recent outcall user

[marky1234]

I used to always choose incall in the past and frankly i wasnt scared of just turning around when the lady behind the door wasnt to my taste. Recently i went outcall and had 3 excellent eperiences. The last one wasnt too happy: when i opened the door my first impression was that this girl needs an extreme makeover to maybe look good... i wanted to tell that the match wasnt good but i felt bad for the trouble she had to come over and finally i let her in. Session was very ordinary since i didnt felt the "wow factor". Would u have done the same? I need advise, just in case

 

[Numerati]

It happened to me once. I was reading the reviews of her here and the other board and they were all outstanding. In the back channels they were the same where there were about two/three didn't put her on a bright light as the majority but still stellar feedbacks. When I opened that door when that day arrived I didn't find her attractive at all. I did what I thought was the best and honorable thing to do. I gave her $40 for her troubles, sent her back and apologized to the agency since my time block would have taken away from someone who would wanted to see her.

Well put it this way it is a whole lot easier than rejecting some civie girl that is for sure! If you think rejecting a SP is terrible wait until you have to reject a "regular" girl who finds you great but the feeling was not mutual.

Don't feel bad really. It is actually about you and not the SP. The SP probably wouldn't give a two shit if you just let her go because you don't have that wow factor for her. There would be another replacing bro right around the corner. Just treat her with respect and send her back. No harm no foul.

 

[tiannas]

Awkward situation certainly, but personally I would rather not session with someone who doesn't want to be with me. Obviously the rejection will be uncomfortable, but I'm not going to take it personally. We are all unique with our own individual tastes.
As long as you offer the lady compensation for her travel, and you are polite when turning her away, you shouldn't feel bad. Realistically not everyone has tons of money to hobby and you should spend it on someone that you are truly interested on being with.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

If it was a B&S I would have asked her to leave without compensation. Paying even $20 to have her leave is wrong ( If falsely advertised ).

 

[tiannas]

I don't want to be the party pooper, and I agree with you advice but one main important thing. Don't assume the sp doesn't care.

I think that most girls are going to care. No one likes to be rejected, for many reasons.
But I still say I'd rather be turned away at the door than to actually have sex with someone who was didn't want to be with me and was only doing so out of a sense of obligation.

 

[Numerati]

I don't want to be the party pooper, and I agree with you advice but one main important thing. Don't assume the sp doesn't care. I can tell you for a fact that sometimes just a cancelled appointment on the phone will disapoint them. It always depends on the person and her attitude towards things in life, but she has various reasons to be upset : 1) it can make her feel not valuable, even (and maybe even more) if she doesn't value her customer ("this" guy doesn want "me"? kinda thing is possible) 2) It's a buiness disapointment : she expected work, a gig, she doens't have it anymore, so unless she was having a flag raised about the meeting, she won't be happy at that. 3) She wasted her time.

That being said, I don't want to guilt anyone of refusing, as it is the right thing to do. We're talking about intimate encounters that are, in the realm of general economy (and understandably so), quite expensive. It's not like you've bought the wrong lunch box, or had a burned burger, as both parties involvments are much greater.

Honestly I really hated having to head that route. For an hour or two I felt pretty shitty to the point I didn't want to see anyone that evening and it was my last night in Montreal as well. I could of easily called up another agency and see someone else. Yet that non-intended in her face cancellation killed the mood for myself. I guess this is what happens when you can't see her face pic(s). That body of hers looked amazing and she had a great personality btw. I just couldn't fall for the face. Maybe if this was a civilian encounter things would be different. In another parallel universe I guess.

 

[chowzilla]

I remember once I did not like the girl that showed up and I politely said that I was craving a certain body type, she was smart enough to know she wasn't that type... So she told me to message the booker as he is still outside and he will send someone else who is already waiting in the car. I got lucky that time as I don't think girls still sit in the car all day.

If she seemed bummed about it, I woulda given compensation
It's better to cut your losses at $40 than at $200+ plus you end on good terms with the booker and the girl