The past few days I've been whammed with private messages after posting 6 reviews on 5 girls. My inbox completely filled up in no time. Guys, I've gotten fewer emails from actual dying people asking pertinent questions about what they're dying of than from guys here with breast and thigh questions. You'd think I was a counter clerk at KFC!
What's odd about all but one of them is that they ALL ask for information that I had made sure was already included in the reviews. Perhaps I may have been a bit too circumspect in descriptions. This was an attempt to be polite and to recognize that my preferences aren't shared by all. For future reference, when I say someone's "thighs are a bit, um, solid," I mean "too fat for me," OK? Reading between the occasional line is a skill to be developed, most particularly in this hobby.
With the exception of the one PM to which I alluded earlier, every single message also asked who had the larger breasts between Marie-Eve and some other girl. In one case I had specifically said that I wanted to see that other girl but failed (translation: how the heck should I know?!). In the other cases, the answer is clear from my postings. If there is some conceivable way in which I could have made more clear that Marie-Eve of GOF has the nicest, biggest, boobiest boobs I've ever enjoyed, I cannot imagine what that could be. Not to say I'm not hunting for even better, but I've not found them yet. (Sorry again, honey. You know what I mean.)
I also got several impatient duplicates of a few of the PM's. It actually transpires that I have a job. It's one where people die if I screw up, so I tend not to spend all day reading PM's on MERB or, indeed, anywhere else. Some evenings I don't read MERB until my kids have gone to bed. My wife certainly doesn't care about MERB, but believe it or not sometimes we actually spend time together NOT doing things related to Montreal totty.
Only one of these many PM's needed in any way to be private. The questions posed would better have been addressed by the entire community and would certainly have provided more wide-ranging and informed feedback than my own idiosyncratic views.
While I'm ranting: guys, women are really not in the least likely to respond with anything other than abject revulsion at many of the PM's that have been sent to LOM. The pathetic thing is that we really don't think any of the senders had that in mind. They seem to think that they are, in some bizarre way, being enticing. One way to combat the negative stereotypes about the sex industry is for its customers to avoid acting like the stereotype loser johns devoid of social skills that others so love to portray. Can it really be so difficult? One of the things we like about MERB is that on the boards discourse is generally intelligent and appropriate. In some cases this appears to be a veneer that slips in "private" messages.
To wind down this long-winded post: am I the only one, or do others believe that the more discussion is held out in the open, the better this board will be? And that the best use for PM's is for messages that are either truly too private or simply too tedious for public consumption?
What's odd about all but one of them is that they ALL ask for information that I had made sure was already included in the reviews. Perhaps I may have been a bit too circumspect in descriptions. This was an attempt to be polite and to recognize that my preferences aren't shared by all. For future reference, when I say someone's "thighs are a bit, um, solid," I mean "too fat for me," OK? Reading between the occasional line is a skill to be developed, most particularly in this hobby.
With the exception of the one PM to which I alluded earlier, every single message also asked who had the larger breasts between Marie-Eve and some other girl. In one case I had specifically said that I wanted to see that other girl but failed (translation: how the heck should I know?!). In the other cases, the answer is clear from my postings. If there is some conceivable way in which I could have made more clear that Marie-Eve of GOF has the nicest, biggest, boobiest boobs I've ever enjoyed, I cannot imagine what that could be. Not to say I'm not hunting for even better, but I've not found them yet. (Sorry again, honey. You know what I mean.)
I also got several impatient duplicates of a few of the PM's. It actually transpires that I have a job. It's one where people die if I screw up, so I tend not to spend all day reading PM's on MERB or, indeed, anywhere else. Some evenings I don't read MERB until my kids have gone to bed. My wife certainly doesn't care about MERB, but believe it or not sometimes we actually spend time together NOT doing things related to Montreal totty.
Only one of these many PM's needed in any way to be private. The questions posed would better have been addressed by the entire community and would certainly have provided more wide-ranging and informed feedback than my own idiosyncratic views.
While I'm ranting: guys, women are really not in the least likely to respond with anything other than abject revulsion at many of the PM's that have been sent to LOM. The pathetic thing is that we really don't think any of the senders had that in mind. They seem to think that they are, in some bizarre way, being enticing. One way to combat the negative stereotypes about the sex industry is for its customers to avoid acting like the stereotype loser johns devoid of social skills that others so love to portray. Can it really be so difficult? One of the things we like about MERB is that on the boards discourse is generally intelligent and appropriate. In some cases this appears to be a veneer that slips in "private" messages.
To wind down this long-winded post: am I the only one, or do others believe that the more discussion is held out in the open, the better this board will be? And that the best use for PM's is for messages that are either truly too private or simply too tedious for public consumption?
