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i don,t want to sound cheap because i'm not and people who know me will confirm, but for me a good number would be $250 i will go to $300 sometimes but it kind of bothers me when i know i can get the same for $50 less, i'm not young but i,m in good shape and most ladies seem to enjoy my company i,m respectfull a gentlemen and i tend to try to make any session to be about having fun and a good time for both so i don,t have a problem creating chemistry, if i would do this 2 to 5 times a year it might be different but it,s more like 40 to 50 so at one point price as to be considered, that being said i have no problem with girls who charge more everyone is aloud to set there price and on the other side we all have to set our limits
Pretty much like @bobbyc, but I can push to 350 for the right girl, i.e. if we have a strong connection and the sex is naturally flowing. That has to include some mandatory activities (mostly bbbj and, to some extend, real kissing). Everything else is just stuff that develops in the heat of the moment.
Je confirme ce que @bobbyyc et @Cap’tain Fantastic ont dit. Un endroit propre, une attitude professionnelle, attentionnée qui fait oublier le côté commercial de la rencontre et qui inclue une connection sensuelle dans laquelle les deux peuvent créer une complicité. . Et bien sur, un tarif à la hauteur de mes attentes et qui incitera à répéter ($250- $300) N’étant plus jeune moi non plus, je ne suis plus dans la performance, donc je m’attend à ce que la partenaire trouve le déclic qui me donnera envie de revenir. A ce jour, très peu ont répondu à mes attentes.
I usually book 90min meeting , but since convid, the price increase much more than 3yrs ago. At 400-500 is almost impossible to have a 90min , so it make me almost stop seeing indy. So let say, the indy must have a great reputation and service to make me decide to see her.
I love sex, but being a introvert I cant spend more than 1-2 hours with someone max. It could be my best friends or my parents, I just simply cant do it and probably one of the reasons why I wound up in a open relationship.
Connection is even more nice than sex .. some customer tell me i dont mind about sex... lol
Oui avoir commencé dans ma début vingtaine.. j'aurai sûrement pas même attitude et service... je pense qu'à mon âge la connexion se fait beaucoup plus naturellement & profonde car j'ai une propre expérience sexuelle & de vie que je n'avais pas à mes 20 ans.. la majorité des agences sont des filles très jeune qui commencé dans le milieu
I struggle with this. I realize that I'm in North America, and I have to adapt, but I have done most of my mongering abroad and the differences are so big that my mind rebels a bit. I could be in the Philippines or Cuba and have a different girl every night, all night, for a week , and pay less than the hourly rate of some of the girls here, so my wallet always squawks here. lol. I can never decide whether to see people here or whether to just do the minimum possible while I wait to go abroad for another trip. So I guess my balance would be a maximum of $300/hr, but again I hate to put that out without knowing anything about the girl beforehand. Another advantage of mongering abroad is that you very often can see the girl in person, hang out, chat and get to know them first, so you know at least somewhat what you're getting.
I value people that are intelligent, fun, funny and playful. For me these people make the best sexual partners and I'm willing to pay more to be with someone like that than I am to be with a Barbie doll. I will take a 7 looks and 10 service over 10 looks and 7 service every single time, and pay for that. I ignore all women who are too clinical or whose first question is about cash. I won't even pay bottom dollar for them because I know even at half price it still won't be worth it. Most SPs (not all by any means) can't wait to get down to the details of time and payment, and an hour means an hour, point final, even if it means you get punted out the door in 30 mins ( an all too common occurrence). I try to avoid those.
So, let's see, I will pay more for a fun, easy-going girl that I enjoy talking to, who isn't a two-legged atm, and who will respect me and the time I paid for. Ultimately you pay whatever you pay for the first time and hope for the best. You always gamble the first time. The test is whether you come back to see her again or not. Who wouldn't pay more for a better experience (within reason)? Of course, if you have equally enjoyable experiences the better price wins. In a very competitive market you need to have something to offer that's better than your competition and you need to have a better connection with your clients if you want to charge more. I think that smart SPs understand this treat their clients accordingly, and establish a regular base of repeat business. Enough repeat business and some of the business hustle pressure comes off and you can be more selective about your clients, prices can be adjusted, and so on and so on. It's a symbiotic system.
I value people that are intelligent, fun, funny and playful. For me these people make the best sexual partners and I'm willing to pay more to be with someone like that than I am to be with a Barbie doll. I will take a 7 looks and 10 service over 10 looks and 7 service every single time, and pay for that. I ignore all women who are too clinical or whose first question is about cash. I won't even pay bottom dollar for them because I know even at half price it still won't be worth it. Most SPs (not all by any means) can't wait to get down to the details of time and payment, and an hour means an hour, point final, even if it means you get punted out the door in 30 mins ( an all too common occurrence). I try to avoid those.
So, let's see, I will pay more for a fun, easy-going girl that I enjoy talking to, who isn't a two-legged atm, and who will respect me and the time I paid for. Ultimately you pay whatever you pay for the first time and hope for the best. You always gamble the first time. The test is whether you come back to see her again or not. Who wouldn't pay more for a better experience (within reason)? Of course, if you have equally enjoyable experiences the better price wins. In a very competitive market you need to have something to offer that's better than your competition and you need to have a better connection with your clients if you want to charge more. I think that smart SPs understand this treat their clients accordingly, and establish a regular base of repeat business. Enough repeat business and some of the business hustle pressure comes off and you can be more selective about your clients, prices can be adjusted, and so on and so on. It's a symbiotic system.
you are right having a good connexion is the most important and yes agency girls tend to be younger, if im honest i can tell you that i have had good connexion with girls of all ages but you are also right girls 28 and up seem to understand the game a little more, thus easier to have fun and create chemistry
if i skip the part about going abroad for the price difference i kind of agree with everything you said i will skip all those barbies atm machines not my thing, i will take a 7 girl who acts like a 10 and makes me feel like a 10 why because i won't rate myself but lets say i'm a 7 for the cause i will make that 7 girl feel like she's a 10 so i expect the same and you don't actually have to pay $500 to find that
I’m not sure of how ethical sex work is in certain countries. It might be more expensive here but at least you know women aren’t doing it against their will (unless you look for shady ads)
You read my mind. Chemistry and performance compatibility is the only thing that I'll ever consider repeating for but ya, I don't really bother booking girls over 250. I've booked a few HDH girls in the past and 100% dissapointed in the encounters. If I have to hear another monologue about how amazing Louis Vuitton and Louboutin are during a session I'm paying for 500+ I'm gonna get up and leave while I contemplate visiting a clinic to beg them to stick a Qtip in my dick for absolutely no reason.
Edit: Btw Shantie back to the topic, first of all you're gorgeous , secondly, I see your posts often and can tell you're putting in a lot of good effort interacting here. I've contemplated seeing you a few times myself. But I'm just not someone that pre-books...ever. Also, I rarely see girls before midnight. Those are probably the only reasons why I haven't seen you myself.
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You'd probably need to be more specific about what countries/circumstances you're referring to. Virtually everyone I deal with is completely independent and unaffiliated with anyone, and absolutely doing it of their own volition. I expect that it's different in some of the "specialty" clubs but I think that's the case here too. Generally speaking I find the process more transparent in most of the countries I go to than I do the process here. It's absolutely less regimented. The biggest downside tend to be language and/or cultural issues which may make the personal component less interesting in some areas, depending on your ability to communicate. I realize this is very general and since I'm trying to cover a lot of area it's hard to be less so. Obviously each place is different and there are differences and exceptions to almost everything depending on how you frame the question.
Very well said. I travelled quite a bit and never got impression that girls are forced against their will. Having said that, there are also possibilities to force the girls to serve clients. Is it not happening here?
I simply try to use my budget for this hobby so that I can get the most memorable moments.
For me what makes a moment memorable, in order or the easiest to hardest to get:
1) Feeling the B2B and tasting a very hot body. Well I pick my providers for that but the key here is to look like your pictures or better.
2) A special good orgasm / sexual feeling: Some girls have some magic tricks to enhance the pleasure. The key here is to not hesitate to take the lead and try things on me. At worst I won't like it but if I like it just a little bit, I will probably repeat just for that.
3) A special connection. At first this is just a matter of feeling that the girl is providing me a special treatment: more than others, for example, free CIM (while she claim publicly that it is an extra) or extra time... At the opposite if the girl end the session 5 minutes in advance or tries to get me to pay more than the base price, I will probably not repeat.
As for the budge well I didn't find a correlation between the amount that I pay and the amount of the points above that I can check. So I go with the good deals: ~250/h for a FS or (since the sexual part is only 1 of 3 points), B2B massage: ~180/h. Sometime I do exceptions, when the girl is really hot, but most of the time I have been disappointed by the service of those Instagram / Onlyfans models so I keep telling myself: no more.
For me what makes a moment memorable, in order or the easiest to hardest to get:
1) Feeling the B2B and tasting a very hot body. Well I pick my providers for that but the key here is to look like your pictures or better.
2) A special good orgasm / sexual feeling: Some girls have some magic tricks to enhance the pleasure. The key here is to not hesitate to take the lead and try things on me. At worst I won't like it but if I like it just a little bit, I will probably repeat just for that.
3) A special connection. At first this is just a matter of feeling that the girl is providing me a special treatment: more than others, for example, free CIM (while she claim publicly that it is an extra) or extra time... At the opposite if the girl end the session 5 minutes in advance or tries to get me to pay more than the base price, I will probably not repeat.
As for the budge well I didn't find a correlation between the amount that I pay and the amount of the points above that I can check. So I go with the good deals: ~250/h for a FS or (since the sexual part is only 1 of 3 points), B2B massage: ~180/h. Sometime I do exceptions, when the girl is really hot, but most of the time I have been disappointed by the service of those Instagram / Onlyfans models so I keep telling myself: no more.
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I suppose if I really want to see someone bad enough the price won’t matter to me.
I doubt I would go over $1000hr simply because I don’t believe it would be value for money, I don’t think any lady would be that much better than the ones I am seeing now and they are half that.
I suppose I could go the agency route and save some money, but I enjoy the ladies I have been seeing for many years and one in particular I have seen way over a 100 times and if it was 1000 it would still not be enough.
I doubt I would go over $1000hr simply because I don’t believe it would be value for money, I don’t think any lady would be that much better than the ones I am seeing now and they are half that.
I suppose I could go the agency route and save some money, but I enjoy the ladies I have been seeing for many years and one in particular I have seen way over a 100 times and if it was 1000 it would still not be enough.
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