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Is This A Red Flag | Appreciate Any Input
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Come on. Not a red flag at all. You’ve seen each other multiple times. She trusts you to meet on your terms at your hotel.
What comes to mind is the big bad wolf being afraid of Little Red Riding Hood!
Yeah but ...
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Thanks very much, Julia. I always appreciate your input and others here in MERB xoxo. You guys are the best. I think I am just being paranoid for paranoid's sake after being scammed through Leolist before joining MERB lol. You are right, chemistry was good not because not because she worked in an agency. Thanks so much Julia and others. I will see her and post how it went.
Thanks Halloween Mike, appreciate the detailed advice. Yeah, I am just being paranoid lol. I will keep your advice in mind and ask for the money back if he says I forgot something in the car. I hope she doesn't. Because she knows I will see her whenever I am in town which is pretty much every month. Thanks again!I had times when i texted agencies and didn't specify duration, sometimes they would ask, but most would not, as they are either used to me booking 1h or they consider unless stated otherwise that 1h is the standard. Now if you say you met her 6 times and 5 out of those 6 were 90m, she likely assumed it would be 90m. Why not reconfirm with her the duration, that way you will be sure.
I don't understand what "reg flag/danger" there could be if you sure you are really in contact with the right person. Worst than can happen is she ghost you... wich sure would suck, but thats why Plan B are important. But no an indy escort won't show up at your hotel with 2 big guys and try to rob you... lol. If these set ups may happen, they always happen in incall where they have "home advantage".
Just be aware that "i forget something in the car" is 98% of the time "i won't be back, you just got robbed". So if you pay in advance, if that was to happen, ask her to give back the payment. And don't accept a purse as "deposit" as i read in the past they would have no problem losing a cheap purse they probably paid 2$ at goodwill with a pack of smoke almost empty and a couple kleenex
But seriously if you seen her already multiple times, i don't see why she would do anything shady. She probably want to keep you as client...
Come to my room any day!! HOT
Yes, paranoid. Thought rdv was yesterday. Or are you trolling? Of course clarify details beforehand. There’s also a long thread on that, by Lena Cartier I believe
OH noo, I am not trolling I am being genuine and serious. I am meeting her next Thurday. Paranoia got the better of me. Thanks so much, I will check the thread by Lena Cartier.
My guess is that she doesn’t mind learning how long you want her to stay once she gets there or figures you’ll tell her the mext time you get in touch. One thing i learned when i continued seeing an sp who was no longer working for an agency was that she had a lot more free time than she used to & didn’t have to be rushed out of your place to hurry & see another client. In my case it was usually an hour unless i asked if she could stay longer when she arrived. More often than not it was sure whatever how long i wanted her to stay. Other times she couldn’t stay longer or could only stay for 30-60 minutes since she had made other plans like going away for the weekend.
A member raised safety concerns and sought advice, but instead of being supported, his inquiries were challenged by others. Whether he's overly cautious or paranoid is irrelevant; his concerns deserve respect and proper consideration. It’s disappointing to see members dismiss his questions and respond with unnecessary comments, especially after he has gone above and beyond to express his concerns. I agree with him that his worries may stem from previous negative experiences or patterns observed in other members posts. It’s important that we foster a respectful environment where members feel safe to voice their concerns without fear of being attacked or challenged.
Thanks so much for your kind words, Obvio. Always appreciate your advice. I have no issues explaining myself and I really appreciate everyone's advice. May be others thought I am being too paranoid.
I don’t think he was attacked by anyone.
It would however be kind of smart to ask the lady her rate and let her know how long you want the session to be.
This is essential information for both client and SP surprised neither made it a point to ask. Good communication is essential on both sides.
As far as red flag, no I don’t see any, he has seen her 5-6 times before and all was good and he is meeting her in his hotel room not some shady unknown area of Montreal of her choosing.
It would however be kind of smart to ask the lady her rate and let her know how long you want the session to be.
This is essential information for both client and SP surprised neither made it a point to ask. Good communication is essential on both sides.
As far as red flag, no I don’t see any, he has seen her 5-6 times before and all was good and he is meeting her in his hotel room not some shady unknown area of Montreal of her choosing.
How long and how much? Because indies maintain everything by themselves, so their donations are different then agency's donations.
Oh gees:
maybe this ... maybe that ... not sure if ... what if ... do you think ... I'm not sure etc etc
My friend you are way overthinking all this when it can rapidly be clarified just by contacting the lady HERSELF.
A friendly 2 minute chit-chat and you will clarify price, time and any other issues or questions you may have.
And don't worry, she will probably greatly appreciate your call and your meeting will just go smoother without all these questions at the beginning of the encounter.
Enjoy yourself
maybe this ... maybe that ... not sure if ... what if ... do you think ... I'm not sure etc etc
My friend you are way overthinking all this when it can rapidly be clarified just by contacting the lady HERSELF.
A friendly 2 minute chit-chat and you will clarify price, time and any other issues or questions you may have.
And don't worry, she will probably greatly appreciate your call and your meeting will just go smoother without all these questions at the beginning of the encounter.
Enjoy yourself
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I just found out she is with a different agency now and she didn't mention this. So not sure what to do? I think she is bypassing the agency.
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Its not a rare thing that an SP who is with a new agency will keep seeing old regulars by her own methods. An agency is not a contract. They basically offer incalls and advertising for the SPs. Thats it. Altough it surely is questionable to take advantage of an agency networking and give a private number to any Joe, if its a client that she has been seeing for a while and they already booked between themselves, there is no requirement for her to tell him to contact the agency. Its a client she already had, and if they have their own way (either an hotel, a house or some other incall she can use) then whats the issue. She does not have to take a cut by passing by the agency for a client she already had.
Ah, this makes total sense. Thanks for the detailed explanation. There's nothing to worry then.
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