Stage of the Hobby

[redfried]

I guees I am entering stage 5. But i won't get in stage 6 for a long time. I expect to get back to another stage anytime in the next few months.

 

[PSEfreak]

Great thread

Personally I’m at stage 4 and slowly approaching stage 5
Retirement sounds depressing

 

[Gazoo64]

Wow, great thread!!
I’m at stage 4 and getting close to stage 5 as well.

This sounds like my case:
No lady seems to be able to compete with your favourite regular(s) and you start to have thoughts like “when my favourite lady(s) leave the business, I will quit too.”

Maybe I should book more frequently with other ladies. By doing this, hopefully the excitement builds up again and I can find great chemistry with other SP(s).

Or just accept the inevitable that one day my ATF(s) will retire and I’ll eventually retire as well (might be easier said than done).

 

[Jacobisrael]

There is also that thread

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/how-to-quit-the-hobby-addiction.9554/page-16#post-898732

I prefer this one than the one you mention. It says

Wow, great thread!!
I’m at stage 4 and getting close to stage 5 as well.

This sounds like my case:
No lady seems to be able to compete with your favourite regular(s) and you start to have thoughts like “when my favourite lady(s) leave the business, I will quit too.”

Maybe I should book more frequently with other ladies. By doing this, hopefully the excitement builds up again and I can find great chemistry with other SP(s).

Or just accept the inevitable that one day my ATF(s) will retire and I’ll eventually retire as well (might be easier said than done).

ye same feeling. There are 2 that are among my favorites. One retired the second is less and less available.

 

[2fast2slow]

i have been doing this a long time, but I really dont fit that 'arc' of the 5 stages, although there is a lot truths to it. My brain has stayed in stage 2: "kid in a candy store" kinda of thing all along, although I have repeated a lot with certain ladies. But if my brain has stayed stuck in stage 2, my body (aka my dick lol) has not always followed what my brain desires.

 

[Mandouke]

Excellent thread. Tell me, what stage is jaded?

 

[Jacobisrael]

Excellent thread. Tell me, what stage is jaded?

I’d say 5

 

[coquin105]

i have been doing this a long time, but I really dont fit that 'arc' of the 5 stages, although there is a lot truths to it. My brain has stayed in stage 2: "kid in a candy store" kinda of thing all along, although I have repeated a lot with certain ladies. But if my brain has stayed stuck in stage 2, my body (aka my dick lol) has not always followed what my brain desires.

C'est peut être parce que la ''recette'' pour bien préparer votre bite n'est pas optimale

 

[Alucard87]

Stage one here. In a shitty relationship and have just snapped after hearing the definition of a sexless marriage is 10 times or less annually. Realized I'm way deep in one. Booked with an escort a couple weeks out as her pics drive me wild. Booked with a different girl as practice who also caught my eye but she cancelled and shipped my deposit in OF content (argh). If the first girl I booked with cancels on me I might....idk try again with her lol

 

[2fast2slow]

C'est peut être parce que la ''recette'' pour bien préparer votre bite n'est pas optimale

its getting better. i practive no fap, see my other posts on this subject