The Confessional

[Lunaseraphim]

We def need @LeDodo and @Michelle Gunn to pipe in about this because vac stuff is out of my depth. Somehow I think she might think that's hot, otherwise the TP is always a fan-favourite.

The TP????

 

[LeDodo]

The TP????

The next step after the DP lol

 

[twenty4seven]

The TP????

 

[LeDodo]

 

[everydayguy]

All this talk of MFMs is making me crave DP
:whimper:

Well this is escalating

 

[Michelle Gunn]

No to vacuum beds.
Whiskey instead of wine (gives me multi-day migraines)
Yes to everything and everybody else.

 

[kstanb]

All this talk of MFMs is making me crave DP
:whimper:

any gent interested in making this happen?
I am game; my only rule is no sword fight (no male to male interaction)

preferences:
- 90 min session
- incall
- do it sooner than later (I am free weekends and weekday nights)

obviously we both need to pass Michelle screening

 

[kstanb]

i shouldn't be posting this here lol but i dont know where else, and this board is kinda like at the bottom of the internet. it's been 2 months since i haven't spoken to someone i had a very toxic "relationship" with for over a year, who was treating me like garbage. (not a client) .. i'm sad about it in a way, but i feel much better

Yo no hablo de venganzas ni perdones, el olvido es la única venganza y el único perdón.” – Jorge Luis Borges​

// Je ne parle ni de vengeance ni de pardon ; l’oubli est la seule vengeance et le seul pardon. //



Forgetting as Liberation
Borges proposes an uncomfortable paradox here: true healing from hurt lies not in revenge nor in explicit forgiveness, but in letting the events crumble in our memory. When we forget an offense, we stop feeding it mentally. We don't negotiate with the aggressor, we don't grant them the drama of a formal pardon. Simply put, the event loses its weight, turning to dust in the archives of our lives.

Beyond Conventional Morality
This perspective challenges the traditional narrative where forgiveness is presented as a noble act and revenge as weakness. Borges suggests that both positions remain tied to the past, requiring a permanent relationship with the one who hurt us. Forgetting, on the other hand, is active indifference: not forced ignorance, but the natural deterioration of what ceases to matter. It is liberating because the one who forgets is no longer emotionally indebted nor seeking revenge.

 

[Fradi]

But I called it a spectrum for a reason. It’s like having sex with Julia Sky on this thread (whch I did once and recommand thanks babe )

I doubt that it is anything like having sex with Julia lol.
Nobody should compare Julia to a guy.
Julia is a special lady with amazing skills and a kind and nice person.

 

[Fradi]

I don’t see why everybody is going gaga over a guy sucking dick.
He is definitely not the first or the last.

It doesn’t phase me one way or another, you have one life to live you do what you want with it.
For me I will take Julia Sky thank you and be perfectly happy about it.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Yo no hablo de venganzas ni perdones, el olvido es la única venganza y el único perdón.” – Jorge Luis Borges​

// Je ne parle ni de vengeance ni de pardon ; l’oubli est la seule vengeance et le seul pardon. //



Forgetting as Liberation
Borges proposes an uncomfortable paradox here: true healing from hurt lies not in revenge nor in explicit forgiveness, but in letting the events crumble in our memory. When we forget an offense, we stop feeding it mentally. We don't negotiate with the aggressor, we don't grant them the drama of a formal pardon. Simply put, the event loses its weight, turning to dust in the archives of our lives.

Beyond Conventional Morality
This perspective challenges the traditional narrative where forgiveness is presented as a noble act and revenge as weakness. Borges suggests that both positions remain tied to the past, requiring a permanent relationship with the one who hurt us. Forgetting, on the other hand, is active indifference: not forced ignorance, but the natural deterioration of what ceases to matter. It is liberating because the one who forgets is no longer emotionally indebted nor seeking revenge.

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and challenging my people pleasing instincts. I like a lot of women my age have been taught to always forgive and try to understand, and I think that's noble in a lot of instances because people can grow and change.. but when someone shows a pattern of treating you a certain way, it's best to just walk away. Obviously there's a level of violence that warrants retaliation, but I find that in a lot of cases, people want a reaction, they want to see you upset. The best revenge is thriving.. and forgiving someone constantly is just self harm

 

[Fradi]

If simplicity comforts you, and you chose to ignore the complexities of life and the grey areas because they are uncomfortable or perplexing or stressful or challenging of you preconceptions, that’s totally fine and you are free to believe it.

I think these kind of simplistic takes lack nuances and intellectual accuity. They describe incomplete realities and only serve to cuddle insecure or weak minds into intellectual safe spaces. Clearly the experiences I and other described here are reflecting that sexual attraction is an ambiguous subject matter. Locking those nuanced ambiguities into rigid and stricly limited categories seem intellectually lazy to me.

The sky is blue is a simple reality.
Behind that statement of reality lies many complicated things that does not necessarely, but could, contradict the original statement. Shades of blue, changing of the sky’s color during different periods or events, biological composition of the human eye and the subjective nature of the concept « sky ».

I think a smart person’s first reflex should always be to have the intellectual humility to confer that perhaps his conception of the world is an incomplete one, and that behind simple realities must, or at least could, lie complex nuances that he might not fully grasp in the moment.

I mean this with respect, really. Not looking to escalate or fight. I’m not offended by your post but I think it is maybe a little insensitive to others. Mostly just… very intellectually weak.

I find this totally ridiculous.
You want to suck dick great go to it, but saying it is intellectually lazy and weak minded if you don’t think this way is overstepping.

Actually to some of us pussy tastes great and having sex with a skilled gorgeous lady is the ultimate pleasure in life.
Some are just not interested in sucking dick period, not because we are weak minded or don’t want to explore things in life but just plain not interested in dicks other than our own.

 

[urquell]

I find this totally ridiculous.
You want to suck dick great go to it, but saying it is intellectually lazy and weak minded if you don’t think this way is overstepping.

Actually to some of us pussy tastes great and having sex with a skilled gorgeous lady is the ultimate pleasure in life.
Some are just not interested in sucking dick period, not because we are weak minded or don’t want to explore things in life but just plain not interested in dicks other than our own.

That's just silly and a gross over-generalization. I'm not interested in sucking my own dick either.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

Just to get back on topic:

I ate an entire row of Oreos last night.

 

[Timbits92]

I find this totally ridiculous.
You want to suck dick great go to it, but saying it is intellectually lazy and weak minded if you don’t think this way is overstepping.

Actually to some of us pussy tastes great and having sex with a skilled gorgeous lady is the ultimate pleasure in life.
Some are just not interested in sucking dick period, not because we are weak minded or don’t want to explore things in life but just plain not interested in dicks other than our own.

Yeah you read that wrong. Some dude said: you either straight, gay or bi. And I said I thought that lacked nuances and was rigid. I don’t know how someone can read my original post and conclude that I’m calling heteros weak minded.

 

[Fradi]

Yeah you read that wrong. Some dude said: you either straight, gay or bi. And I said I thought that lacked nuances and was rigid. I don’t know how someone can read my original post and conclude that I’m calling heteros weak minded.

Really not interested in nuances or dicks.
Don’t quite get why a bunch of guys think it is so cool for a guy to suck dick on an escort review board but hey their life their choice.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Really not interested in nuances

Lol
I'm sorry but I can't help but think this is silly.
It's a weird hill to die on

 

[Fradi]

Lol
I'm sorry but I can't help but think this is silly.
It's a weird hill to die on

I am not dying on any hill.
There happens to be many men that don’t consider it their life dream to suck dick.

Like I said I don’t really care what anybody does with their life they only have one and they can live it anyway they want, but just like they have an opinion so do I.
Just my weird nuance.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I am not dying on any hill.
There happens to be many men that don’t consider it their life dream to suck dick.

Like I said I don’t really care what anybody does with their life they only have one and they can live it anyway they want, but just like they have an opinion so do I.
Just my weird nuance.

It's not an opinion it's a personal experience.. if someone wants to confess in the confessional thread that he enjoyed sucking dick and talk about how he relates to sexual orientation it's his personal experience he's sharing, you can't really disagree with it lol he's not trying to convince you that you or anyone should do it or question their orientation.

You can say is "can't relate". No one is upset that you don't want to suck dick or that you're not interested in it..

I don't like double penetration but a lot of people talked about it here, I didn't feel threatened by it and go off on them.. I don't feel pressured to do anal sex because someone else here likes it

Maybe I don't understand your tone. I'm trying to lighten things up and not cause a fight. If you book a duo with Julia and you will not have to suck a dick lol but I know I'm not your type and that's ok

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think on the contrary it's quite cool that someone was willing to admit something that might get him hateful comments.. gay or bi or bi curieux ppl aren't trying to convert anyone

A judgement : I think gay stuff is gross and being straight is superior, I am angry that someone confessed to having tried sucking dick!

An experience and preference : I am not interested in sucking dick and I prefer doing sexy things with Julia who doesn't have a dick but hey, you do you!