Surprise for hubby
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Thanks! It was basically just a text exchange, I picked the lady, sent the e-transfer and explained we are a couple. Can you ask specifics to the Booker like BBBJ etc?
Be as clear as possible. Also, make sure you have a plan-b even a plan-c. Things happen and girls can decide not to work... you paid the totality or just a deposit ?
Just the deposit! If a girl bails how much notice do they usually give you? Or, if I need to go back to the agency to book someone how last minute can it be done?
You can and ask that it be communicated but best to take a minute to discuss with the lady when you see her. There is an element of YMMV where the lady checks for cleanliness etc to agree... Also, your hubby may want to have a say when he finds out what is in store for him. Good luck, enjoy and have fun.
Thank you! I am so nervous about it all! So when I meet her I just casually say "do you offer bbbj with me joining in?" Lmao I am probably over thinking it all
In all likelihood, you will be dealing with a professional who will make it comfortable. Mention it's a first and ask what is off the table etc. You will be surprised how easily it will flow. Relax and enjoy...
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You are probably over thinking it. If you haven't already, look for reviews of the lady under 'outcall reviews', it might say there whether she offers bbbj. If she does, I would imagine she wouldn't be opposed to the double.
I think any of the SP's who agree to meet couples expect to have some interaction with both partners, either separately or at the same time.
I think any of the SP's who agree to meet couples expect to have some interaction with both partners, either separately or at the same time.
Absolutely. And I will add to this : we typically don't love being someone's surprise. Informed consent is like super important for anything that has to do with sex/intimacy. I personally feel like a discussion needs to happen before the event, "surprising a partner" isn't as cool to providers as it sounds to the people arranging it. If a client booked me to surprise their partner I would either refuse or make a point to have 5-10min of alone time with their partner where the initiating partner is not present just to confirm consent, expectations and comfort.
Great point! Also....this is something he does want but I'm initiating it. But good point, once we get to the hotel I will spill the beans!
Personally, I think this situation would have been easier to coordinate with an Indy, with whom you can have direct contact/discussions with, to answer any questions/concerns you may have.
But I agree, don't overthink it, and have fun
But I agree, don't overthink it, and have fun
You're maybe right....but I'm totally new to this lolPersonally, I think this situation would have been easier to coordinate with an Indy, with whom you can have direct contact/discussions with, to answer any questions/concerns you may have.
But I agree, don't overthink it, and have fun
I second this. I would really not like to be a surprise and would refuse. Even if someone accepts, the person you're trying to surprise might not react as well as you think he will. Consent is really important in situations like this.
I also agree with this..Personally, I think this situation would have been easier to coordinate with an Indy, with whom you can have direct contact/discussions with, to answer any questions/concerns you may have.
But I agree, don't overthink it, and have fun
I have an idea for next time. Hire a female escort for your husband & get him to hire a male escort for you. Get a hotel room with two beds & each do your thing on your respective beds. A foursome. It may sound a bit weird but it potentially could be a whole lot of fun for the both of you & spice up your marriage & open both your eyes to many different possibilities.
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