We know that being an SP is a tough job.
However IMHO there are a couple of very small things that SPs can do, that show clients respect, and which in the end can make things nicer for both of you and are guaranteed to build you repeat business.
1. Don't go for the cash until the appointment is over.
Many girls who have worked the street or for disreputable firms take and count the money before starting. With reputable agencies that is not necessary. Just glance over and make sure it is there.
2. Do your makeup and bathroom stuff before arriving.
A client generally has only 50 minutes in his hour, the last 10 minutes being the girl's shower time.
If you spend 15 minutes in the bathroom you are chewing up a third of his time. A girl has ten minutes of shower time at the end of the call to prepare for the next appointment. Most clients won't mind if you want to stay a couple of minutes extra to get your makeup just right.
3. Turn off your cell. And no texting.
I know all kids do this.... but its disrespectful.
4. Stay the whole 50 minutes.
You've blown the guy, he has sweated all over you and messed your hair up. If you have gone this far...why bother trying to slip into the shower 10 minutes early?
Take the last couple of minutes to wash him up, rub his back or cuddle.Those louzy couple of minutes set the tone for the entire meeting. If you do them right, your client will dream about you and repeat with you and the agency until his Visa card is full.....
5. Don't do anything that makes the client feel like you are a wh@re
The best part of GFE is imagining that you really are a girlfriend. So never discuss money with a client unless you absolutely have to. If, for example, you ask for a tip, he will never think of you again in any terms except as a prostitute. If you want more money just raise your hourly rate.
6. Never go see a client that you are not comfortable with.
You might be able to fake a good time for someone you don't care about. But you can't fake it with someone you dislike or are disgusted with. If you feel uncomfortable with a client, he will feel it. And if he is uncomfortable then you will feel even worse. A bad meeting has a way of staying in your memory for days and sometimes weeks. This is a hard hobby. Don't make it worse by putting yourself into situations that are best avoided.
7. Smile on the way out.
That is how we will remember you.
8. Smile on the way in.
Come to think of it, smile on the way in too. Your clients are probably more nervous than you - even if you are just 20 years old and he is in his 50s. While you have seen hundreds of clients, he has likely seen only one or two escorts. So smile when you say hi. That will get him relaxed, which is what he is there for.
9. Sex is sex. After we fu%k a girl once, most of us are already thinking about the next girl.
If you want us to come back, work on the small stuff. If you do that...then we will be hooked, and after that you can play us for the really big money.
10. Show up. On time
I know, if you are a young SP in her early 20s, who only works 10-15 hours a week you may have a lot of free time. So you might think that showing up a half hour late, or not at all, is no big deal... after all you can always reschedule, right? Wrong.
Clients who have $300-$500 available to hire you for an hour, pay the room and the wine, are usually very busy guys, often with wives and jobs that they work at 50+ hours a week.
If they make excuses to their wives, to take an evening off to see you, and you don't show, they are really stuck....because they may not get another free night for weeks.
If a client can't rely on you, it means he can't rely on your agency either, which means that your coworkers will get burned too, and you guys will spend evenings at Tim Hortons, waiting for calls to come in.
However IMHO there are a couple of very small things that SPs can do, that show clients respect, and which in the end can make things nicer for both of you and are guaranteed to build you repeat business.
1. Don't go for the cash until the appointment is over.
Many girls who have worked the street or for disreputable firms take and count the money before starting. With reputable agencies that is not necessary. Just glance over and make sure it is there.
2. Do your makeup and bathroom stuff before arriving.
A client generally has only 50 minutes in his hour, the last 10 minutes being the girl's shower time.
If you spend 15 minutes in the bathroom you are chewing up a third of his time. A girl has ten minutes of shower time at the end of the call to prepare for the next appointment. Most clients won't mind if you want to stay a couple of minutes extra to get your makeup just right.
3. Turn off your cell. And no texting.
I know all kids do this.... but its disrespectful.
4. Stay the whole 50 minutes.
You've blown the guy, he has sweated all over you and messed your hair up. If you have gone this far...why bother trying to slip into the shower 10 minutes early?
Take the last couple of minutes to wash him up, rub his back or cuddle.Those louzy couple of minutes set the tone for the entire meeting. If you do them right, your client will dream about you and repeat with you and the agency until his Visa card is full.....
5. Don't do anything that makes the client feel like you are a wh@re
The best part of GFE is imagining that you really are a girlfriend. So never discuss money with a client unless you absolutely have to. If, for example, you ask for a tip, he will never think of you again in any terms except as a prostitute. If you want more money just raise your hourly rate.
6. Never go see a client that you are not comfortable with.
You might be able to fake a good time for someone you don't care about. But you can't fake it with someone you dislike or are disgusted with. If you feel uncomfortable with a client, he will feel it. And if he is uncomfortable then you will feel even worse. A bad meeting has a way of staying in your memory for days and sometimes weeks. This is a hard hobby. Don't make it worse by putting yourself into situations that are best avoided.
7. Smile on the way out.
That is how we will remember you.
8. Smile on the way in.
Come to think of it, smile on the way in too. Your clients are probably more nervous than you - even if you are just 20 years old and he is in his 50s. While you have seen hundreds of clients, he has likely seen only one or two escorts. So smile when you say hi. That will get him relaxed, which is what he is there for.
9. Sex is sex. After we fu%k a girl once, most of us are already thinking about the next girl.
If you want us to come back, work on the small stuff. If you do that...then we will be hooked, and after that you can play us for the really big money.
10. Show up. On time
I know, if you are a young SP in her early 20s, who only works 10-15 hours a week you may have a lot of free time. So you might think that showing up a half hour late, or not at all, is no big deal... after all you can always reschedule, right? Wrong.
Clients who have $300-$500 available to hire you for an hour, pay the room and the wine, are usually very busy guys, often with wives and jobs that they work at 50+ hours a week.
If they make excuses to their wives, to take an evening off to see you, and you don't show, they are really stuck....because they may not get another free night for weeks.
If a client can't rely on you, it means he can't rely on your agency either, which means that your coworkers will get burned too, and you guys will spend evenings at Tim Hortons, waiting for calls to come in.
