Sad day :(

[Amelie.courtesan]

Today a long time regular did not show up... knowing him I was instantly worried something hapened. He would not have just been a no show.

Turns out this young man died suddenly last weekend.
The obituary just says suddenly, I have no way of getting more information or say goodbye. Really I was just a secret little part of his life.

I am at a loss for words. I do not know what his merb mame was but I know he read my ad on here... and was also seing a good friend of mine regularly.

I just want to say you will be missed and you were way too young to go

 

[Stroman]

You have my sincere condolences.

Big Hugs for you.

 

[2458p]

You can't contact the family and tell them you were good friend with him ( if you feel like getting more info about the tragedy )?

My thoughts are with his family and friends. Life is short, so enjoy it to the fullest folks.

 

[Ricky bonds]

R.i.p to this young gentleman, and him being a member of the board, it's a loss for us all.
I am sorry for your loss amelie

 

[zmontreal]

An absolutely wonderful person, huge loss both to the board and to all of the SPs he's seen

 

[marc7]

Life happens sometimes in its worst !
Gros Câlin Amélie

 

[SilverDust]

Sorry for your loss Amelie and to the board.. Rip.... My Sweet https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELOe3f-hihc

 

[Amelie.courtesan]

I barely slept, this is really affecting me a lot.
Thank you all for the kind words, I really hope he knew how much we cared!

 

[wolfie7]

Sad. Especially for someone young.

Somewhat highlights the very temporary and fleeting nature of our relationships in this hobby, no? As mentioned, a very secret part of many of our lives. With the exception of a very few number of real friends, we do just vanish without a trace... Gotta live in the moment, and enjoy every bits of happiness we can catch.

I'm sorry for your loss, Amelie.

 

[Doc Holliday]

Sad. Especially for someone young.

Somewhat highlights the very temporary and fleeting nature of our relationships in this hobby, no? As mentioned, a very secret part of many of our lives. With the exception of a very few number of real friends, we do just vanish without a trace... Gotta live in the moment, and enjoy every bits of happiness we can catch.

I'm sorry for your loss, Amelie.

Absolutely correct, Wolfie and my deepest sympathies to Amelie.

Just the other day an sp that i saw told me that a former sp at her agency had passed away over a week ago. We were discussing relationships we sometimes make in this business. When she told me the name, i remembered seeing her once. Very popular sp at one time. The physical and personal description we discussed were very similar. Later that day, i spoke about this to a friend of mine who has lots of contacts in the business and he told me it was impossible since he had corresponded with that sp a day earlier. I was relieved. So i'm left wondering if what the sp i saw had been told by her colleagues or booker was false info, or if it was simply a case of mistaken identity.

p.s. People shouldn't bother pm'ing me for info since i won't reply. No need to spread false rumours since the info the sp got may have been incorrect or misleading.

 

[Amelie.courtesan]

Sad. Especially for someone young.

Somewhat highlights the very temporary and fleeting nature of our relationships in this hobby, no? As mentioned, a very secret part of many of our lives. With the exception of a very few number of real friends, we do just vanish without a trace... Gotta live in the moment, and enjoy every bits of happiness we can catch.

I'm sorry for your loss, Amelie.

That is what is flooring me the most.
I truly considered this man a friend, and I know Zoe did as well... and I'm sure a few other SPs, who may not even know he passed away, do too.
But we cannot go to his wake, we can just send him our prayers in secret

 

[Amelie.courtesan]

Sorry for your loss Amelie,

if you know the date can't you just try to look up under the necrology section? Might me some info there ...people usually post the picture of their lost in first page.

Mes condoléances à tous ses proches.

The only info out there is that he died suddenly

 

[cobra1]

sad indeed, mes condoléances to amelie and others who
know him,i did not but by want you've said, he was nice to sp's,
it comes back to him by you praising that.
prayers to his family.

 

[iSpartacus]

Scary. I've thought about this kind of possibility and how it would feel for me or those closest to me in the hobby if this kind of thing happened since I keep a close guard on my personal information and those I know do the same. This part of our lives may be hidden to most but it gets so intense and important in it's way. I've worried about never knowing what happened to my best friends connected with this business and them not knowing about me so I have made arrangements just in case. If I hadn't I'd feel like I hadn't treated my friends like real people. It's tougher with escorts because though I have felt very close at times I worry about getting too personal with them.

 

[johnybird]

So sorry that you lost someone that you were so close to, especially that he died unexpectedly. Those are the hardest to sink it and get over, it always feels so surreal.

Must be frustrating not to be able to get any information or go to his wake, but have comfort in the fact that you brought him happiness. You don't have to go to the wake to say goodbye, as private and intimate as your time was with him, your goodbye can be the same.

Hopefully you can get some kind of closure realizing that since he was supposed to see you yesterday, he was probably in a happy place in his last moments :smile:

 

[Doggyluver]

I barely slept, this is really affecting me a lot.
Thank you all for the kind words, I really hope he knew how much we cared!

Just the fact that you really did care about him, I am sure he knew that you were friends and did care about him. Life is too short for all of us and shorter for some who pass unfortunately early, the best we can hope for is that the people who came in and out of our lives realized that we we cared for them no matter how short the time they were a part of our lives. Far too often we t5ake for granted the people who are small parts of our lives without realizing how we might have affected them. Please to all of you, a random act of kindness towards a stranger every day and treat everyone you come into contact with every day the way you would like them to treat you and your loved ones.

I feel your pain Amelie, I too have lost friends far too soon, the pain will pass, the pleasant memories will last a lifetime

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I am so sorry Amelie, it is hard to find out someone is gone and not able to reach out and since he was young that is not even something you worried about.

I often worry about that, my dates dying and how I might not even know...
Because of my demographic preference, I often worry that the reason I do not hear from them is because they are dead.
One of my favorite I actually asked him to make sure I get notified and I did the same.
If something was to happen to me I asked a special friend to tell on the various board I am a last farewell and then to erase my Lily persona as much as she can...
I used to have a favorite who was a bit older then me and once in a while I would ask for a ''sign of life'' to reassure me...
That's part of the reason I enjoy getting a hello in between meetings...

 

[zeddig]

Amelie, know that you brought a lot of happiness to your friend. You would have made a huge difference to the quality of his life. Sometimes the affection guys recieve from the ladies on the board (as short as it may be ) would perhaps represent their sole happiness in a life that can sometimes be unbearably lonely and difficult. You made a difference to him and for this you must reflect on the good memories that you shared.

 

[MtlNewbie]

at least you were for sure a source of pleasure and enjoyment in his life.

 

[oldbutartful]

An old European saying "only the good die young" , At least you will know you gave him pleasure in the later part of his life. As we get older our acquaintances become less, its a sad fact of life.