What I hate in threesomes

[AlexConor]

I would just like to say that the thing I hate the most in SP offering DUOs is the fact that they always not working together. For example, one SP will give the deed while the other just watches and does not do anything. She will just intervene here and there, but she is mostly a voyeur.
Also another thing I hate is the fact they have to change the condom everytime when they tag team. It just does not make the experience smooth and joyful.

Please let me know you can relate.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

Threesomes are like gambles!

Changing condom is important for obvious reasons

 

[LC18]

You can always ask if it’s an interactive duo or not. Some women aren’t bisexual and wouldn’t really interact with each other, this can affect your experience if you were looking for something a little more dynamic…

Changing condoms is a non negotiable.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I fully agree, threesomes with professionals are too often lame or boring. The best I had was with civies where, things just naturally flow, not like a script scenario.

 

[talkinghead]

Same. My experience is also "lame and boring." Lena's advice about an interactive due is smart. I'm sure there are some duos that are fantastic.

 

[Julia Sky]

My experience has been very different, I feel like most of my duo partners have been fine with us being interactive. But I might be biased, I wonder what percentage of duos aren't interactive.

Indeed it's best to ask before and confirm expectations!! And it's often better to let an escort suggest a few duo partners instead of requesting a duo with people who never duo together or never talk.

As for the condom situation well yes, that's non negotiable. It's for health reasons. Safe sex practices are important in this industry!

 

[talkinghead]

@Julia Sky, my guess is that you and your MERB colleagues out here are the exceptions in offering interactive (ie, super hot) duos. It's even possible that I've heard tell about some of your duo adventures. Double the flavor, double the fun, as the old ad goes.

Of course I understand the "condom situation" and always appreciate safety. A minor question: does that apply to CBJ for clients who prefer that? I assume not but thought I'd ask.

 

[LC18]

A minor question: does that apply to CBJ for clients who prefer that? I assume not but thought I'd ask.

I guess that’s a personal question. In my case I would say no

 

[TheJames101]

Always always confirm that the two girls are interactive (and if possible, enjoys duos) before booking.

 

[Wessex]

First meet one girl and ask her if she is bi and interactive. Then book with who she wants with her. Then it will probably be a good session. The chicks have to like each other ,otherwise it will be banal.

 

[Dasiana]

I personally made sure that my duos are legendary. Both girls are bisexual & share the same values. Met them individually before multiple times.

However it was such a perfect match that they became friends lol and I started to lose control of my nights because they like to talk to each other more than following my rythme ..

 

[Lexus3]

I fully agree, threesomes with professionals are too often lame or boring. The best I had was with civies where, things just naturally flow, not like a script scenario.

You have been unlucky Cap'tain. Montreal has and has had some interactive duo gems like Lucky and Lucy and Joyce & Mika.
In both cases, one of the two duo partners recommended a duo.
If not interactive, a waste of time and money. Best to confirm.

 

[S.S neo]

Always always confirm that the two girls are interactive (and if possible, enjoys duos) before booking.

Yes .. and always confirm they will interact with you too

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

You have been unlucky Cap'tain.

I’d say more jaded than unlucky, as I had so many amazing 3somes in real life.

 

[Rebaynia]

I would imagine duos would be lots of fun. I know it has always been a lot of fun for me to play with couples.

Same but different senario. It is 2 providers entertaining 1 client, and eachother with no emotional attachments, rather than 1 provider entertaining 2 clients at the same time taking care of both their emotional states, avoiding jealousy.

But yes being bi is pretty much a necessity when looking for duo partners.

 

[clemieux6]

threesomes are all about communication

you cant have three total strangers for the first time and expect fireworks

As for the condom ordeal, its safety 101...

 

[Doc Holliday]

threesomes are all about communication

you cant have three total strangers for the first time and expect fireworks

As for the condom ordeal, its safety 101...

True. But chemistry between all three is also very important. It usually will take another session or two to find that chemistry if the participants are new to one another. I remember my very first one which had not been planned at all & just happened out of nowhere. The sp i had booked just showed up with a friend of hers. I was caught by suprised & told them i hadn’t booked a threesome. She said the other girl would leave if i didn’t want her around. I replied that i didn’t mind she stayed but that i had never had a threesome before & i’d likely be a bit nervous since all this came out of nowhere. They chuckled. I ended up being extremely turned on by the experience & let the girls take the lead. But while in mish with one girl the other girl looked at the one i was with & said “doggie?” AND THAT WORD ALONE CAUSED ME TO CUM RIGHT AT THAT MOMENT! I was pissed! They asked me why & i replied that i usually never cum so fast & i wanted it to last a hell of a lot longer! What a disappointment on my part! Lol.

The next night i called to see the girl again & once again she showed up with her friend. It went much better since it was no longer my first trip to the rodeo! The next night same thing: they showed up together & this time i took the lead & gave directions. We were getting used to one another & it was easy to communicate among each other. It went great! The next night i called to see the same girl alone. But it’s her friend that showed up instead! She told me that the other girl was in her car & about to come up. They wanted to know if i was up for another threesome. I replied not to take it personally but no, i wasn’t. I wanted to see the other girl…alone. She left & a few minutes later the other girl appeared. She said that her friend was extremely disappointed that i had turned her away. I replied why? I had called to see her & not her friend again! She replied that her friend found we had great chemistry all three of us together & she thought so also & was surprised i didn’t feel the same way. So i kind of felt bad for the other girl & realized they were right. So i said okay she could call her friend Jen & tell her to come up to join us. I ended up seeing them exclusively for several months & the chemistry with one another even became much better as i was getting more experienced & was now pretty much taking control of the whole thing. We all felt free to communicate our thoughts & suggestions to one another & it made the chemistry even better. I didn’t realize it at the time but my time with these two lovely ladies over a period of several months were among my top experiences ever!