The official Judy GT 2026 apreciation thread

[Sexy Judy]

Hello everyone,


I hope you are doing well.


I would like to share a very unpleasant situation involving a friend of mine that occurred two days ago. I have made several attempts to contact the person involved, both by text message and through this platform, but my messages have been ignored. At the same time, I can clearly see that this person remains active here, which tells me they have had every opportunity to respond.


When we organize and attend get-togethers, the purpose is to meet people, build connections, expand our network, and potentially develop professional or social opportunities in a respectful environment. Everyone who attends is expected to conduct themselves with honesty, integrity, and respect.


Unfortunately, one individual who attended our get-together failed to uphold those standards.


This person invited one of the young women who attended to meet privately. He invited her to dinner and to spend additional one-on-one time together. Later, when the subject of compensation arose, he claimed that he believed the meeting was purely voluntary and that the young woman simply wanted to get to know him on a personal level because she was interested in him.


That assumption was completely inappropriate and entirely misplaced.


We are not on a dating platform such as Tinder. The women who attend these events are not there to pursue romantic relationships with attendees unless they explicitly choose to do so themselves. Misrepresenting intentions or attempting to blur those boundaries is unacceptable.


To the person concerned: I have been trying to contact you for the past 48 hours through text messages and through your profile here. Since you have chosen not to respond, I am giving you an additional 24 hours to come forward, acknowledge the situation, and settle your outstanding obligation with the young woman involved.


If you continue to ignore this matter, I will have no hesitation in identifying you publicly here.


Furthermore, that will not be the end of it.


I will personally contact every woman who attended the get-together. In fact, several of them are already aware of the situation. A number of the gentlemen who attended are also aware of what happened.


The next step will be to reach out to the women you have attempted to contact, as your profile history raises serious concerns. I will not hesitate to share what has occurred so that no other woman finds herself in the same situation.


When I invited you to attend, I trusted you. The women who were present trusted you. The gentlemen trusted you. Our host trusted you.


You appeared to be enjoying yourself, and you came across as someone worthy of that trust.


It was extremely disappointing to learn what happened to my friend.


You have shown yourself to be far from a gentleman. Your behavior was disrespectful, manipulative, and deceptive. Through your actions, you have betrayed the trust that was extended to you by everyone involved.


I sincerely hope that you will demonstrate the honesty, integrity, respect, and courage required to admit your wrongdoing and make things right before further harm is done.


Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to read this.


To any ladies who may have experienced something similar with this individual, whether you attended the get-together or not, please do not hesitate to contact me privately. It is possible that this was not an isolated incident, and we do not know whether this behavior has affected others.


More information may follow as the situation develops.


Thank you all. XOXO ❤️
And a very special thank you to the REAL gentlemen out there. You are the ones who set the standard, make a positive difference, and help create a respectful and safe environment for everyone. Never underestimate the impact of your integrity, respect, and character. We see you, we appreciate you, and we thank you for leading by example every single day. Keep being the gentlemen that you are. The world needs more of you. ❤️✨

 

[Julia Sky]

I think this individual reached out to me as well with a dinner invite after the GT - but he ghosted when I mentioned payment

 

[Halloween Mike]

Hello everyone,


I hope you are doing well.


I would like to share a very unpleasant situation involving a friend of mine that occurred two days ago.


When we organize and attend get-togethers, the purpose is to meet people, build connections, expand our network, and potentially develop professional or social opportunities in a respectful environment. Everyone who attends is expected to conduct themselves with honesty, integrity, and respect.


This person invited one of the young women who attended to meet privately. He invited her to dinner and to spend additional one-on-one time together. Later, when the subject of compensation arose, he claimed that he believed the meeting was purely voluntary and that the young woman simply wanted to get to know him on a personal level because she was interested in him.


That assumption was completely inappropriate and entirely misplaced.

This is very disapointing to hear. It was clear from the start its an industry party. While having a lot of fun was also part of the package, its clear the base goal was to create connections between clients and providers. I myself am very happy that i met socially certain ones first in the optic of meeting them a later date in a "normal paid industry context". And of course spending time with others i already met make me anticipate our next time together even more . But that will be when i can afford it.

The ladies were awesome at the party and have gone way beyond any expectations i may have had. They gave us such a good time. Sadly an incident like this could refrain them to be "that friendly" in a next event and that would be very sad.

To this person Judy mention, please reach to her and apologies. Don't F it up for all of us shall you?

 

[Johnny82]

Hello everyone,


I hope you are doing well.


I would like to share a very unpleasant situation involving a friend of mine that occurred two days ago. I have made several attempts to contact the person involved, both by text message and through this platform, but my messages have been ignored. At the same time, I can clearly see that this person remains active here, which tells me they have had every opportunity to respond.


When we organize and attend get-togethers, the purpose is to meet people, build connections, expand our network, and potentially develop professional or social opportunities in a respectful environment. Everyone who attends is expected to conduct themselves with honesty, integrity, and respect.


Unfortunately, one individual who attended our get-together failed to uphold those standards.


This person invited one of the young women who attended to meet privately. He invited her to dinner and to spend additional one-on-one time together. Later, when the subject of compensation arose, he claimed that he believed the meeting was purely voluntary and that the young woman simply wanted to get to know him on a personal level because she was interested in him.


That assumption was completely inappropriate and entirely misplaced.


We are not on a dating platform such as Tinder. The women who attend these events are not there to pursue romantic relationships with attendees unless they explicitly choose to do so themselves. Misrepresenting intentions or attempting to blur those boundaries is unacceptable.


To the person concerned: I have been trying to contact you for the past 48 hours through text messages and through your profile here. Since you have chosen not to respond, I am giving you an additional 24 hours to come forward, acknowledge the situation, and settle your outstanding obligation with the young woman involved.


If you continue to ignore this matter, I will have no hesitation in identifying you publicly here.


Furthermore, that will not be the end of it.


I will personally contact every woman who attended the get-together. In fact, several of them are already aware of the situation. A number of the gentlemen who attended are also aware of what happened.


The next step will be to reach out to the women you have attempted to contact, as your profile history raises serious concerns. I will not hesitate to share what has occurred so that no other woman finds herself in the same situation.


When I invited you to attend, I trusted you. The women who were present trusted you. The gentlemen trusted you. Our host trusted you.


You appeared to be enjoying yourself, and you came across as someone worthy of that trust.


It was extremely disappointing to learn what happened to my friend.


You have shown yourself to be far from a gentleman. Your behavior was disrespectful, manipulative, and deceptive. Through your actions, you have betrayed the trust that was extended to you by everyone involved.


I sincerely hope that you will demonstrate the honesty, integrity, respect, and courage required to admit your wrongdoing and make things right before further harm is done.


Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to read this.


To any ladies who may have experienced something similar with this individual, whether you attended the get-together or not, please do not hesitate to contact me privately. It is possible that this was not an isolated incident, and we do not know whether this behavior has affected others.


More information may follow as the situation develops.


Thank you all. XOXO ❤️
And a very special thank you to the REAL gentlemen out there. You are the ones who set the standard, make a positive difference, and help create a respectful and safe environment for everyone. Never underestimate the impact of your integrity, respect, and character. We see you, we appreciate you, and we thank you for leading by example every single day. Keep being the gentlemen that you are. The world needs more of you. ❤️✨

J'ai été l'un des privilégiés à participer au ''Get Together'' organisé par @Sexy Judy la semaine dernière. Je l'ai dit en privé aux personnes concernées, mais je tenais à le dire ici en public : ce fut une excellente soirée, du début à la tout fin. À répéter sans hésiter!

Cela étant dit, je déplore que malheureusement un des gentleman invité ait agi de la sorte envers une des dames présentes. Il faut toujours garder en tête que bien qu'il y ait un aspect social à ce genre d'événement et qu'avec le temps certains gentlemens puissent développer avec certaines dames une amicalité et une cordialité (c'est d'ailleurs mon cas avec certaines), il faut toujours garder en tête l'aspect ''professionnel'' de la chose.

J'avais un doute sur l'individu en question. Après discussion et validation, mon intution était la bonne, car j'avais vu juste. Message au principal intéressé (s'il est toujours actif ici, car selon ses dires lors de la soirée, il compte quitter définitivement le continent à court terme) : tu donnes une mauvaise image des clients en agissant de la sorte. Ce sont des individus comme toi qui font en sorte que plusieurs dames deviennent trop prudentes, voire méfiantes, envers nous. Et après, tu te plains que les dames exigent des références et des vérifications avant la prise de rendez-vous. Dans ce milieu où nous évoluons, la communication est primordiale afin d'éviter toute confusion, malentendu et surtout pour éviter qu'une personne tente de profter d'une autre! J'espère que tu agiras en homme et que tu feras amende honorable.

 

[Sexy Judy]

I think this individual reached out to me as well with a dinner invite after the GT - but he ghosted when I mentioned payment

Yes its him !!! He tried to reach out 2or3 other ladies from the GT .
He is seeking for services in exchange of a dinner imagine that.
He should quite this plateform and go on TINDER !!!!!!!! LOL

 

[EagerBeaver]

In a situation like this, in my opinion, there has to be full restitution and an apology, or the person involved should be banned from any future parties.

Anyone who is not out to deceive would have discussed compensation for social time and private time in advance. I think that expecting the "Tinder Experience", at an industry party with working ladies, is beyond naive.

I attended many parties like this one in the past, and do not recall a situation like this one coming up.

 

[Julia Sky]

In a situation like this, in my opinion, there has to be full restitution and an apology, or the person involved should be banned from any future parties.

You mean and*, not or.

 

[Lans]

Isnt the responsability both to the client and the lady? I agree he shouldnt except free time. But since he didnt mention anything, the lady shouldve asked how many hours and discuss price before leaving with him instead of waiting after. Just like Julia did. Was this girl totally new to the buisness?

When someone ask something from me and I want something in return, I say it right from the start. No surprise

 

[JennyLove]

Isnt the responsability both to the client and the lady? I agree he shouldnt except free time. But since he didnt mention anything, the lady shouldve asked how many hours and discuss price before leaving with him instead of waiting after. Just like Julia did. Was this girl totally new to the buisness?

When someone ask something from me and I want something in return, I say it right from the start. No surprise

I’m experienced but normally I stay within agencies. Meeting him at a MERB party made me think he was a safe client. After about 1.5 to 2 hours of service, he asked me to stay the night. When I asked about his budget, he goes, 'I thought you liked me,' and threw it in my face that he bought me dinner. Lesson learned, I’m talking prices first next time

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Why don't I find this surprising?

 

[EagerBeaver]

You mean and*, not or.

My assumption is that you likely take away any incentive to provide the former if it's known that you will impose the latter. Although frankly, I doubt an apology and restitution will be forthcoming, and a ban from future parties will likely be the only feasible outcome here.

My post that you commented on was based on me thinking about how Iggy would have handled this situation had it arisen at one of his parties. It's only speculation on my part that Iggy would have handled it this way. Iggy did ban a few bad apples from the parties, but it was for different reasons. He did let one of the "bannees" back, based on his promise not to engage in the behavior that got him banned ("savior behavior", i.e., interrogating ladies on why they got into the business), and a further promise to handle coatroom duties.

 

[LeDodo]

I’m experienced but normally I stay within agencies. Meeting him at a MERB party made me think he was a safe client. After about 1.5 to 2 hours of service, he asked me to stay the night. When I asked about his budget, he goes, 'I thought you liked me,' and threw it in my face that he bought me dinner. Lesson learned, I’m talking prices first next time

The worst part is that if it was really a genuine misunderstanding it could have been fixed by giving the envelope. But he didn't and he even tried his luck with different, if not all, providers there.

The calculation behind the actions are so bad for other clients who will be scrutinized to a point that people who don't know such actions will find it excessive.

 

[Julia Sky]

My assumption is that you likely take away any incentive to provide the former if it's known that you will impose the latter.

It doesn't have to be mentioned at all to him though. There is no need to provide an incentive to make things right, and if there is, the incentive should never be to keep access to events involving the very people he did wrong.

Regardless of apology/restitution this person should not be invited to other social events. There's a world of difference between the type of situation you mentioned and this one. One is misplaced curiosity, the other is theft of services and potentially a form of rape if they did get intimate.

 

[EagerBeaver]

It doesn't have to be mentioned at all to him though.

Julia, I am not going to disagree with anything you said in your post above, but Judy already mentioned he has been on the board since the party. I presume this person has read this thread. So it has been "mentioned." I presume the lady in question who was not paid, still wants to get paid. My intuition here is that any incentive to do the right thing- which we all know is the right thing, whether being shamed into doing it or voluntary- is being removed.

 

[Julia Sky]

Julia, I am not going to disagree with anything you said in your post above, but Judy already mentioned he has been on the board since the party. I presume this person has read this thread. So it has been "mentioned." I presume the lady in question who was not paid, still wants to get paid. My intuition here is that any incentive to do the right thing- which we all know is the right thing, whether being shamed into doing it or voluntary- is being removed.

I don't care if he reads this thread and is aware. When I said it doesn't have to be mentioned I meant there's no need to tell him directly "you will no longer be invited". It should be common sense anyway...

This thread and the fact that he has been identified, in itself, removes any incentive. So does the fact that he's moving to another continent.

We don't have to protect his feelings. If protecting his feelings as an incentive to not be a total fucking asshole was the goal, perhaps the best course of action to do this would've been to simply not say anything instead of implying an apology and restitution would warrant giving him access to GTs again.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Judy already mentioned he has been on the board since the party. I presume this person has read this thread.

He was indeed. I looked up the profile and he was on today. He is clearly is aware. I assume because he is moving across the world that he probably "don't care" wich is a very shameful attitude.

Jenny is a great person and this guy just took advantage of this.