Not sure if this has been asked... I have met Indys for multi-hour encounters during which there was a social component (e.g., drinks/meal first and then back to the room). But how about agency SPs? Can I request a, let's say, 3-hour outcall and have the girl meet with me at the hotel bar or nearby restaurant and then back to the room? Thanks! Can't wait to be back to MTL!
Questions about Agency Outcall Norms
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I don’t see why you couldn’t ask but then again, I don’t know much about agencies.
I believe if you’re renting a room in a hotel and ask the SP to meet you in the lobby bar, it wouldn’t be a problem. Just ask them:
“Hi I’m HF2013, I’m looking for a provider that would be comfortable with meeting me in the bar of my hotel. I’d like to book a 3 hours date and start with a drink. Anyone you could recommend?”
The reason you want to mention it is that it would be kind of awkward if the SP they sent was sober, no?
I believe if you’re renting a room in a hotel and ask the SP to meet you in the lobby bar, it wouldn’t be a problem. Just ask them:
“Hi I’m HF2013, I’m looking for a provider that would be comfortable with meeting me in the bar of my hotel. I’d like to book a 3 hours date and start with a drink. Anyone you could recommend?”
The reason you want to mention it is that it would be kind of awkward if the SP they sent was sober, no?
There's no harm in asking. I would wager that agencies have gotten stranger questions. 
I've done drinks at the bar with quite a few Indies, but that's usually something that they advertise and they're usually good at schmoozing. I've had great luck with agency girls in general but not all are socially gifted or speak English fluently enough, etc etc. In other words, I'd consider it a bit of a risk (in terms of time and money) to book a social+intimate 3-hour date with an agency girl unless I'd seen her before.... If you do it, let us know how it went!
I've done drinks at the bar with quite a few Indies, but that's usually something that they advertise and they're usually good at schmoozing. I've had great luck with agency girls in general but not all are socially gifted or speak English fluently enough, etc etc. In other words, I'd consider it a bit of a risk (in terms of time and money) to book a social+intimate 3-hour date with an agency girl unless I'd seen her before.... If you do it, let us know how it went!
I don't understand this comment. Do you mean it would be awkward if the girl was a non-drinker of alcohol? "Sober" means not drunk, not non-consumer of alcohol. I have never had the experience of an agency girl arriving at the appointment drunk. Agencies and most customers prefer escorts who are sober.
It can also mean “abstaining from drinking alcohol or taking intoxicating drugs : refraining from the use of addictive substances”
You’ve never heard anyone say “I’ve been sober for 5 years” ?
Yeah, but that implies that the person was an alcoholic before. If a booker told me that "Suzy is sober now," I would think that she used to be an alcoholic. That's OK if she has really stopped drinking but it might be a red flag, because alcohol can have a heavy toll on a person.
The word that I would use to describe a nondrinker is teetotaler...or just nondrinker. Or I would say, "she doesn't drink". "Sober" has too much of an implication of former alcoholic.
In any case, a guy can enjoy the company of an escort during social time whether she drinks alcohol or not. What matters is whether she is good company.
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I have a few friends that don't drink and spend time in a lounge with us, no requirement to drink alcohol.
If the SP is okay with it, I don't see why not.
The whole "3 hours must include social time at drinks or dinner" is a rule 100% for the SP.
I have countless free and platonic conversations per week, thank you very much. I don't need to pay you for fully clothed conversations and your dinner/drinks too. If we're going to start pretending this is an actual date, then no need to pay for what I'm truly here for, no? It's soooo dumb.
The whole "3 hours must include social time at drinks or dinner" is a rule 100% for the SP.
I have countless free and platonic conversations per week, thank you very much. I don't need to pay you for fully clothed conversations and your dinner/drinks too. If we're going to start pretending this is an actual date, then no need to pay for what I'm truly here for, no? It's soooo dumb.
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