When does time start/end? How do you view your time duration with a sp?
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I've never used uber on my own. I get myself where I need to go, or I just don't go.Me too and to add Taxi / Uber is very expensive.
This is it in a nutshell, imo. When I worked in northern BC/ AB oilpatch, I had to drive an hour or longer to see a lady so pre-booked when I knew I would have plenty of time and made sure to get there plenty early (like 15- 20 mins). Then I would just find a place to park and wait until about 2-3 mins before my scheduled time to text her. Now, on occasion, I've had the lady text me and say she was ready early and ask if I wanted to come earlier. If I am nearby, absolutely I go for it. Heaven forbid I would leave a sexy, horny lady waiting, lol.
As for the end of the session, I am usually the one who pays attention and I try to go have my shower about 10 minutes before my time is up and get dressed and say my fare the wells. I don't need to count every minute of my paid time. Of course, there have been a few times where the two of us were just into each other and laying there cuddling and chatting just lose track of time. But I make an honest effort to be considerate of her time.
A car would cost me way more than a few Uber a month! That said, the use of Uber is limited.
In this city nowadays....parking is a real hassle.When ever I go somewhere I have to factor in 30-45 mins extra just to find parking. I'm sure my fellow Merbites who frequent YPG have this issue, since St-Catherine is closed for pedestrian traffic. Coming back to the issue at hand.....I would assume that the clock starts ticking when she walks through the door......
YPG is less than 5 minutes from a metro station. Highly recommend not going by car.
My point is, if anyone is worried about parking, being late, etc, just Uber. And not for nothing, I Uber all the time when I’m in Montreal, it’s not that expensive. I’d rather pay $15 and be on time and have zero stress, rather than worry about being late, not being able to find a place to park, having to walk 10 blocks after parking, possibly have to pay to park, etc. Everyone has to do what’s right for them, but to me, if you’re going to spend 500-1000-1500, what’s another 15 to assure yourself little to no stress. ♂️
For me it is simple, I take the metro. No worries for parking. Each time I went to XO incalls, I took the metro. Never been late.
Exactly!! I’m with you. Another great alternative to driving yourself; which was ultimately my point.
The simple answer has already been covered. If you're on time then you've got an hour from when you walk through the door. Lateness on the part of either party not to be used to penalize the other, regardless of the cause. Having said that, there's a degree of reasonableness that comes with proper social lubricants as well. If the idea is to have a friendly, relaxed atmosphere and an enjoyable session then there are some assumed and unspoken realities to be observed. You may be on your time but if the lady is 2 steps into the door and you say "right, strip and get on knees" before you say "hello, how are you?" there's a problem, even if you are on paid time. There's an amount of courtesy and simple respect involved. Likewise at the other end you're not going to throw the lady out at 60 mins on the dot so she can finish dressing and putting her makeup on in the hallway of your hotel. A reasonable and not abusive amount of time on either end may be extended by either or both parties. I highly suspect that most clients can be taken care of easily, seemlessly, and without them even being aware of it within 60 mins if the lady is practiced so it's not a problem anyway, but the problem is that some of the expected social niceties come at the expense of the guy, not the lady. Your 60 minutes needs to encompass everything, not just the sex. Ladies who understand this and who make allowances to make sure that both the landing and the takeoff are smooth leave a better impression on their clients and get more repeat business. This may on occasion require an extra 5 minutes or whatever is reasonable, with the key word being reasonable, and totally being at the provider's discretion. Time management is important. Doubtless rapport impacts this as well. I will say that anyone who uses an alarm with me will never, ever see me for another session. There is nothing more dehumanizing or detrimental to the overall feeling of the session than to have a phone alarm go off and for a girl to immediately stand up and say you time is ended. There are much better ways to manage time and guide the client.
Depends on the post alarm behaviour. I'm grateful for an alarm as I tend to lose total track of time and don't want to overstay. Similarly, I would imagine that in some cases the girl will lose track of time, and were it not for the alarm, it could get quite stressful for everyone.
I'd certainly rather an alarm than a clock watcher.
There are better, more diplomatic and tasteful ways than an alarm. For example, most men aren't averse to a little mood music. Having a music selection that lasts for a certain amount of time functions as an alarm. When the music is over then time is up. If the lady in question has a graceful exit phrase or two to go along with that then it's a much cleaner way to go. Having a variety of playlists to cater to musical tastes is easy and doesn't ruin the vibe. The client doesn't even have to know there's an alarm in this case. A xmas tree timer for a light is another way. There are others. That expression "good service is invisible" absolutely applies. Maybe even especially applies in this case. It doesn't have to be anything as jarring or as mood/ego killing as an audble alarm. This does put some extra onus of time management in the SP's hands, since if the client isn't aware then he needs to guided to a smooth takeoff at the end of the session, but the payoff is that he leaves feeling happier and more likely to rebook.
Yeah, but what about all the guys here who arrive and give the SP's 40 orgasms? No way those ladies will notice something like music stopping if they're on orgasm #39.
(in all seriousness, your ideas are good)
I'd love to take the credit, but they aren't my ideas. These are real world solutions used by some of the more forward thinking and classy SPs I've encountered. Usually just one of a series of personal touches used to ensure that clients are happy and comfortable, and that they return. It's never just one thing, but usually just a combination of little things that amount to great personal contact and customer service. This is just one thing, but for me it's an important thing. You've indicated that it's not a big deal for you, so probably doesn't matter, but maybe a bottle of water, or a hot towel, or a short message after the fact thanking you, or a minor compliment or whatever may be important and makes the difference. Small touches matter, and people who pay attention to the little details get rewarded.
Now, as to the 40 orgasm thing, that's a great example of the client paying attention to the little details that make the lady happy. If you give her 40 orgasms I guarantee that you're going to get rewarded too. Once she can walk again. lol
I think it would be helpful to let your clients know it may be difficult to find parking in the area.
Some providers explicitly mention on their sites that parking is easily accessible (eg. South Shore).
Is that what they teach you in business school? That’s why there is no correlation between having a successful business and having graduated from business school.
You’re making a mountain out of a mole hill. This is a very simple problem. Just show up on time. It’s not the provider’s fault nor responsibility to be sure you are on time or to compensate you for your time lost when tardy.
Only if the provider is late should she be required to make it up to you. You mentioned several times you didn’t say anything when that happened. Well, you should. Any sensible business person would understand the reasoning. And if she didn’t, then she would not be worth your time in the future.
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