The best,the good and the bad reasons to cancel a lady...

[Lily from Montreal]

I was curious at why people cancel and I start thinking about my best of (and worse ) so here's mine and I would enjoy to read about your most creative ones?
My first and it was a first was this potential friend that cancel his first meeting with me because between the booking 2 weeks before the meeting he had '' given his heart'' to a lady and he is not one to cheat...

That's my best...

The good and the only one I will accept everytime and won't think you are playing games is if you are sick, it will be my pleasure to wait till you are fine...
I still cringe at the memory of that meeting with a friend who could never make it because he wanted to see me evening and I am une belle de jour...one day he booked me so I was happy and assume he took a day off...nope...after the deed he told me he was on sick leave because he had pneumonia... sigh.

And the worst is a tie between the one who cancelled with 2hrs notice that he could not see me because he was ''battling his demons'' and had not contacted me as he was supposed to as a confirmation because he had erase my emails and was now undecided...I decided for him...

And the other is the mature men who asked questions for weeks (I am very patient) to finally cancel the morning of the meeting because ''his conscience didn't allowed him to meet me" and he ''would not be able to face his 30 something (!) daughters afterward ''(???), fine, I am not one to risk causing a conscience dilemma...problem is since then he keeps writing back that this time he will make it to the motel...hum..no?

I actually do not mind the cancellation,what really bugs me is the one that book and do not take the time to cancel, and guys I do not need a reason...I am GFE not a real girlfriend...

So tell me how real life interfere with your funlife?

 

[Halloween Mike]

I never cancelled a date... I had some cancelled by the agency but on my part i feel if i cancel its kinda like breaking a contract. I know its weird but unless i got a very valid reason , i won't.

For exemple that one time i had book Kate of GG in the evening, but i saw one hot chick in the afternoon, and i was somewhat questioning myself as if "it was very nessary" to meet another lady that day... as i felt satisfy witht he first meeting, and could had just go hanging out at night or whatever. But Mike always gave me the best of service and i was thinking i would be a jerk to cancel on short notice. Damn did i was happy to kept the booking, it was one of my best "escort date" ever... lol.

Another time, i was supose to meet Sheryl of Nadya's VIP at 12:30( ) , they cancel it so i started to look at other agencies for replacement. Saw that Bianca of Delight worked that day, i had saw her a year ago from that day more or less, knew she was a very sexy young lady, and very easy going too. Booked her for 4 pm and 30 min laters, Nadya's text me and offered a replacement... i was interest but took that 4 pm meeting in mind and tried to work things out with it... when i saw it wouldn't work in time, i just said sorry i have another meeting planned and there you go...

I am like that in real life too, i try to never be late, and never cancel things i gave my word i would do... and i feel its a great way of doing...

Now i can't say for that guy with the conscience thing(lol, probably a newby of course) , and i will say if i would get a girlfriend between booking and a meeting, i would cancel too cause i would never cheat on my girlfriend, EVER(exept with my right hand lol) but i usually book 2 days max before a meeting, this would be very unlikely...

As or being SICK....i would need to be really hurt badly to cancel... as in "a potential risk for the lady" kind of way...but again, its rare it happen like that over the course of 2 days... so unlikely...

 

[Stroman]

In my case, if I cancel it is because of something out of my control like family emergency but I always give a reasonable delay in advance and I never do it at the last minute.

 

[Siocnarf]

I only canceled a couple of time in advance when I was sick. Now I don't mind when the lady has to re-schedule for whatever reason. When I was less experienced with escorts it would stress me more to have last minute change. The first time I tried Outcall, I was stressed because I didn't really knew how it worked with hotels and the lady cancelled just after I got the room.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Like I said I will be happy you cancel because of a cold....angts are another matter...please sort out your lilfe anguish before writing to me ...i do like hearing biography live but I am not a psy...

 

[Aryaan]

I cancelled 4 times in the 5 years I have been fooling around.

1. Got a call from work, there was enough time to cancel it, but I felt bad, it was my first time cancelling lol...and I still feel bad when I think about it.

2.twice I cancelled well in advance, made up for it the next day.

3. And once I cancelled because there was something iffy about our arrangement. I did not feel good about it.

In these 5 years, I have got 2 no shows (one agency one indy) and 5-6 times b&s, then i was soft minded to go along with.....that is before merb came for rescue.

 

[Mike Mercury]

I canceled one time for health reasons.

A question for you talkative girls out there.
If a poster contacted you by private message, stated that he is or was a client of yours but wanted to converse without telling you who he is.
How would you feel about this? Fear, curiosity, anxiety, worry, playful, interest, forboding???

 

[sinop]

I have never cancelled on a girl but I got stood up once. Had never met her before, but spoke to her up to the day of the meeting, had the crossroads of her address and everything. I showed up to the corner of her building around the time and then she never answered her phone.

But met her a few days later. The only reason I did so is because she seemed genuinely sorry and offered me the session for free. Even if she was probably busy fucking someone else, at least she offered it for free. And I had never met her yet so I figured she must have been sorry to offer it free to someone she hadn't met before.


Have you ever cancelled on someone Lily? What are good and bad reasons for an escort to cancel or stand a client up?

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I cancel when I have a cold or is,hum,how shall I say ? Under the woman curse...but I never stand up someone,that's bad manners...

 

[Stroman]

''his conscience didn't allowed him to meet me" and he ''would not be able to face his 30 something (!) daughters afterward ''(???),

something similar happened to me a few months ago, however I didn't cancel. Just on a side note, I am in my late thirties, and a few months ago, I booked a very young girl, she might have been in her late teen, don't worry, she was 18-19, but that's the point, I don't have a daughter per Se, but the lady in question was very young, and when it comes to age difference, it was almost a twenty year difference, when you think of it, in a lot of ways, I could be like her father. Then afterwards, I really felt uneasy. I didn't have a dirty conscience because we were two consenting adults. I am not sure if I would book a less than 20-year old again. It felt way too weird. but since I was on the premise, I went along with the booking and I still enjoy myself but not at full capacity.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

talkative girls ...
If a poster contacted you by private message, stated that he is or was a client of yours but wanted to converse without telling you who he is.
How would you feel about this? Fear, curiosity, anxiety, worry, playful, interest, foreboding???

I guess the talkative part applies to me? loll It's ok I do love to chat...

But I am not sure I understand ,if I've met you ,unless it is like once 3 years ago yes I would not remember you if I do not see you in person but if we've met more than once I would recognize you unless you lied then or lies now...I do not meet enough to forget my meetings and why someone would want to remain anonymous? Not to share the handle? Then write on hotmail?

And Agent Moody, that's my friend, is the reason I do not want to meet with pretty young thing, I guess Freud would have a field day with me but if I admire youth if I could be your mom I do not want to have sex with you...

 

[anonguy]

something similar happened to me a few months ago, however I didn't cancel. Just on a side note, I am in my late thirties, and a few months ago, I booked a very young girl, she might have been in her late teen, don't worry, she was 18-19, but that's the point, I don't have a daughter per Se, but the lady in question was very young, and when it comes to age difference, it was almost a twenty year difference, when you think of it, in a lot of ways, I could be like her father. Then afterwards, I really felt uneasy. I didn't have a dirty conscience because we were two consenting adults. I am not sure if I would book a less than 20-year old again. It felt way too weird. but since I was on the premise, I went along with the booking and I still enjoy myself but not at full capacity.

Who was it? :lol:

I have the problem of booking 18-19 year olds, and getting someone 8 years older.

 

[tiannas]

I had a customer cancel because he was too nervous, he had never been with a sp before.
People have lives and things happen, so cancellations are part of the game, as long as I have adequate notice it's just not a big deal. Standing someone up is never acceptable.

 

[greenacres99]

I am always nervous when I book, but I would never cancel. My visits require a six hour drive through a pretty long stretch of nothingness on the Maine/Quebec border so my standard joke when I pre-book is: I will be there unless I hit a moose. I hope that moose collision would be an acceptable reason as most are pretty bad, if not fatal!

Indeed, I saw two moose on my last return from Montreal and we all escaped unscathed.

 

[Merlot]

Hello all,

Indeed, I saw two moose on my last return from Montreal and we all escaped unscathed.

I speed up for Yankees fans. Not to hit anyone, but the effect of fast moving pinstripes in a panic is a beautiful thing.

I am not sure if I would book a less than 20-year old again. It felt way too weird. but since I was on the premise, I went along with the booking and I still enjoy myself but not at full capacity.

The first lady I ever booked was 22, about 20 years younger than I. The second lady was about the same age as I. No matter what age they are she's always someone's daughter.

I cancel when I have a cold or is,hum,how shall I say ? Under the woman curse...but I never stand up someone,that's bad manners...

This has nothing to do with you of course, but one lady was infamous for getting sick or having an excuse to cancel an hour before her appointments. Cough...cough...cough. It seems she had a chronic condition about finding out suddenly she was making less than she could (better deal) if she cancelled.

I am like that in real life too, i try to never be late, and never cancel things i gave my word i would do... and i feel its a great way of doing...

Yeah, I've always felt that making an appointment is giving my word. I never cancel unless I'm sick or unavoidably delayed. However, once I had promised to meet an acquaintance and booked a lady based on what I thought would be free time. Then I discovered on the morning of the booking that the only availability for the acquaintance turned out to conflict with the appointment. This only happened once, but well, friends and acquaintances first.

Happy choices,

Merlot

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Hum, first is work,than family (I know my priorities a tad improper ...)
work related reasons are very good reasons...acquaintances are not registering on my radar loll