Reasons to repeat with a provider

[LC18]

• no need to do awkward icebreakers
• you know each other’s body better so you can have an amazing time
• you may have some inside jokes
• you already know what to expect
• you get to see a familiar face
• booking is usually easier
• you get priority on other clients
• you get to develop a connection
• they have gained your trust

 

[Lexus3]

• no need to do awkward icebreakers
• you know each other’s body better so you can have an amazing time
• you may have some inside jokes
• you already know what to expect
• you get to see a familiar face
• booking is usually easier
• you get priority on other clients
• you get to develop a connection
• they have gained your trust

Less awkward, much more comfortable and generally better sessions.
A sprinkle of new here and there does add excitement though.

 

[AirBo]

All of the above really but my main reason is simply that the sex gets better

 

[michaelduni]

• you get to develop a connection

Excellent list, but for me this is perhaps the most important. The physical connection when you are attracted to someone, coupled with a mental connection is for me the holy grail. There is also the human connection when you have both the physical and mental connection - "Human connection is when two or more people choose to engage in vulnerable interactions where each person is heard, seen, known and valued".

 

[Mefy]

Personal preference I guess - some guys like the consistency and reliability if they find a good provider.

But for me personally, I'm sure I'll get kinda bored after 4-5 meetings (at most) with the same provider and the desire for new girls is always greater at that point.


“Don't spend your money all in one place”

^.^

 

[talkinghead]

For some reason, undoubtedly having to do with me, my second dates are usually a small disappointment. Maybe I exaggerate the first experience in my mind? Maybe I like the search for the Next Great Date? Maybe it's simply that I'm not looking for intimacy or passion (but rather a friendly connection and lighthearted pleasure), so the intimacy that might come with more time and more dates doesn't mean as much to me. In some ways I'm envious of the guys who build up such incredible relationships over multiple dates.... It must be amazing to have a woman who knows what you want and how to make you feel just right.

 

[Gazoo64]

Excellent list, but for me this is perhaps the most important. The physical connection when you are attracted to someone, coupled with a mental connection is for me the holy grail. There is also the human connection when you have both the physical and mental connection - "Human connection is when two or more people choose to engage in vulnerable interactions where each person is heard, seen, known and valued".

I agree that it is an excellent list! And I agree that when there is a mental as well as physical connection, then it’s the best!

Obviously you get to know each other more by repeating, you get to know a bit of each other’s private lives, there’s more intimacy, more topics of conversation, etc.

And when I enjoyed whole encounter (chemistry, sex, convo, cuddling, etc), then I tend to look forward to the next meeting (whenever that may be). Of course, we both know where the lines are drawn!

 

[neverbored]

I think that's a pretty good description of what I would consider a GFE. Remove money that sort of looks like how it would be with a "civilian".

 

[Fradi]

I have been seeing my ATF for close to 6 years regularly and another young lady occasionally for close to that also. They are both gorgeous and amazingly kind and thoughtful. If I was anywhere near her age I would be happy to be in a real relationship with her she is a fabulous young lady.
I never have to wonder if they will be available or will they want to see me.
I have lost count a long time ago how many times I have seen them I think the answer is always the same, not enough.
The reason is we are comfortable with each other she knows what I like goes out of her way to please me and I try to do the same for her we are friends.
We know a lot about each other nothing is awkward we can joke nobody is going to get insulted.
Nobody needs to check the clock.
It is never a case of I wonder if things will go well I know it will be fabulous.
Yes it is sometimes fun to see someone new but I prefer someone I know very well and really like as a person not just as a companion.
I think the best way to put it with them it is not just about sex but being with someone you trust someone you genuinely like and someone who has become a friend.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Chimie, complicité, ouverture d’esprit….
Ou bien un talent d’actrice exceptionnel!

 

[michaelduni]

But for me personally, I'm sure I'll get kinda bored after 4-5 meetings (at most) with the same provider and the desire for new girls is always greater at that point.

There is also a documented male behavior called the Coolidge effect (named after a US President), where the variety and meeting someone new becomes more and more important as we get older. It also happens with females but to a lesser extent. Ideally, you can have a strong connection even if you see each other only a few times, and this can then be enjoyable for both the male and the female. As already said, drawing lines and limits is important, and if there is a mismatch in expectations in terms of the longevity, then hopefully it can be handled gracefully.

 

[LC18]

Bringing this thread back to life

 

[marky mark]

My goal would be to find an SP I was happy enough with to repeat with longterm.
Things only get better on every level through time once a degree of familiarity and trust has been established.
And I'm sure I don't need to remind the SPs the first lesson in Business 101: The cornerstone to success in any business is the repeat customer.

 

[Mistral]

phenomenal head

 

[marky mark]

phenomenal head

Hard to argue with this one!

 

[David Sel et Poivre]

phenomenal head

and authentic chemistry

 

[MacDaddyBigBoss]

phenomenal head

This one hit it on the head lol

 

[Thor Jr]

There's two reasons i would repeat with any provider, first being, it was just an awesome experience, all boxes checked. And second would be, just to see if i missed anything the first time. Things may not have gone smoothly during first encounter due to any of a dozen reasons, like having a bad day, tired, etc. etc.

I believe in second chances, and if things go better the second time, then it was worth taking the chance.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I believe in second chances, and if things go better the second time, then it was worth taking the chance.

Yeah I have repeated in the past with a few girls because I had the feeling that on our first meeting, I missed something, maybe I was a bit off. But in the end it never really got any better.

 

[bodick7]

I believe in second chances, and if things go better the second time, then it was worth taking the chance.

I'm thinking about a third chance in a particular case.
She's such a nice girl, I would love to see the magic happen if she gets into it.