Turning someone away

[jackyo8193]

I called Martin of Asservissante during a visit last December and the only provider he could send that evening was Melodie.

I did remember her name from reading MERB but I could not remember the details of her reports, only that was there was nothing extremely negative about her and so I said yes.

When I opened my room door, it was clear to me that this was a mistake.

She was way too skinny, flat as a board. There was absolutely nothing to caress on her body. And she smelled of cigarettes and strong perfume in strange proportions.

I was too polite to turn her away though in retrospect, that is what I should have done.

Don't get me wrong, she was very cooperative but that alone could not make up for her low visual and tactile appeal.

I was just anxious to get it done and her out of there and she sensed it as well. I did absolutely nothing to make her stay longer than I could take.

Lessons learned

I felt let down by Martin as I'd been satisfied on previous visits but realized you can't rely on past experience. Quality is very variable at his agency.

Do your MERB research before going.

You have to be ready to reject someone even if you don't really want to hurt her feelings.

 

[naughtylady]

If the girl is professional then she wont take it personally.

The other day I was at a bar with a friend of mine. She pointed out this guy to me and said to me something to the effect "Isn't he georgeous!" I didn't see anything special about him...in truth I didn't find myself attracted to him physically at all.

The point is we all are attracted to different things, some guys like a skinny little waif, others prefer a more volumptous woman, some prefer large breasts, others prefer small, and others don't care. Thank God people come in all different shapes and sizes!

Naughtylady,
Ronnie

 

[Lawless]

EB
Have you ever walked away on an incall though.
I did it a few times; it might be easier though!
lawless

 

[spartacus]

lol lawless
sometimes you gotta walk away.
Spartacus

 

[donbusch]

Originally posted by jackyo8193
I called Martin of Asservissante during a visit last December and the only provider he could send that evening was Melodie.

I did remember her name from reading MERB but I could not remember the details of her reports, only that was there was nothing extremely negative about her and so I said yes.

When I opened my room door, it was clear to me that this was a mistake.

She was way too skinny, flat as a board. There was absolutely nothing to caress on her body. And she smelled of cigarettes and strong perfume in strange proportions.

I was too polite to turn her away though in retrospect, that is what I should have done.

Don't get me wrong, she was very cooperative but that alone could not make up for her low visual and tactile appeal.

I was just anxious to get it done and her out of there and she sensed it as well. I did absolutely nothing to make her stay longer than I could take.

Lessons learned

I felt let down by Martin as I'd been satisfied on previous visits but realized you can't rely on past experience. Quality is very variable at his agency.

Do your MERB research before going.

You have to be ready to reject someone even if you don't really want to hurt her feelings.

It's unclear as to how your experience indicates the inconsistent quality at Asservissante or how Martin let you down? Martin will usually give the escort's stats and description over the phone before booking an appointment so Melodie's waiflike figure shouldn't have come as a surprise to you. As for her low visual appeal, a search on Melodie will yield numerous positive comments on her looks. The way I see it, Martin delivered as promised and can't be expected to be able to read your mind.

 

[maxxwell]

What is the etiquette or custom when turning down an outcall after she comes to the hotel room? Is one supposed to pay a "cancellation fee," and if so, how much?

 

[cando]

I guess it must have something to do with the fact that my research skills do not totally suck

Some of my best hobby experiences have been with taking a chance on new unknown girls. Seems your sure research method would rule that out.

Bad experiences not turning down at the door, when I knew I should, left me with a policy today of turning down even though it's a momentary unpleasant feeling. Several times I had not turned down because I wanted to build up a good relationship with an agency but I have discovered that there is nothing to gain by that policy.

If you don't like what you see politely turn the offer down. You may be irritated for the next few hours, especially if there is no backup, but you would also be irritated and in addition have a lighter wallet if you don't go with your gut feeling. Guaranteed that going with your gut feeling you will feel better the next morning.

 

[trailrunner66]

I just turned a lady away from Luxure this weekend. the appointment was at 7pm she arrived at 7:30pm. I said sorry but the appointment was for 7pm not 7:30pm. Just curious why should you give the lady 20$ for wasting your time.

 

[trailrunner66]

No I din't. The lady was late and din't even give me the courtesy of a phone call. Its just plain rude. Just mine opinion.