SC norms

[whitesoxs]

hi all
i would like to know if this happens to anyone else
i have gone to a few SC,the girls would come over to see me and the girl would sit for a minute,she would ask right away if i want a dance.
if i so no they leave,but then i notice that the same girl would go to someone else and would sit there for awhile with the guy,at that the end she doesn't dance for the guy.
is this the norm?
whitesoxs

 

[Regular Guy]

So what!

hi all
i would like to know if this happens to anyone else
i have gone to a few SC,the girls would come over to see me and the girl would sit for a minute,she would ask right away if i want a dance.
if i so no they leave,but then i notice that the same girl would go to someone else and would sit there for awhile with the guy,at that the end she doesn't dance for the guy.
is this the norm?
whitesoxs

Yes but I am not going to try and guess what is going through a stripper's head except to say that she is constantly calculating the odds. The other guy could be a regular. She might have sized him up as a player at first. There might be some chemistry on her part and she just likes his type. She might have typecast him according to his appearance. Don't take it personally. I will say this though: believe inside that you don't really give a f__k. And mean it. You will get the attention at some point. Believe it! For them there are bucks at stake here.

 

[master_bates]

There's no such thing as normal or abnormal.

Each girl is different and works in different ways.

Bottom line they are there to make money and you're not forced to be with her.

Once she leaves your table who cares on what she does or who she sits with

 

[AllOverHer]

hi all
i would like to know if this happens to anyone else
i have gone to a few SC,the girls would come over to see me and the girl would sit for a minute,she would ask right away if i want a dance.
if i so no they leave,but then i notice that the same girl would go to someone else and would sit there for awhile with the guy,at that the end she doesn't dance for the guy.
is this the norm?
whitesoxs

so mnay factors but you really want to know why? might hurt your feelings !

 

[mtwallet]

Maybe you don't seem like an easy mark. Maybe she doesn't think you will spend too much money on her. Who knows. Who cares. I find that the ones who just ask right away for a dance, without making any small talk, tend to be duds anyway. All cash, no talent at seduction. For them it's just a job. B-O-R-I-N-G! You never know what makes a dancer stay and chat. I've gone into clubs after work without even changing my clothes and had girl sit with me for 45 minutes, just because she liked my eyes. Don't take any of a dancers behaviour personally. For the most part they are just actresses playing a role.