RARE and sent it back. I have never asked a lady to leave, i saw the evening thru, sometimes it turned out ok but i would never do that to someone.
Does this make you very racist, very homophobic or just shallow? Discrimination?
Thor Jr
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Lily from Montreal
Just a aside,it is of course your prerogative to refuse a lady but saying wrong room is not nice...as someone who gets lost all the time (I have other qualities) and have been known to knock on the wrong door (thank God empty wrong room) it makes me cringe to think someone would be so coward to not assume his refusal...
What a different world we live in today, be careful what you say , about whom, where and how. Damn, as a society we have become soooooo politically correct. If I am with an SP I tend to think the conversation would never come around to her opinions on race or her position regarding homosexuality. I really don't care and if she were racist and or homophobic, also I don't care. The time I spend is about me and her, no politics , religion or racism..... how a quest5ion like this was even asked here I am still trying to figure out but even dumber is why am I entertaining the question by posting in the thread
Definitely will disagree with this point, since that's not discrimination in any way, nor would that person be in the wrong at all for not wanting to see them after.
For the most part, we want to have some chemistry with the people we meet(the men with SP's, the SP's with the men), and our personalities and how they get along plays a huge role in this. So if one person really does not get along well with people who are homophobic or racist, then they may find it difficult to develop chemistry with that person if it comes up at any point(which, believe it or not, does come up from time to time).
So for them to not repeat with that person is perfectly understandable...why bother continuing to see someone that you know you won't get along with.
For myself personally, if I have the choice, I don't want to meet people who express any sort of racist or homophobic remarks. I obviously don't have a whole lot of control over that, since usually people don't put that info in their introductory email, but if it comes up in conversation(which it has before strangely enough) and they aren't willing to drop the subject or are especially rude about it, I won't meet with them again.
I believe that racism, sexism and homophobia are just different symptoms of stupidity. If I am in the mood for a short time together with continuous action and not much conversation and the SP is OK with that, then I don't care if she is lacking in intelligence. If it is more of a GFE encounter i.e. longer and with time for chatting, then I want someone intelligent and also interesting.
I have never sent back a lady, either. Have been damn tempted to though. Just don't have the heart to reject someone like that, to their face. Too cruel, even if the session afterwards is not up to par. I just eat it.
... I think that just makes me a sap!
Doesn't mean I'm not racist, homophobic or shallow. :noidea: :lol:
I've met sps who were very opinionated towards other races. It even happened recently. I didn't like what i was hearing, but i figured it has nothing to do with why i was seeing her for and if she wanted to appear ignorant, so be it. I guess she must have noticed i wasn't smiling or laughing at her stupid remarks, so we moved on to other things and i suppose the good part is that we got to the 'action' quicker.
Since the majority of 'ladies' i meet in this business will be for a one-time encounter anyway, i suppose it's easier for me to ignore odd or ignorant behaviour when i encounter it. I don't find there's a need to start arguing or make a big thing about something i hated hearing. I just let it flow by and deal with the matter-in-hand.
However, i'll never see such a person again since i must respect the person i'm 'donating money' to be intimate with. I have this rule: If i see an sp that i wouldn't want to be with in my private life, then i won't see her again.
Since the majority of 'ladies' i meet in this business will be for a one-time encounter anyway, i suppose it's easier for me to ignore odd or ignorant behaviour when i encounter it. I don't find there's a need to start arguing or make a big thing about something i hated hearing. I just let it flow by and deal with the matter-in-hand.
However, i'll never see such a person again since i must respect the person i'm 'donating money' to be intimate with. I have this rule: If i see an sp that i wouldn't want to be with in my private life, then i won't see her again.
I totally agree with this point. Having chemistry with a person is important in maintaining a relationship in any social context. Someone's view of prejudice towards other individuals for being different is a sexual turn off for me.
We're all different, whether its based an ethnicity, culture, religion and/or sexuality. I value the spectrum of diversity of what it is to be human. If someone else's view are not compatible with mine, then there's no reason to see that person again.
How would you know if the SP is homophobic or racist, something that is not usually brought up in conversation and if it does you need to change the topic fast. My ATF is a strong BLOC supporter and hates the conservatives and I see no issues with it ( even though we have some interesting discussions ). I figure a person beliefs is nothing that can be changed easily and if it does not effect my way of life so be it.
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