Too young to get with an escort?

[Marauder69]

I contributed to this post about why some escorts might not prefer younger dudes.

Are any of you guys under the age of 30? Have you found that you were rejected because of your age?

Seriously, WHY do many escorts prefer older men...what's the bottom line?

 

[sexxxymtl]

I don't think you will find a bottom line... While we don't refuse any client based on race or age, there have been some situations that didn't run as smoothly... Personally, it's been anywhere to how the treat the ladies (bluntly put: as if we are nothing more then whores and we are to do and only do what they want even if it hurts us), and having issues with them getting the hotel room... They are to shy or scared... Not sure which but if you treat the women with respect and do you part to make the rendez vous happen, then my girls will definately do there part....

 

[naughtylady]

Personally I never heard of younger men having a difficult time finding an SP. Yes some SPs prefer older men for personal reasons, but I do not see any major issues personally:
YES, Often their budget is tighter so it is usually only a 1 hour date;
and they tend to have less experience (but they are usually eager to learn how to please a woman so this all works out in the end).

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[Miss Maria]

Sometimes guys don't tell you how old they are and it is always surprising when they are younger then 25. I have asked some guys to provide IDs a couple times because they looked so young and I didn't want to do anything illegal.

I have had great fun with younger men even if they are less experienced and more nervous about meeting an escort. The problem I have had with it was that if they were students and/or living at home, I couldn't help but feel bad to take their money. I think men should learn about relationships, intimacy and sexuality in a manner where there is no money involved. I have refused to see some younger guys a second time because it just didn't feel right to do it.

I do prefer older men in my personal life as well. Might be a way to express a HUGE unresolved Oedipus complex. I just love my Daddy!

Maria
XXXXX

 

[sinbad]

Might be a way to express a HUGE unresolved Oedipus complex. I just love my Daddy!

Maria
XXXXX

Don't want to be fussy, but in your case it's an ELECTRA complex - unless you're hiding a few inches up your skirt.

sinbad

 

[Miss Maria]

LOL!! No extra bits, promised!

For Freud, the term 'Oedipus complex' is used for both girls and boys. He actually never studied boys.. only one girl. I suspect the term Electra complex was brought about by the Neo-Freudians.

 

[longislander]

Almost right !!

LOL!! No extra bits, promised!

For Freud, the term 'Oedipus complex' is used for both girls and boys. He actually never studied boys.. only one girl. I suspect the term Electra complex was brought about by the Neo-Freudians.

Sweet Maria... Carl Jung intoduced the term "Electra complex",that involves a sexual attachment to her father and is analogous to a boy's attachment to his mother,that form the basis of "The Oedipus complex" (Sigmund Freud) I hope this will help you...mamacita.

 

[Miss Maria]

Oh Papi!

You know a little bit about psychology??? That is sooo sexy!

 

[rollingstone]

I saw my first escort when I was under 30. I never hid or lied about my age. I never had an issue with agency providers or independents. As long as you treat the SP like you would any other woman in your bed, I don't see what the problem is. The only difference is that an SP is generally more open to your sexual advances and desire for experimentation. Some SP's post age preferences on their pages, and if I don't qualify I simply do not seek to spend time with them. Montreal has far too many options available to get hung up on not meeting a handful of SPs.

I never really asked any of them how they want to be pleased. I kept trying several things patiently, and I took their responses at face value. I am certain there is acting going on, but I don't really dwell on that. This is mainly because I don't like being asked about details about how I like being pleased. I am afraid that if I am too specific, I will miss out on a great talent the SP might possess. Ultimately I just stick with the one(s) I feel I enjoy a good time with and experiment with new ones from time to time.

With agencies this is a non-issue, since the SP does not know anything about the person she is going to see. If you are e-mailing an independent, just be respectful - she will use your writing to figure out what kind of person you are (this is an assumption on my part). Also be sure to tell her a bit about yourself.

I have been told by various people that young men should seek women in a more conventional manner. The fact is I do both, and I never see an SP while dating someone (I don't want to lie or keep secrets). SP's tend to be more open and talented sexually, and I don't want to wait until I am old man and wonder what something would have been like had I been younger and had more energy to do it.

Edit: Just wanted to add that from my experience, SPs are very open to suggestion, except for things they explicitly say they will not do (e.g. Greek or CIM). It may not be acceptable to treat her like a tramp, but it is acceptable to say it is your fantasy to completely debase a woman in bed, and then she can agree/disagree to play the role you want her to.

 

[JustBob]

Oh Papi!

You know a little bit about psychology??? That is sooo sexy!

Me too look!

"A lie as a self-interested untruth told by someone other than Freud."

 

[Crappy_Lover]

It's just plain easier...

...WHY do many escorts prefer older men...what's the bottom line?

NO MSOG(or rarely)... Erectile disfunction.... It's ALL about having as less sex as possible...

Why bother with a 20 something year old dude who will want to fuck for 50 minutes in the hour(with MSOG), when you can have another dude who will have a hard time just getting a hard-on?...And will end up talking for most of the encounter?

L'équation est facile a faire....Even more true with HDH's.....I piss in my pants when I read: I prefer the company of a more experienced men....My ASS!!!!

 

[misunderstood]

NO MSOG(or rarely)... Erectile disfunction.... It's ALL about having as less sex as possible...

Why bother with a 20 something year old dude who will want to fuck for 50 minutes in the hour(with MSOG), when you can have another dude who will have a hard time just getting a hard-on?...And will end up talking for most of the encounter?

L'équation est facile a faire....Even more true with HDH's.....I piss in my pants when I read: I prefer the company of a more experienced men....My ASS!!!!

I'm looking forward to being 75 so I can be considered "prefered company"!

 

[Miss Maria]

NO MSOG(or rarely)... Erectile disfunction.... It's ALL about having as less sex as possible...

Why bother with a 20 something year old dude who will want to fuck for 50 minutes in the hour(with MSOG), when you can have another dude who will have a hard time just getting a hard-on?...And will end up talking for most of the encounter?

L'équation est facile a faire....Even more true with HDH's.....I piss in my pants when I read: I prefer the company of a more experienced men....My ASS!!!!

Actually the young 20 year olds cum really fast usually because they are nervous and have less experiences. The best lovers I have had were from 30s-late 50s. Some of them doing me over and over again for 4 hours.

Maria
XXXX

 

[Miss Maria]

I am sure there are good lovers at any age.

 

[master_bates]

Some SP's prefer older men because younger one's are immature but if you

prove to them that you are mature for your age then they will give you a

chance. Their age restriction isnt written in stone.

 

[Marauder69]

NO MSOG(or rarely)... Erectile disfunction.... It's ALL about having as less sex as possible...

Why bother with a 20 something year old dude who will want to fuck for 50 minutes in the hour(with MSOG), when you can have another dude who will have a hard time just getting a hard-on?...And will end up talking for most of the encounter?

L'équation est facile a faire....Even more true with HDH's.....I piss in my pants when I read: I prefer the company of a more experienced men....My ASS!!!!

I agree with you 100% Crappy - the goal is to have the least amount of sex.

 

[misunderstood]

I agree with you 100% Crappy - the goal is to have the least amount of sex.

Ssst! Some new SP's still don't know about this!

 

[Miss Maria]

I agree with you 100% Crappy - the goal is to have the least amount of sex.

I do not know who you guys have been seeing, but I think you should change escorts. This is not a good attitude to have. If you don't like sex and you are in this buisness, it is just really sad. Some of us LOVE meeting people and LOVE the erotic action. The more the merrier!

 

[Ben Dover]

I'll add my two cents to this one since I was with many SPs when I was in my 20s... These are just my own personal observations. I'm sure, like everything, SP attitudes vary from one person to another.

What I noticed as somewhat common behavior was that older SPs (say 28 and up), when presented with a younger guy (under 25) sometimes take a bit more of an attitude. Again, this is a generalization that does not apply to everyone or even to all of my own experiences, but it was common. The older SPs would seem to think that they needed to lead things and were more "bossy" for lack of a better term. You could also tell (as crappy said) that they immediately viewed the session as more work and probably less lucrative work than with an older client.

The younger less experienced SPs on the other hand (say 18-22) often greeted me with things like "thank god... a nice looking young guy! I wish all my meetings were with guys like you." I heard that mild gasp of relief many many times and although I enjoyed it a little bit, I also didn't like it because my first thought immediately would always turn to trying to block the image of a fat sweaty old guy banging this girl that I was about to be with...

I had opposite encounters with both older and younger SPs, so of course you never really know what you're going to get (unless it's a repeat!) but there you have it from my perspective, whatever that's worth.

BD

 

[rollingstone]

Thats an interesting perspective BD. All the SPs I have met have been my age or younger, so I can't relate to the older experience. Of course there is no way to be sure, since some of the women have been advertised at the same age for years! One of the SP's I hope to meet on my next trip to Montreal is older than me, so I will be on the look out for that attitude you mentioned.