Stage of the Hobby

[jalimon]

I found this great post on Terb:
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?676599-Stages-of-the-quot-hobby-quot

Happy to see I am between stage 2 and 3 at the moment

What's your take?

Cheers,

 

[happyhobbist]

Psychologically, i'm at stage 2-3-4.
But because of lack of time, i'm sticking to 4 for the moment.

 

[The Nature Boy]

There should absolutely be a stage 7 called “re-entry” lol

 

[acoly]

I am mainly stage 4 with a splash of 3. I have a couple regulars whom I either see one or both every week. I occasionally look elsewhere if there’s something my regular ladies don’t provide.

 

[siyouve]

Newly stage 2. You guys got any suggestions?

 

[The Nature Boy]

Enjoy the candy

 

[pat98]

Started early 2010
and stage 2 oh oui ! from 2010 to 2012
then went straight to stage 4 2013 & 2014
back to stage 2& 3 in 2014 and 4 again in 2015-2016
Now definitively in stage 5-6 ...
it is what it is... :typing:
the cycle of the hobbyist lol

interesting thread BTW...

 

[Java]

I have become comfortably numb, what stage is that?

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

I aswell have experienced most of those stages in a somewhat similar order ,,, so it’s a bit accurate.
I whould also agree about stage 5 .There comes a time when you don’t feel that much excitement anymore, no butterflies ,no thrilling sensation or enthusiasm,,, sort of numb and going through the motions . When that happens it usually is a good time to walk away or take a good long break.

 

[Carmine Falcone]

I'm in a revitalized stage 2 because of wonderful Montreal. My local market is now basically Backpage-quality women masquerading as escorts. Thanks but no thanks. I'd rather spend more money for wonderful women with great bodies and superb service than settle for scraps. You locals should never take for granted how good you've got it.

 

[OnlyDoggy]

No five stages for me. My stages were newbie, experienced, and post ex-fav indy. The latter is the current stage I'm in, which I guess falls under barely interested in sp. Not to say I won't ever partake, since effortless sex without emotional currency can be satisfying in its own right, but my inclination to use the industry is currently low.

 

[MrProfiteroles]

ound: I never get out of the candy store! They keep bringing too many new and hot flavours and never have the chance to taste all of them! Lol!

 

[CoolAmadeus]

I’m at no 6 when talking about Escorts and MPs
I’m at no 4-5 when talking about women on SeekingArrangement (now only seeking)

CA

 

[cloudsurf]

CA nice to hear from you. Great memories from the past.
Do you remember the name of that pretty girl we saw on the same day ?
The one who could lactate on demand and brought her pet snake into bed with her. Always a threesome with her....lol

 

[SylvainP]

Je suis au niveau 4. Voir ses préférées, on sait qu'on va aimer ça, mais, comme elles nous connaissent un peu, elles peuvent nous faire des surprises.
Soit essayer de nouvelles positions, ou elle nous embrasse sur la bouche à la fin d'un repas au restauran.

 

[Numerati]

Stage 7.

No regulars. Do not maintain any contact with the women I met in the past. 99.9% of them were awesome and grateful to have met them and let it be that. They helped me get that banging hot girls out of my system in the most efficient/optimal and painless way possible. Learned how to eat pussy. LOL. Mission accomplished and surpassed expectations. Yet time to move on or else deep cynicism develops!

Now the farthest I am going to go in this hobby is sometimes visiting the boards to reminisce about the experiences I had. That is about it.

 

[jalimon]

I have reached Stage 6 and am ready to retire.

Mouhahahah!! Retire?? Good one GMA !!! See you in 2 months!

Joke aside GMA you are such a fit and well mannered gentlemen that girl gets glued to you my friend. That is why you can "retire" as a busy men.

Cheers,

 

[cloudsurf]

I go through life being confused.
If I look back a year ago …... I was certain that I would have retired by now....but I keep finding gems like Alyssa Minx who keep drawing me back in. Yesterday texts from 2 women who want to see me next week. I have trouble saying no .

This week I`m going to Ottawa to see the most popular sensualist in town.
No idea what to expect but I love her twitter persona and think that she is gorgeous. A Julia Roberts look alike but way prettier.