Reviews: Are you concerned about Harm/Danger???

[korbel]

Hello all,

I had two absolutely marvelous encounters during my last trip. One was an intense liberal pornstar fantasy extraordinaire. Anyone, even a bad writer, writing a review about the experience would probably make mouths drool from the Gulf of Mexico to Hudson's Bay. Wheeew, the lady makes me want to howl...well...the other one too...lol. The problem is I am learning more from the board and personal contacts about the abusive creeps out there, and though this lady is game for a lot I am concerned about what an accurate review might encourage or be taken as an excuse by the worse sort of clients. Though I would leave out the more lurid details I am hesitating to write this time because I am worried about being the cause of abuse. Such things can and have happened to ladies regardless of how liberal they may be, it gets difficult to say it's not me who put the lady in harm's way, it's her choice to be in this work and the abuser is completely responsible for any actions.

Well, I have a feeling I know what's coming. But...I wonder if anyone else has ever been hesitant to review for the same reasons? Even If I know the lady and the agency are fine with the review is their consent all that matters?

???

Korbel

 

[AllOverHer]

If you think some details shouldn't be mentioned then don't. But you answered your own qustion that both the agency and the lady are ok with a review. Don't forget that it's always YMMV even with the sure GFE.

 

[rollingstone]

This is easy, if you have doubts about writing a review, don't. I am guessing many SPs welcome the publicity that a review gets. Personally I only write one if she asks me to write one. That might be frowned upon but I hardly care. If you received a service she does not advertise or is not known to offer (e.g. CIM, Greek, face fucking....etc), I would just leave it out.

However, if you are thinking of her as a delicate person who would only have this sort of wild session with you and could be different with other people, you could be underestimating her.

 

[korbel]

However, if you are thinking of her as a delicate person who would only have this sort of wild session with you and could be different with other people, you could be underestimating her.

Hello Rollingstone,

Not at all. She loves many things. Of course there is still a bit of YMMV with any lady depending on the client, but she loves it. Still, having heard some crazy things recently one wonders how far some kook might actually try to push even broad boundaries. I am sure many of us have read and heard about some dangerous sickos in the hobby. It's troubling how much farther some might go when given permission to go far enough.

Hmmmm,

Korbel

 

[Lion Heart]

Of course there is still a bit of YMMV with any lady depending on the client, but she loves it. Still, having heard some crazy things recently one wonders how far some kook might actually try to push even broad boundaries.

As a rule, I'd probably leave out of a review any aspect that go beyond the usual services for which a lady is known for from their websites, advertising posts or reviews. I woudn't worry much about the "weirdo" factor...these characters don't need your inspiration for acting as loosers. But you probably don't want to create undue pressure on someone for a specific service delivery that could indeed fall into the YMMV category. In many cases, SPs have asked me to leave out certain details (such as CIM) just because they don't want to have to respond to a "why did you do this with HIM and aren't you willing to do this with me?".

This being said, in the specific case of the provider you're refering to, since I know who she is, I wouldn't worry too much. She's well known to go beyond GFE boundaries and to especially appreciate the "specialty" you're refering to. She freely, openly and frequently talks about it when you meet her (I saw her 3 times myself). I don't think either the agency manager or her would mind that you talked about it, on the contrary, especially knowing your gentlemanship and very good taste in your choice of words. You can ultimately check with them if you want if you're dying to get the story out.

Lion Heart

 

[Shiver MeTimber]

Hi Korbel,

If the lady in question has had prior reviews,and possibly some containing lurid details, I'm not sure how yours would fuel any further deviant behavior from the abusive creatures. Wouldn't they have already zeroed in on her as a target?

Nice to see your concern

Now c'mon Korbel...........spill those Boston Beans.........LOL

Cheers,

SMT