When is repeating too much repeating?

[johnybird]

I was curious about how often you see your ATF? every week, month, etc?

I usually don't see an SP every week but it so happened that one week I found myself in the rare position of being free without planning for it and decided to see the same SP I had seen just 6 days prior. Everything went great and I had an amazing time!

I know this might sound silly but before I texted her I was thinking if it wasn't too soon

I would also be curious to hear an SP's point of view as well.
What frequency do you consider seeing a client as a bit too often? or if you think there is no such thing as often enough.

 

[wolfie7]

:lol: :nod: :thumb: Great question! I've often wondered myself if I over-do it, both in terms of the overall number of repeats and how close together they are. I've rarely ever repeated in the past, but the last year has been... ridiculous.

I'm curious to see the SP perspective. When the hell do you get tired of us? When is it too much? And how will you tell us?

 

[Doc Holliday]

As long as each session with a repeat is as good, or better, than the previous one....its not too often.
My record is 150 repeats over a 5 year period.

I probably would have gone on repeating with her for another 5 years..... except that she decided to marry a rich , handsome guy who was half my age.

Years ago, i wasn't much into repeating until a first encounter would blow me over. I'd wind up seeing the sp once or twice more, at most. Then i'd get bored. But later in life, i met an sp that i connected great with and wound up seeing her 20+ times over a three-year period.

The problem with seeing someone over & over (usually because of good chemistry between the two) is that there comes a time where you don't really feel the need or urge to see anyone else. Well, that's what happened to me. Seeing someone new and not really knowing how it will go makes me feel like i just threw money away if the encounter is just 'meh', if you know what i mean. So we become weary....evasive. Maybe i'll meet someone in the near future who'll add some spice to my life & want to make me go back to Mtl more often.

 

[jadexoxo]

I'm honestly thrilled to see if someone books me soon after an incounter because it tells me he really did enjoy the session and helps me feel more confident around him. Also the kind of good sessions that become more regular usually are because of the chemistry so we probably want to see you too.

 

[wolfie7]

As long as each session with a repeat is as good, or better, than the previous one....its not too often.
My record is 150 repeats over a 5 year period.

I probably would have gone on repeating with her for another 5 years..... except that she decided to marry a rich , handsome guy who was half my age.

DAMN! 150 repeats. I've got a lot of runway then! :lol:

It makes it more sad though when they retire, or retire from you, no? Assuming the fun times continue, and they don't go downhill.

 

[Lana Red]

From my perspective as courtesan, I always prefer an encounter with a regular lover instead to meet a new one. I feel more secure that way and it is more easy to be myself when I can feel complicity with my partner. Also, I am more aware how to please the man that I now. Trying to size a new partner to guess what he do not necessarily express about his needs or expectations it is an aspect in my role as courtesan who is asking me a lot of mental energy. In addition, a regular lover in general is more comfortable to be true himself and to share with me his intimate desires and I really appreciate that. Of course, it works in both ways !

Most importantly, it is that I stay true in what I am doing. No fake feelings : even if I have truly good times with someone and that I keep trying to be thoughtful to my partner, I can not let him think that it could be realistic that I will fall in love if it is not the case. Unfortunately, I am aware that I have lost some regular lovers to stay honest on that point.

To conclude, I can add that I am not craving money enough to support meetings on a regular basis if I am not in good company.

Sincerely,
Lana

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Nothing is too soon, I have seen my ATF 3 times in a week. Stopped doing that though and will now go for variety.

 

[BookerL]

DAMN! 150 repeats. I've got a lot of runway then! :lol:

It makes it more sad though when they retire, or retire from you, no? Assuming the fun times continue, and they don't go downhill.

Hello wolfie

I guess each situation varies ,I use to see a SP 3 to 4 time a week did it for almost a year 150 or more occasions for 2 to 3 hours a few times twice in the same day ,
Her booker was my closest friend and we lived together so it was easy to meet he .
I was even her driver from time to time .
She became has jealous as a regular GF , because of my pleasant occupation!:lol:
So after a year or close I told her I would take a break from seeing her ,I did receive lots of compliments !

I guess anyhow for me it is ,when I see a SP I enjoy the freedom it provides mee no attach ,which was no longer the case with her



Cheers




Booker

 

[Gabriella Laurence]

I would also be curious to hear an SP's point of view as well.
What frequency do you consider seeing a client as a bit too often? or if you think there is no such thing as often enough.

Personally, and only speaking for myself, since most of my encounters with my regular clients are 4+ hours, I have a strong preference towards spaced-out encounters. Depending on who it is and what our dates include, a minimum of 2-4 weeks in between is comfortable for me, with of course, the occasional exception here and there.

 

[tiannas]

I once saw a gentleman from overseas for extended dates 4 nights in a row. By the 4th night I was a little bored. Travellers often book repeats the next day which is great.
For local regulars I think up to once or twice a week is good. Anything more than that could be too much.

 

[You2]

I would try to space it out to once a month however, when I found a woman I enjoyed, I would call her once a week when the desire hit. I have enjoyed 3 women over the years that I stayed with exclusively, 1 for over 5 years. She just did it for me. Another, I enjoyed her company and would prepare a table of finger food and wine so we could breeze in and out of the bedroom for a nip of wine and food at will. The third I enjoyed hearing about her life and plans and we explored a possible 'ours' together, hypothetically, for me of course. Her, I am not too sure if she was serious.

 

[Cybele Lesperance]

I guess I don't mind too often, and returning patrons do make me feel more comfortable too. But it might be more exhausting if I am not fully comfortable with him. What I mean is that while I could be patient and compassionate and accommodating with a demanding patron once every 2-3 weeks, if he his "too much", I might feel drained. On the other hand, if we have good chemistry, I feel rather energized after an encounter... And could spend several days living that sweet honeymoon ! I guess it's hard for a patron to "feel" if he is emotionally draining or not, and it's def. not the sex the issue here!

 

[UncleBob]

With my ATFs I did once a week for over 6 months.
But the most efficient for me is once every 2 weeks.
Usually, this the way it is giving the most intense sex.
For the repeat to last longer, it is best to avoid routine and some ATFs are quite imaginative to make suggestions and take initiatives.
(Different positions, Different lingeries, Different places (bed, sofa, washroom, Kitchen, etc...))

 

[PopeDover]

As a dedicated pragmatist I relinquish the various burdens of determining when repeating is too much repeating and simply leave it up to the barometer in my shorts.

 

[Dreamer69]

I get impulsive sometimes, once I saw an sp 5 times in a 7 day period.:smile:

 

[Merlot]

Hello all,

She became has jealous as a regular GF ,

Cheers

Booker

There's one solid answer to the thread question. When one side loses perspective about what this is really about, having fun without commitment or attachment complications, then it's time to stop repeating. However, from what I've read and from what I've seen there are plenty of people who either don't worry about complications or they came into this business looking for attachments they could not fulfill otherwise. For them it's not an issue of when is repeating too much, it's trying to insure they can keep repeating.

For the rest of us who can keep our heads straight about what we have gotten into all that matters is how long we can keep the chemistry going without getting personally too deep into it. If anyone did that 150 times you must be remarkable, but I don't see how it's possible to do so and still avoid the traps of complications. I don't think anyone has that kind of discipline for so long in such an intimate kind of association even if sex wasn't involved.

Good luck,

Merlot

 

[protagoras]

When is repeating is too much repeating?

Answer: When you begin to ask yourself that question. Period.

I would only do repeating with Gertrude Stein. With Gertrude Stein I would only do repeating. I would only with Gertrude Stein do repeating...

 

[Maria Divina]

Based on what I lived in my own experiences, it exists different kind of repeating. That's been 8 years that I am sharing that kind of encounters, and I have the privilege to have gentlemen who are meeting me from the start, but the repeating pace is really slow, something around once, twice or three time a year, and could vary in duration from a couple of hours to extended trips on several days, and what make this varie was because some gentlemen were outsiders not coming often in Montreal, and others are having a budget more restrictive.

Others experiences were frankly more often happening, each week, 2 weeks or each month. What I saw is the gentlemen who are seeing each week tend to do it for a season, at most 2 seasons. Often, the gentleman who is seeing frequently will finish to have a girlfriend, or to find another lady companion.

In my perspective, I adore to meet again someone. Much less stress, and we can build and start different experiences with ease. I don't have personally a problem to meet someone frequently, because I am separating easily the nature of our encounters. I did live in the past deception to know that I won't be seeing someone anymore, but the nature of what we are doing is to be with "no string attached", and this is very liberating and, the best thing is the non-existence of the concept of "what will he think of me" that we can live in a romantic affair.

So, to answer your question, nothing is too much. I have been a travel companion for a total week, and I was entirely sharing the week, days & nights. That's have been probably the most demanding because you have to be "at your top" all that time, but I adored those experiences also. Maybe, just do what you would like and ask the girl you are seeing when you feel to, and don't worry that much. I am sure there is a majority of girls who adore to meet someone again & again. Follow your instinct.

 

[Doggyluver]

I saw my ATF 1 time a week for 5 years then she retired ( fell in love ) and I now see someone else, once a week. I like the comfort of getting to know someone and it excites me that we know each others likes and dislikes in and out of bed.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

For me a regular is every someone I see every 4 weeks or about, I've had favorites who wanted to see me more frequently but with the exception of my ATF who I used to see 2-3 days in a row monthly and we still never ran out of things to say or do ,I find that too close meetings does not allows us to built the anticipation and might take away the ''high'' I expect from an meeting with a regular...And I need time apart to have new stories to tell lol...