The art of approaching women

[Zoot Allures]

Approaching women isn’t about one liners
it’s about social intelligence, presence, timing, and reading the moment and beng real.


Most men focus on what to say, focus on what’s happening between you
Soft eye contact no hard staring. Relaxed posture. A friendly sharing of the moment.


Practice builds ease. Having light, intelligent, humorous lines in your back pocket can help you tremendously. The key is choosing lines that sound like you not Jerry Sienfield unless one of his friendly jokes does sound like you.


Noticing signaling is of the essence for then it is not a cold approach .

If she stands beside you for no reason and has a open posture and it just feel right requires use of a bold line that you would not just walk up to a stranger and say-

comment on her, but not her looks, or comment on surroundings

IE comment followed by a joke - You have a soft presense - makes me feel like being quiet

 

[Xrxusr]

thanks for the advice ….. sometimes it’s very difficult to make the first steps…….

 

[TheJames101]

$280 usually does the trick too.

 

[Johnny test]

Are you the same dude who works for the #1 audit company in the whole wide world with a new profile?

 

[Torycats]

I think being aloof is the best way to get girls.

 

[Mandouke]

I like to be blunt when approaching women in public. I usually go with, Hey baby, your face or mine?