From some experiences I had its usually you have to level the kind of dirty she is into. ive had some who agree to do that kink but once the brain and words were coming out it turned to vinegar. this kink can have many roads talking about very intimate stuffs and can be degrading.
It oddly turns me on, I can’t explain why. I know why but can’t explain but it definitely needs to be with the right person. I feel it’s even more true for a woman because men are so scared to be “baby trapped”.