SP refusing to see me again because she doesn't want to disappoint.

[Glyscore]

Was wondering if you already fell into a situation like this where an SP you used to see for some time don't want to see you anymore after a Time gap because she thinks she's not up to part anymore (what I got told).

Like, she's a good SP, and I asked to just ne honnest with me and tell me that's im the issue but she wont and really pushing the narrative that she doesn't wanna disappoint me. I find it odd. My number isnt blocked, she didn't ask me to stop talking to her. She interracts with me at Time. But she simply Wont have me as a client anymore. This is driving me insane tbh...

 

[Cheecho98]

Doesn't really matter why, but could be because she's worried you're getting too attached and nobody needs that headache.

 

[LeDodo]

I would say just leave it. Although the unknown is killing you maybe it's best to just leave as it is ...
Human nature will make you want to explain, maybe makes things better and make things even more complicated.

 

[Wildstar]

It's likely a pretextual reason and you'll never know the real one. There are many reasons she might not want to see you anymore, some of which might have nothing to do with you at all. It's just easier for her to give you this explanation--at least she didn't just block/ghost you. Best to just accept it and move on.

 

[PSEfreak]

When someone basically says " it's not you, it's me", what do you think ?

Offer more $$ and see what happens

 

[twenty4seven]

Yeah I don't think you're gonna get many answers that you like. She created an out and it seems like it hasn't gotten super personal or weird yet so call it a Draw and move on.