Some of my ideas on this.
There are many of us on this board, myself included who lash out with anger (those who've read my posts atacking Montreal in the past knows what I'm talking about). Many here do it by starting flaming wars, attacking others on the board, expresiing negative comments towards others and how do we react? We attack them back creating more of the anger and hatetred they already have. In essance we are creating our own monsters. I'm not saying don't defend yourself when attacked personally, but we need to try and understand these people. When we see posts expressing hatetred towards a city, a province, a group of people based on language race, religion, etc how about asking them why they feel that way, try understanding them instead of attacking them. There's plenty of hurt emotions and experiances behind those expressing these statements.
Big Daddy Cool
I love reading your post because it is essential the point you made about loneliness and unecessarily hurting and attacking and bullying people. As you said when we mistreat people, ''we are creating Monsters''.
I can see how someone would just snap/lose it and began hurting everyone around them.
Been an outsider can be very very painful at times, because we expericence social/cultural loneliness and sometimes communication loneliness ( when we dont speak the languages ) and no one speak with you if you have a thick accent. Been around people is a basic physical and essential need, and if are alone a lot, it hurts to be alone. I remember people not wanting to talk with me because of my accent. But fortunately I am a girl therefore I was not socialised to go around shooting neither hurting people. After my University experience where my accent was not as strong I notice people became much nicer to me, I read that as a classe prejugment. That means what? when I had a ''weird accent'' I was not good enough ?
Imagem what is like to look Arabe in a world where the image of the arabe descendent people have been painted in a very negative view point by the media lately ? How can people go on being so mistreated ?
Quebec has a very high suicide rate among males, this is to me beyond weird.
Are the male population in Quebec hurting so much that they have to contemplate dying ?
What would make someone become so alianated from humanity that they would coldly contemplate hurting people ? Are some of us hurting people around us that badly ?
Kenverr Gill complaneid of bullying and did not had many friends, I guess this is a clue but not sufficiente reason to do what he did.
I think Video games and Moves with more violence than dialogue can be dangerous because it devalue humain life, specially for people who grow up with parents that do not have time to teach their kids the difference between right and wrong.
Also the internet make people more socially isolated from others because it gives us all the illusion of ''community'', when in fact it is not a community but an eletronic highway board messages.
I have taken courses at Dawson College and it is because I know this is a peacefull crowd of students, my first thought when I heard about this tragedy was desbilief. But the look in the face of the students told me, no this is serious.