She’s a texter and a clock watcher

[LC18]

What are your views on providers that use their phone during a session? Other than to set up a timer or music.

Do you tell her that it’s rude?

Do you just finish and never repeat?

Do you just don’t care at all?

I personally do not touch my phone at all, I set the music before you arrive so that you can have my full attention. I do have a subtle timer to make sure we do not exceed our time. I’m not a clock watcher either so often people ask me “how much time is left?” and I have no idea so that would be the only time I would allow myself to touch my phone during a booking.


As per usual, your answers are always helpful. Please note that I used she/her to simplify the text.

 

[Sylar]

It really depends on how she conducts herself. I believe that there are a few (rare) occasions where looking at the phone or even texting is warranted i.e. emergency.
If the provider is telling me at the start of the session that there is something urgent and she might look at her phone, I am good with it. If she just stares at the timer and counts down the minute out loud during the entire session or texts during doggy, that's a no-no.

 

[tishina]

I expect there to be an text early on in the meeting which I have always suspected is something like a safety check-in. But other than that one and updating music, I prefer there to be no phone use.
I am paying for someone's time and attention. But if they have a good reason, (life happens at my work too) I can work with that.

But if it were egregious, I'd finish and likely not repeat.

As for clocks, I like it better when they set alarms.

 

[LC18]

or texts during doggy, that's a no-no.

Has someone ever done that? :O

 

[Sylar]

Has someone ever done that? :O

Haha, no neither the countdown nor the texting in doggy. I was exaggerating and in general had very few clock watchers, if any.
And to be honest, at that point I would probably grab my own phone and text her just to see what happens.

 

[LC18]

But if they have a good reason, (life happens at my work too) I can work with that.

Yes that too, very valid. If they let you know at the beginning “sorry my grandma is sick and I might receive a call from the hospital, is it ok with you?”

 

[sg8181]

I don't have any problem with someone keeping an eye on the time, but have a clock in the room somewhere that you can glance at instead. Picking up the phone mid-session takes us both out of it.

Texting is a turn-off if it's mid-session, for sure. If you have to get some business out of the way near the beginning, that's no big deal.

 

[Gazoo64]

If an SP is constantly checking her phone and texting, then I’ll finish and never repeat.

But I am reasonable. With an agency SP, it’s normal for them to text the booker when I arrive. With the regulars I see, it’s acceptable during a break if they excuse themselves to quickly check their phone or send a quick text. If we have good chemistry, they sometimes ask me and it’s totally fine.

What’s not acceptable (and has happened to me once!) it’s when during a break, the girl is sitting away from me and constantly texting and acting as if I am not even there. 2-3 times during the encounter she checked her phone for a few minutes without acknowledging me. Obviously it was a no repeat for me. Thankfully it rarely happens!

 

[LC18]

What’s not acceptable (and has happened to me once!) it’s when during a break, the girl is sitting away from me and constantly texting and acting as if I am not even there. 2-3 times during the encounter she checked her phone for a few minutes without acknowledging me. Obviously it was a no repeat for me. Thankfully it rarely happens!

I cannot imagine if you have paid for it. My friends often do that when we are out having lunch, what I hate the most is that they won’t even say “sorry I have to reply to this”, they just do and stop listening to what I’m saying. I find it to be one of the rudest things can do while having lunch/dinner

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

After the first 5 minutes the phone should be put down and silent. If not, I tell her upfront, and probably won’t repeat.

 

[Rebaynia]

Personally I just message my master that I am paid, and set the timer at 1hr. Then the phone goes away.. That's the last of the business aspect. I don't count my cleanup time before I leave as part of their time, I count it as part of my own time, just before they get their hug and kiss goodbye.

The timer is so I don't have to look at the time.. I want to forget the time and enjoy the visit, especially when a good visit can feel like time flew by so fast, and I can avoid a bad visit (one I'm not enjoying even if he is) from being worse by knowing when the time is up the phone will sound and I can then avoid ever seeing him again.

It is rude in my opinion to be working on planning a next visit while I am on time with this one who is the priority for this period of time. I also find it rude while I am there and he goes on his phone in-between, during the rest moments. It makes me want to leave, I don't, but I want to, it's disrespectful.

Sure I may receive notifications... everything sounds the same be it clients texting, weather warnings, or games telling me I'm full on lives to play lol... I ignore them all until the visit is done and I am back in the car. Their volume is low, but I can't put the phone on silent.. I don't remember to take it off silent and I just wont be aware anyone is trying to contact me if I do. Though ringer is set to almost off because people rarely read profiles and I got fed up with being woken up in the middle of the night. Text only so I can contact them back when I am available to.

 

[Kenshiro2029]

Has someone ever done that? :O

lol yes and texting the boyfriend. True story!

 

[Fradi]

I have never had that happen to me, I guess I would just probably ignore it and never see her again or if it was really bad and constant then just walk out and call it a day.
No sense in getting upset over someone who is rude best is just to never see her again.

 

[wiinston17]

Considering that the SP is on the job, despite being self-employed, it's still very rude especially given the sensitive nature of the interaction. I see it like having a session with a therapist or private tutor and having them constantly being on the phone. To me, interactions like those are a huge waste of money. I don't mind them glaring at their phones or texting once or twice (I'm considerate as well, if it's a longer session, it's understandable) but more than that and it's a no repeat for me.

 

[LC18]

On the other hand, I have a few clients that simply cannot ignore their phone when we are together because their time with me is a “business meeting” or a “meeting with a client”, so they’re technically at the office.

I just turn the music off and let them resume their conversation. However, the timer is unfortunately not on pause.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

When I am with a provider, whatever happens outside, can wait an hour. If I am in an unexpected extended rendez-vous, it is normal for both of us, to have to check, near the one hour mark, if some matters needs attention.

 

[hob12]

My phone usually stays in my pants, which are somewhere on the floor so I don't check it during the session at all.

I kinda don't mind if she checks the time once in a while. I have a very good sense of time personally, but in the heat of the action I can lose track. I like to know I have 20-15min left so I can let it all out.

 

[neverbored]

0 repeat. The phone goes on mute during the session.
To be honest, I'm the same at the restaurant as well. Unless a "really" important call is expected, I don't want to see a phone period.

 

[Carfan]

0 repeat. The phone goes on mute during the session.
To be honest, I'm the same at the restaurant as well. Unless a "really" important call is expected, I don't want to see a phone period.

Checking the phone and texting at a restaurant or in bed is on a different level from the GFE, it is the WE (Wife Experience)!

 

[Thor Jr]

I can actually go a day or more without my phone. I do not have data, call waiting or voicemail. Its a phone and nothing else for me. I do not have my phone in sessions with SPs, nor MPs. Restaurants, don't need it, and never, ever do i bring my phone on the golf course. The way i see it, if its that important, it will still be important in 5 hours. If someone has died, well, they will still be dead in 5 hours and nothing i could of done about it.

When an SP starts treating her phone like its more important than me, then i have a problem. And no offense ladies, i really don't like an alarm, i understand an hour is an hour but not everything needs to be that way. Some ladies really take advantage of the time, Rebaynia has the perfect attitude, and there has been a lot of ladies like her.

Its a shame when your looking forward to the end of the hour before it has even started. I guess i have been on a few dates like that.

I have told a few ladies, " put the phone away or you can leave now".

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