What is your definition of "Indy"?

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I tend to agree on that

The only exception I would add is that if a girl hires a booker and another provider, it's an agency. An indy who hires a helper she's still an indy, she's the boss at the end.

Someone who understands

 

[Harvey]

Indy=Lady that works alone in a private place.

 

[SensualFlight]

Indy = A single woman doing everything, from booking to meeting

Agency = One of multiple bookers and drivers taking care of more than one girl

If a woman is using a booker to handle her text messages or emails to organize her schedule, she's still an Indy in my opinion. HOWEVER, if she doesn't warn her potential clients that it's not her she's communicating with prior to the meeting, it's a form of hypocrisy. When I used to communicate with women in order to book meetings, I would be nice and somewhat "flirt" with them. I feel CHEATED if I learn after the fact that I was flirting with a man, and you can be sure she won't meet me again, even if the meeting was great!

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The main problem I have with women having a booker, is they build some kind of "intimacy". I'm not talking about sexual intimacy per say, which may or may not happen - but let's not hide our head in the sand: some bookers do it for sex! The problem is they talk about clients between them, and the booker (who is most of the times a member of this forum) gets to know things about everyone that should have been kept private between the woman and her client. Eventually they may even threaten to reveal things they shouldn't even know in the first place.
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SF

 

[BookerL]

Indy = A single woman doing everything, from booking to meeting

Agency = One of multiple bookers and drivers taking care of more than one girl

If a woman is using a booker to handle her text messages or emails to organize her schedule, she's still an Indy in my opinion. HOWEVER, if she doesn't warn her potential clients that it's not her she's communicating with prior to the meeting, it's a form of hypocrisy. When I used to communicate with women in order to book meetings, I would be nice and somewhat "flirt" with them. I feel CHEATED if I learn after the fact that I was flirting with a man, and you can be sure she won't meet me again, even if the meeting was great!

<RANT>
The main problem I have with women having a booker, is they build some kind of "intimacy". I'm not talking about sexual intimacy per say, which may or may not happen - but let's not hide our head in the sand: some bookers do it for sex! The problem is they talk about clients between them, and the booker (who is most of the times a member of this forum) gets to know things about everyone that should have been kept private between the woman and her client. Eventually they may even threaten to reveal things they shouldn't even know in the first place.
</RANT>

SF

Hello SensualFlight

A good analysis of the situation ,where you are mostly right .
In </Rant > section

The problem is they talk about clients between them, and the booker (who is most of the times a member of this forum) gets to know things about everyone that should have been kept private between the woman and her client.

This is a reality either there is Booker or not ,the SP will be talking to another SP which is also most probably a poster ,and many times many other SP 's that you might be wanting to see ,
I had a big Van carrying 6 escorts and was also the Booker ,12 hours shift hearing of sex conversations and what clients does ,sounds appealing,:lol:

Sadly full discretion in this business is impossible


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[SensualFlight]

This is a reality either there is Booker or not ,the SP will be talking to another SP which is also most probably a poster ,and many times many other SP 's that you might be wanting to see ,
I had a big Van carrying 6 escorts and was also the Booker ,12 hours shift hearing of sex conversations and what clients does ,sounds appealing,:lol:

Sadly full discretion in this business is impossible

I agree with you, full discretion is impossible. There's one thing you forgot though. When you drive 6 escorts in your big van, they can talk as much as they want about who they just met that night, but it remains somewhat anonymous. They will never be able to uniquely identify who they just met by his merb handle, unless the client purposely told them, and very few would tell, at least not until some level of trust is established after repeated meetings. Even you as a booker, most of the time you get a name, an adress and a phone number. Nothing to link to a public merb personna either.

On the other hand, before an Indy meets someone, most of the time he used his real name to book her, and provided his merb handle so the booker (or the woman herself) could do some background check on him. So when she and her booker exchange intimate information after the meeting, it's totally identifiable, not anonymous anymore. BIG DIFFERENCE!

Besides, I don't care if a woman would be talking about me to another woman. I know it will happen. But to a man it bugs me. Call it ego or whatever, it still bugs me.

Also, it's quite possible an Indy will speak about a client to another client. That should also not happen, call it lack of ethics. But we all know it does. Unfortunatelly booker or not makes no difference in this case, and we have no way to know who talk about their clients in their back to other clients. I just hope my 2 inches erect penis and how bad a lover I am will not make it to merb too quickly! :lol:

SF

 

[BookerL]

Hello SensualFlight

I agree with you, full discretion is impossible. There's one thing you forgot though.

Yes I did not talk about it ,

When you drive 6 escorts in your big van, they can talk as much as they want about who they just met that night, but it remains somewhat anonymous. They will never be able to uniquely identify who they just met by his merb handle, unless the client purposely told them, and very few would tell, at least not until some level of trust is established after repeated meetings. Even you as a booker, most of the time you get a name, an adress and a phone number. Nothing to link to a public merb personna either.

Yes and no ,modus operandi identifies someone even if he wants to hide is merb handle for the ones who wants to hide it .
Some others will try to negotiate a deal ,because of a prestigious board handle " A Super Star " with promises of promoting the young lady if he has a "DEAL"

On the other hand, before an Indy meets someone, most of the time he used his real name to book her, and provided his merb handle so the booker (or the woman herself) could do some background check on him. So when she and her booker exchange intimate information after the meeting, it's totally identifiable, not anonymous anymore. BIG DIFFERENCE!

I agree there is many variables but "BIG DIFFERENCE" I would say minor in reality,but big in the promoting

Besides, I don't care if a woman would be talking about me to another woman. I know it will happen. But to a man it bugs me. Call it ego or whatever, it still bugs me.

Each client has is personal views and there is a wide range of opinions ,however the real question is will the man Booker be more discreet then the other ladies ,that also varies from "Bookers to Bookers "

Also, it's quite possible an Indy will speak about a client to another client. That should also not happen, call it lack of ethics.

I do understand it is your wish and its ok, of course ,However between ladies they call it professional courtesy to exchange infos about clients between them !Cuz size does Matter ,just a joke :lol::lol:

But we all know it does. Unfortunatelly booker or not makes no difference in this case, and we have no way to know who talk about their clients in their back to other clients. I just hope my 2 inches erect penis and how bad a lover I am will not make it to merb too quickly! :lol:

SF

You sense of you humor ,is really appreciated :lol:
Actually a 8 inches would go faster on a forum then a 2 incher ,
The SP would say in the Van
Can you imagine he wanted to take me in the ass....... with is big pipe .......and ?Well no :lol:



Happy Hobbying



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Booker