Personally when i started GFE was kissing/bbj Cim was listed as a service with or without extra(back then more often without)
These days, services are not allow to be listed on the board, some does it anyway in a more subtile way wich i apreciate. For exemple "i am open minded" mean usually she is open with either cim or cof, or it may be greek, but she is surely not "no kissing no bbj"
I always said it, and i will say it again, if CBJ become the norm, i will either stop seeing escorts and/or lower a lot my meeting frequencies. Honestly for me there is a "routine" to a meeting. Not saying something else can't be included like striptease or whatever, its always welcomed lol, but to me usually it start with kissing. Some are more LFK, others DFK, i apreciate DFK the most but i can live with LFK, as long as she is hot and turn me on, usually this is when the engine start. I get hard and then she proceed to for the BJ. Then the rest of the session depend on the girl. I had session where i would come from simply the BJ, others where we go to FS, other where i will cum so fast because she is very good and the chatting was short that we have time for a round 2 and this time it include FS. Some rare exeption i go DATY but this is YMMV for me hahaha.
So yeah sessions are all different, but kissing/bbj is like part of the thing for to be mandatory. And as some of you noticed over the years i tend to go for providers that allow CIM or COF. I am a very gentle guy in bed, not a hair puller, i usually let the girl suck by herself, sometimes i may use my hand on her head but very gentle and folllow her motion, unless she clearly say she don't mind or whatever, i am really a teddy bear in bed usually. BUT the grand finale is part of what i love, it has a little naughty factor i love and i dunno, i guess i watched too much porn lol. But there is nothing like a pretty girl looking at you while you cum in her mouth or face, and then she look at you with a naughty look either after swallow it all, or have a mouthfull or with sperm on her cheeks. Anyway lol, i just love that. Im not an anal lover at all, i mean i did it a few time and maybe in the futur i may do it again, but its clearly not something i aim for, but cim/cof yeah...
In rare ocasion i do see girls that either does not do it at all, or i take a guess... Uusually the provider have to have that little something... either i saw her at a party, i loved her attitude or i dunno, stuff like that. Some agencies are also very shy with there services listing/mentioning so you kinda have to follow reviews and those can be YMMV....
Anyway... all of this to say i prefer an "above neck" finale but i can settle with COB if i really have to. But don't say to me to come in a condom, i can't even do that(never did, doubt ill ever do) and its a total turn off for me...
So yeah, if a girl is not frisky about sperm, she will do BBJ, so CBJ.. no thanks.
