Yeah they just want your money... Don't create yourself a rainbow world here, it's a business and business is all about money. If the money was not in the equation sp's won't exist. Sp's are like the sales rep trying to sell you something and make you want to come back, this is marketing and part of selling something. They study their costumers and adapt to each one, they will tell them what they want to ear and they will do what they dream about. If one guy like certains things they will give it to them, some guys need to talk they will talk. All they want is make you feel good and important in exchange of money. It is a fantasy business. Until your sp introduce you to their mom and dad you still doing business nothing else. The sales rep might do little extras like bring you to lunch but probably after buying ALOT from him. Just think about it. Btw money and power don't rule the world, pussies does if you control pussies you control the world.
We can do better as men.
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If this is shown to be a nasty sort of business dealing with nasty sorts of people, then you won't attract the new younger and fresh providers you want. You will only continue to chase away the ones that remain, while the new younger ones choose to stay safely out of reach and on a screen instead of as a live option.
Making the business a less scary and distasteful option from such dehumanizing manners and thoughts.
We aren't forced into this, we choose it, just as we can choose not to be part of it. People with views like the OP have a point. I will choose a single hour with one of my favorites than ever accept a 3 hr with someone who I don't like or want to spend time with. I often refuse people I would not be compatible with. It isn't just about money. We look to make our work something that can keep us going. And shitty encounters only lead to burnout and another SP who disappeares from the scene.
Poor behavior by either men or women, SPs or clients, there are consequences. One of those consequences is the SP you want to see avoiding you, because they didn't like you. Just as your reaction is to not call an SP back you did not enjoy either.
You don't have to be a white knight, or go above and beyond, we are not your wife who gets mad at you for forgetting your anniversary again. But common courtesy, and kindness goes a long way to making the difference between getting to see someone you like again, or not.
We also very much do appreciate the lovlies who do enjoy sharing their desire to display a little extra something, whatever that may be, that brings a smile to the SPs they choose to share much of their intimate time with.
Yes money is involved, but our interactions are not just money. There are different kinds of relationships that form within the framework of SW.
Making the business a less scary and distasteful option from such dehumanizing manners and thoughts.
We aren't forced into this, we choose it, just as we can choose not to be part of it. People with views like the OP have a point. I will choose a single hour with one of my favorites than ever accept a 3 hr with someone who I don't like or want to spend time with. I often refuse people I would not be compatible with. It isn't just about money. We look to make our work something that can keep us going. And shitty encounters only lead to burnout and another SP who disappeares from the scene.
Poor behavior by either men or women, SPs or clients, there are consequences. One of those consequences is the SP you want to see avoiding you, because they didn't like you. Just as your reaction is to not call an SP back you did not enjoy either.
You don't have to be a white knight, or go above and beyond, we are not your wife who gets mad at you for forgetting your anniversary again. But common courtesy, and kindness goes a long way to making the difference between getting to see someone you like again, or not.
We also very much do appreciate the lovlies who do enjoy sharing their desire to display a little extra something, whatever that may be, that brings a smile to the SPs they choose to share much of their intimate time with.
Yes money is involved, but our interactions are not just money. There are different kinds of relationships that form within the framework of SW.
What sort of social dates would you like?I want to like this 100 times ! Thank you. If you want a A1 SP (hygiene, look and service), be a A1 client. Im not difficult. Take a shower and brush your teeth before I arrive, be respectful and respect boundaries. Have a clean towel for me to shower at the end too.I like drinks (especially wine haha) too but it's not required. Thats it. Im gonna be really happy
You are too easy to please Stacy! A client should give his best which I do! I’ll teach you even some guitar chords as well! When I get a chance!I want to like this 100 times ! Thank you. If you want a A1 SP (hygiene, look and service), be a A1 client. Im not difficult. Take a shower and brush your teeth before I arrive, be respectful and respect boundaries. Have a clean towel for me to shower at the end too.I like drinks (especially wine haha) too but it's not required. Thats it. Im gonna be really happy
I dreaming about the day when clients will stop talking for us like they are the providers. Yes it's a job, a service that you pay money for. However, like Rebaynia says, it totally not all about the money. I refuse to repeat with some clients. Not necessarily because they disrespected me or else; it can be because I just didnt like them and their opinions. Ive been offer multiple time BIG BIG amount of money to do certain things : anal, rimming, pee stuff etc. I could have just done these (even only 1 time) to make a lot of money but I didnt. So no, I won't necessarily do what they dream about just for money.
Im not gonna tell them everything they want to hear and be fake either. My regular and long-term clients are not on merb but if some of my clients are here, they will confirm this about me 100%.
Also, I became friends (yes friends for real) with some of them over the years. We know everything about each other. I care for them deeply. Im still in contact with a client/friend who move away (other continent) 2 years ago. I will probably never see him ever again but we still give each other updates about our lifes.
If it's the first time meeting, restaurant
I like good food and wine and its great to get to know someone! If we get along well Im up too a bunch of things : Bowling,mini-putt.wine tasting,ice skating, karting,shopping,arcades,spa and weekend trips/travelling.
I approve the bowling, (learning) ice skating, karting and arcadesIf it's the first time meeting, restaurant
