Stroke yourself off or let her finish you off?

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

Was wondering about preferences over getting oneself to climax. Do you prefer using your own hand or let the girl get you off herself? I lean towards the former but I gotta say that ever since I've been experimenting with the latter, it's on a whole different level. If you're going for a truly explosive, body-convulsing orgasm that will have you hollering, keep your hands to yourself and let her use her hands and/or mouth instead, you'll be in more capable hands.

 

[envelopes]

I made it a personal rule that I don't do a damn thing when I bust. If I'm jerking it, I might as well have stayed home and saved myself the $

 

[Skym]

I prefer to jerk myself off when I'm with her.

Feels more porn stud-like.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

When i used to be able to ejaculate, then yes, i enjoyed giving facial and cumming on lady's body parts (chest, ass, belly or feet)

But now that i can't ejaculate because of my prostatectomy , then no, there is no point of jerking myself off with a lady. The only time, i will jerk myself off to orgasm will be myself. Unless she rims me good, then yes, i will jerk myself off while she rims me.

If during the session, there are segments where i take charge (such as missionnary, doggy style, prone bone, spoon position, facefucking or tit fucking) and it leads to orgasm, then yes, i love it too and i also love it when there is strong vaginal contraction.

Of course, i prefer when the lady finishes the job if it happens spontaneously. When she rides me cowgirl while making out that is the best way to finish. Reverse cowgirl until orgasm would be my second favorite. Blowjob to completion is also blissful (third favorite). Tit fucking feels amazing as well. Devilish handjob to completion is delightful as well. Especially, the last 4 handjobs i got, the ladies really got a kick of getting me off, especially 2 of those handjobs were not expected at all. The surprise effect amplified the joy.

 

[kstanb]

It depends in a lot of things
If the lady is touching the right spots with her hand or mouth, I would prefer she does it

If she is struggling, then, I will take over and use my hands, but with her in a still very important supporting role

 

[LeDodo]

It depends in a lot of things
If the lady is touching the right spots with her hand or mouth, I would prefer she does it

If she is struggling, then, I will take over and use my heads, but with her in a still very important supporting role

Same. Usually when I take the matter in my own hand it's because she's struggling or the clock is ticking lol

 

[TheJames101]

I can use the ol' hand any time. Why would I do the same when with someone else?
Letting the lady do it means she can also control where everything lands, which is better for her in many cases.

 

[bodick7]

It depends on partner and/or on the moment.
I got one who just love when I take it in hand.
The bonus is that I give her the other hand finger to suck in order to keep her busy.

 

[interferon]

if there's some JOI happening that can be a lot of fun.

 

[Thor Jr]

Okay, there's a few ways I go with this, finishing myself off is always an option when with a lady, but having said this, there are reasons for it.

If I am taking matters into my own hands, this means:

I am just about to bust and pull out, to make sure the alfredo sauce spreads across her breasts and face, with permission of course.

Or, she is on all fours and my face is buried within her crevice, my tongue as deep as it can go into her peach, licking from bottom to top, and then I make sure to finish off across her butt cheeks and like Picasso, I admire my art work with both scenario's.

And of course, I finish myself off when I am being difficult and her arms are tired, so its like a relay race, she passes the baton to me. lol.
But she is helping me along, massaging the berry sack and licking and biting my nipples till its time for the launch.

And I am difficult a lot, sorry ladies, I just love foreplay, the adventurous journey is always my favorite part of any meeting.
But I am fair with the foreplay, I give as much as I get, if not more.
My best organisms(lol) come when I am tongue deep into that juicy peach.

 

[skarsga]

Different strokes for different folks

I let her earn the nut. Id rather not cum and book another session later then do it myself.

 

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

And I am difficult a lot, sorry ladies, I just love foreplay, the adventurous journey is always my favorite part of any meeting.
But I am fair with the foreplay, I give as much as I get, if not more.
My best organisms(lol) come when I am tongue deep into that juicy peach.

I can be difficult on occasion and then feel self-conscious about it. I picture the dame in a nurse's uniform marking down "Patient is difficult" in her notepad.
Because it's entirely possible for me to get so wrapped up in the foreplay ("Sweet, I just gave her an O") that I lose track of the time and then we're scrambling to start up the engine again. I function on the same principle as an old tractor: it's harder to start me up but once you start me up, it's hard to get me to stop.

 

[mat514]

If I'm doing a BJ-only session and she only offers CBJ, then for the excitement of her seeing my cumshot, will pull out the condom, gesture her to play with my balls while I stroke and finish on myself.
Otherwise generally speaking, unless I have a big load to dump on her, I feel stroking myself to finish would be a waste, will always finish penetrating or in her mouth to get the most I can out of her.

 

[Hmmm…]

It’s funny the logic of stroking yourself is considered not good use of your money but all sorts of people go to a Korean BBQ and cook the meat themselves.

 

[mat514]

It’s funny the logic of stroking yourself is considered not good use of your money but all sorts of people go to a Korean BBQ and cook the meat themselves.

For myself, I can tell you that I don't go to such Korean BBQ's

 

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

It’s funny the logic of stroking yourself is considered not good use of your money but all sorts of people go to a Korean BBQ and cook the meat themselves.

Some people can't cook for shit, like myself. It fulfills the universal male fantasy of knowing how to work the grill.
I go out of my way to avoid the self-checkout at the supermarket because fuck that, I'm not doing the cashier's work for free plus I want to incentivize their continued employment. The machines will only put minimum wage workers out of work if we allow them to.

 

[Hmmm…]

Some people can't cook for shit, like myself. It fulfills the universal male fantasy of knowing how to work the grill.
I go out of my way to avoid the self-checkout at the supermarket because fuck that, I'm not doing the cashier's work for free plus I want to incentivize their continued employment. The machines will only put minimum wage workers out of work if we allow them to.

So you are letting her finish you off on principle to maintain employment of Canadian workers.

 

[MtlGuyNow]

It’s funny the logic of stroking yourself is considered not good use of your money but all sorts of people go to a Korean BBQ and cook the meat themselves.

If you go to a real Korean BBQ, the woman cooks and serves it to you.