alright, you want details? Here’s the the “real” deal regarding my DFK-ing or lack there of:
1.I will happily DFK if all the following criteria are met (no exceptions): 1.1 Polite and respectful AND Clean breath and teeth. If you have a beard, clean and free of food and smells.
2. DFK is a privilege not a right. That privilege can be revoked at any moment. DFK dealbreakers are as follows: 2.1 If you can’t swallow your spit and it just leaks in my mouth. You’re done. 2.2 If you’re going too slow, like … making out while doing tai chi bleu nuit style stuff - if you do that and don’t pick up my cue to pep it up a little. Also done.
3. You will be informed of préférences ans/or offences that are not dealbreakers and given the opportunity to adjust. 3.1 if the above are met with indifference or bunched panties. You’re done.
Perhaps I should replace my “no. YYMV” with the above? I think not. or maybe I should. I could write out aaaaallllllll these details regarding everything but no one would read it anyway
The flipside of that is there have been women so physically flawless, intensely passionate and fun that I had to see them again within 48 hours or a week.