Sorry, i am 110% MAN, i never stop for directions and i enjoy getting lost, the journey always seems to be beautiful. Plus i know how to read signs, and there's always signs to look for at every turn.
If all goes well and you are in sync with each other, things usually come to a great finish. I love it when we both just crash atop of each other in a heap of sweat, now that just shows we worked hard.
And then there's the so so sessions, where you just cant wait to part company. Cant win them all.
I agree with the group that just lets things unfold and not give direction. Like i said, read the signs and most times, if possible, she will have that thunderous orgasm.