Love daty too. I only do it if the girl seems responsive--if she doesn't appear into it I move on . . . My favorite way is with her standing up against a wall, and me on her knees pleasuring her. The more she straddles my face with her pussy, the better.
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Quite surprising, the overwhelming response in favor of DATY. I was expecting a more even polling. Maybe those who object or do not enjoy the activity reframed from responding in the negative.
Thanks for all the responses, I think it was eye opening. Didn't believe SP's could really fully enjoy themselves. Oh well, goes to show how much I know...
I guess I better up my game then. Any suggestions as to technique?
Thanks for all the responses, I think it was eye opening. Didn't believe SP's could really fully enjoy themselves. Oh well, goes to show how much I know...
I guess I better up my game then. Any suggestions as to technique?
Recently there was a review posted in the review thread of Alexis of GG I think. This person said he didn't eat her pussy. I wanted to ask, did you bump your head prior to the date? I spent a good 20 minutes worshiping her pussy and I could of spent more.
Now why do I feel compelled to do this? That is another question to ponder. If a girl is smoking hot and dressed to kill - like for instance Nikky or Alexis at GG3 - I feel compelled to plant my mouth in between her legs and make love to the pussy. If she has sexy eye shadow or is wearing pumps or a sexy lacy bra? All the more reason to eat pussy. I don't get it myself. But mine is not to wonder why. Mine is just to eat pussy or die.
Now why do I feel compelled to do this? That is another question to ponder. If a girl is smoking hot and dressed to kill - like for instance Nikky or Alexis at GG3 - I feel compelled to plant my mouth in between her legs and make love to the pussy. If she has sexy eye shadow or is wearing pumps or a sexy lacy bra? All the more reason to eat pussy. I don't get it myself. But mine is not to wonder why. Mine is just to eat pussy or die.
I guess I better up my game then. Any suggestions as to technique?
Hard to suggest technique as one size does not fit all!
I remember one gentleman who came at me with the suction of a Hoover! It was most uncomfortable - when I protested he explained that his wife enjoyed that technique. They had four kids. I guess perhaps she wasn't quite as sensitive as I am, lol.
Best advice I can give is to take your cues from your partner, you should be able to tell by her reactions what is working for her.
Its something you do to return the favor, not something I am really into otherwise.
In the paid world you pay to return the favor. As well as being an otherwise decent respectful guy who respects limits.
I guess I can't suspect the belief enough to overlook the fact that she is only there because I am paying her and I suspect that dispite what they say that most of them are not into it as much as they let on. It is a bit personal afterall. So I am very confortable in making it all about me and my fantasy within the limits above of course.
Also there is the disease issue. I know the standard othadoxy is that BB oral is nothing but that isn't true and I am not going through some dental dam.
Maybe if I had a regular I'd feel different.
In the paid world you pay to return the favor. As well as being an otherwise decent respectful guy who respects limits.
I guess I can't suspect the belief enough to overlook the fact that she is only there because I am paying her and I suspect that dispite what they say that most of them are not into it as much as they let on. It is a bit personal afterall. So I am very confortable in making it all about me and my fantasy within the limits above of course.
Also there is the disease issue. I know the standard othadoxy is that BB oral is nothing but that isn't true and I am not going through some dental dam.
Maybe if I had a regular I'd feel different.
QAny suggestions as to technique?
Be sure to shave well under your lower lip. If you dont, you will tickle or itch her.
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Lily from Montreal
I had to weigh in, I love it and even more love the response and am generally rewarded for a job well done. As far as technique, sometimes less is more. Less direct licking and sucking and glancing blows work for some and hard direct pressure works for others. When I start I am indirect and sensitive to the way the woman moves her hops and pussy. If I am direct and there is little response I will back off be indirect and let her come to me, she always will. When she does, back off and make her want it even more, it's a bit of a game and she will ultimately dictate how she wants to play. Generally I can have a woman squirting all over, sometimes it is a shock to her that she actually squirted. I find a lot of SP's tend to hold back and that I don't understand, but if she senses your goal she will often let herself go, again and again. Patience is definately a virtue lol
Patience is definately a virtue lolThanks Sylvain & Lily for the valuable real life insight.
What about introducing "Digits" while performing DATY? My inclination is to not do "Digits", as I don't think most ladies would enjoy this, especially without knowing how aggressive the guy will be. I bet it's very uncomfortable or painful, if executed improperly.
What about introducing "Digits" while performing DATY? My inclination is to not do "Digits", as I don't think most ladies would enjoy this, especially without knowing how aggressive the guy will be. I bet it's very uncomfortable or painful, if executed improperly.
Introducing the digits once you have begun and have her engine running is a great addition to the experience for her. I personally introduce the digits one at a time up to 4 depending on the woman and the urging I sense from her. The speed at which you use the digits she will determine as well and the curl of the fingertips stimulating the G spot will depend on how she moves her hips towards your tongue and or fingers. It is the combination of the two that will invoke the squirting, properly groomed fingernails cut and filed and rounded smooth will help enhance the experience for her. Run your fingernails down your cheek, if you can scratch yourself they need more work. I find that if I cannot pick a dime up off a wood floor I am good to go
Hey Wasisname, thanks for your reply. It's a different perspective than what has been voiced so far. And tbh, it's the exact same thoughts I had regarding DATY. I have to admit though, that the other comments here are starting to sway me to join the "Dark Side"...
I only did it with 3 girls personally... first time was with Kate after many meetings... if i had to do it with one girl, it had to be her. The 2 other girls i just kinda felt a really good connection with them... i dunno, one of them was on second meeting, the other one was at the first but it was a special set-up wich i won't elaborate more on...
Bottom line, i has to be special in a way, even if the girl is uber hot, i won't go there first meeting and all... I also have to be 100% sure im first client of the day and i really only enjoy it in 69... oh and she has to be shaved too...
Bottom line, i has to be special in a way, even if the girl is uber hot, i won't go there first meeting and all... I also have to be 100% sure im first client of the day and i really only enjoy it in 69... oh and she has to be shaved too...
Hello Lily,
Many times I enjoy giving more than receiving because when the ladies deal with me it's more often too much like a rougher hardcore porn experience. I like to enjoy as I give, with a long tender slowly indulgent loving experience. Maybe with some punctuation of intensity, but then pulling back to indulge once again. When the experience is going best I love feeling the rise of energy and intensity flowing through her body, and when her movements have built up vividly from the way she feels me...IT'S PERFECT...and perfectly exciting for my own sexual flow.
Mostly, I think I like the feel of tasting her and wrapping my arms around her hips and thighs more often than her doing the same for me even when she is at her best.
Happy trails,
Merlot
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Lily from Montreal
Hello Merlot! My problem when I am on the giving end ,for ladies ,men I do know what to do...but for ladies friends I am even pickier that for my male one so I rarely meet a lady that I want to do the deed so, not much practice ...and if there is a domain that practice makes perfect I think it is this one...
I have to agree with you.
There are few things more exciting than assisting my partner reach an orgasm where her abs contract, her breathing speeds up and her body starts to convulse almost involuntarily. Once I thought my partner was having an epileptic fit, because her reaction was so strong. And the aftermath of gently toying with her overly sensitive clit.... priceless.
I also enjoy it when my partner joins in with her fingers as I provide the oral stimulation. You know that she is really into it then.
After reading all the opinions here, my will to resist joining the Dark Side was sapped. And I willingly became a servant to its strong pull...
In other words, I was a DATY'ing fool this weekend... lol
To be brutally honest, when I 1st started this post, I didn't believe in DATY'ing and thought it was wasted effort. I didn't believe SP's could fully let loose and enjoy themselves. I don't know if my opinion has completely changed, but what I do realize is that it is a building block to the fantasy of any sensual encounter. Maybe the lady did actually enjoy my skills, or maybe they faked it, thinking that's what I wanted. Tbh, I am not smart enough to tell the difference... But my hope is that I am able to return some small favor, and if there is some slim chance that I can accomplish this, then I shall put my best foot forward. Or in this case... Put my best tongue forward =p
In other words, I was a DATY'ing fool this weekend... lol
To be brutally honest, when I 1st started this post, I didn't believe in DATY'ing and thought it was wasted effort. I didn't believe SP's could fully let loose and enjoy themselves. I don't know if my opinion has completely changed, but what I do realize is that it is a building block to the fantasy of any sensual encounter. Maybe the lady did actually enjoy my skills, or maybe they faked it, thinking that's what I wanted. Tbh, I am not smart enough to tell the difference... But my hope is that I am able to return some small favor, and if there is some slim chance that I can accomplish this, then I shall put my best foot forward. Or in this case... Put my best tongue forward =p
I truly enjoy DATY even more than intercourse.Unfortunately my very 1st experience when I was 18 the girl did not taste too good at all down south I almost yakked.That dramatized me for the longest time. Then after many years pasted I tried it again when I was a 25 with an SP & man I was soo turned on by it I ejaculated on the bed within minutes, but it was the most memorable feeling ever. Of course I have better control now. My favorite is having the girl pivot her back & wrap her legs around you while I'm grabbing her butt.
Damn why did I have to put my 2 cents now I need to make the call.
Damn why did I have to put my 2 cents now I need to make the call.
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