Relationship SP-client

[Jade xoxo]

I don’t know if the question had been asked before. I’m new here


As a client, could you see yourself in a relationship with a woman you met like an SP?

As an SP ( girls I want your input on this ), could you be in a relationship with someone you met like a client ?

* English is not my first language

 

[Bb122]

Yes…but only one.

 

[LeDodo]

You can check this Thread

 

[Halloween Mike]

As a client, could you see yourself in a relationship with a woman you met like an SP?

Yes for sure. If i get along super well with the person and she would like for us to be close, personally i wouldn't mind if she continue to do her job. I personally would have free sex with her so that mean surely more than i have right now lol and on top i would have someone cool to do stuff with. I will admit tough i would wish she would not ask me to never see an SP tough... I guess if she would, i would do it, but hopefully she would allow me to, and who knows maybe even do trios with her and an SP lol.

That said, this is 99.9999 unlikely to happen as i am not the kinda guy to attrack SPs...

 

[jeffmathers]

I don’t know if the question had been asked before. I’m new here


As a client, could you see yourself in a relationship with a woman you met like an SP?

As an SP ( girls I want your input on this ), could you be in a relationship with someone you met like a client ?

* English is not my first language

Yes I could see myself like that. I'm neurodivergent and a lot of SPs have a similar neurodivergence to me. A lot of femmes in general have to deal with misogyny but the levels of misogyny SPs face in civilian dating is even higher. I don't want to date any of the SPs that I know outside of work (the ones I know their real names and actually know them) but I wish all of them were able to find the sort of civilian relationship they want whether that be two partners in a D.I.N.K. (double income no kids) situation, or the variety of other civilian relationships that exist. The same way some ethnicities have essentially zero positive representation in media (that contributes to racism) there is very little humanizing media when it comes to SPs or even civilian women that have unusually high numbers of partners.

If someone wanted to be in a double income situation that would work with me in the present as I am currently unable to fully support another person but I could imagine in the next 5 years roughly being in a position to help financially support someone in a civilian setting. Life is hard and I'm aware some providers don't really want to be in the industry. I'm also aware that being judged, reviews, and other aspects of the industry are challenging in ways that I can't fully know beyond what people I know in real life outside of their job tell me. I both have privilege and lack privilege. I've heard many people say there are many benefits to healthy civilian relationships. I believe if someone was analytically minded like me and was down for direct communication and boundary setting along the way a healthy relationship could exist.

One benefit of being in a civilian relationship with an SP is there's a chance they'd be more understanding of some of my platonic friendships and less likely to be a SWERF (Sex Work Exclusionary Radical Feminist) when it comes to some of the people I know.

I'm a homeowner and was born in the mid 90s. I hope to one day find someone to grow old with and assuming they outlive me provide them with a safety net for when I'm no longer alive to assist.

 

[David Sel et Poivre]

Yes, I'm sure that it can happen...

 

[kkrack]

I have been out with many girls, but I quickly lost interest because of her work. Didn't care how hot they were.

When they left that line of work, you have trust issues, meaning you think of her of keep doing that on the side given they have already done it.

If you value a traditional relationship which is the only relationship I can see myself in, it's a no go.

For me if I wanted to pass time seeing a girl who would do that on the side I would do it, but wouldn't care if it ended nor would I do efforts.

In the past 2 years I was seeing a girl who had a boyfriend, I found out later and told her to keep seeing his boyfriend, I didn't care. Even dropped her home and told her not to forget to tell him he loved him. She wanted to leave the guy and be with me, I thought that we would end the relationship the same way we started.

Then an SP asked me a few weeks ago to be her boyfriend, even if she was being and SP and also had a boyfriend, I told her no for the same reasons. After a while she became more demanding asking for stuff and tried to establish a boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic. Saw I resisted like hell and she went nuts on me.

So for me it's impossible to take a promiscuous woman seriously. Women get a gazillion requests per day so if it is so easy for them to spread their legs I can expect to be dumped the second they find something better. Really hard to build trust with those parameters.

 

[curious2012]

Yes.....but as a friend with benefits

 

[NoPantiesAllowed]

I totally would date my regular for sure! We connect so well when we see each other, we even go out dinner before our rendezvous.

I had other girls as well trying to convince me we are a good match, but after a few weeks they became too confortable asking me if I was seeing others girls and getting mad if a i did. Had to remind them we are nothing, only client / provider, she also got mad when I told her that lol!

@Jade xoxo tu peux aussi poster en français si tu veux!

 

[Jade xoxo]

If someone wanted to be in a double income situation that would work with me in the present as I am currently unable to fully support another person but I could imagine in the next 5 years roughly being in a position to help financially support someone in a civilian setting. Life is hard and I'm aware some providers don't really want to be in the industry. I'm also aware that being judged, reviews, and other aspects of the industry are challenging in ways that I can't fully know beyond what people I know in real life outside of their job tell me. I both have privilege and lack privilege. I've heard many people say there are many benefits to healthy civilian relationships. I believe if someone was analytically minded like me and was down for direct communication and boundary setting along the way a healthy relationship could exist.


I'm a homeowner and was born in the mid 90s. I hope to one day find someone to grow old with and assuming they outlive me provide them with a safety net for when I'm no longer alive to assist.

I don’t know for all the others SP but some of us have another job, another income

 

[Doc Holliday]

Yes why not? Been there, done that as they say. One of the most stable relationships i ever had was with an sp & it went extremely well. We had an open relationship, were 100% honest with one another, we were not looking for more than what it was, we were 100% transparent & zero jealousy. We actually encouraged one another to sleep with other people & enjoyed telling one another stories about some of our funniest & strangest encounters. On the other hand i’ve been in a few other similar relationships but it was totally different. She was either jealous or possessive, i could be also, we weren’t transparent, she or i had different expectations, we keep many secrets for one another, etc…so the relationships didn’t last very long because it was too obvious it would never work. Sure the free sex was great but there’s more to life & happiness than just free sex.

 

[Zzyzx]

I didnt think so but it seems to be happening anyway

 

[clemieux6]

I think I could, currently I have a sub who also does sugar baby thing on the side. We talk about it openly and it turns me on.

Theres that kink side of me that enjoys sharing his partner with someone who we feel that deserves her.

 

[jeffmathers]

I don’t know for all the others SP but some of us have another job, another income

Yeah some do. Your first language is French? In English "D.I.N.K." refers to two people with jobs instead of one person with two jobs.

 

[LookAlike]

Yeah some do. Your first language is French? In English "D.I.N.K." refers to two people with jobs instead of one person with two jobs.

DINK = Double Income No Kids