Who do you attract the most?

[maymay]

I'm a 32 year old dude who looks significantly younger, and I tend to attract much younger women in the 22-26 age range. Generally women of color as I am a poc, but regularly white chick's as well. My friends think I'm nuts for wanting to settle down now when I'm on fire with the ladies. It's hard to find an appropriate partner when you are dating that much younger, though.

When i was 25 i met an amazing young women she was 19 but she loved me, she cuddled me, made love to me, massages etc, during this time i had lots of options and was not ready to settle down so i broke up with her, and broke her heart in the process, a few months after she met another man and fell in love again, she is still with him today and they have 2 kids, while i been struggling since that time, met low quality women, got cheated on, so i guess life does have karma and i paid for it dearly.

What i learn from this as i got older and am now 48 is that if you have to chance to meet one good women that will love you, and want to settle down then you need to go for it or you will end up like me getting older alone and i will never meet anyone and die alone. All those women that you have options with are they good women or low quality one night stand women.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

When i was 25 i met an amazing young women she was 19 but she loved me, she cuddled me, made love to me, massages etc, during this time i had lots of options and was not ready to settle down so i broke up with her, and broke her heart in the process, a few months after she met another man and fell in love again, she is still with him today and they have 2 kids, while i been struggling since that time, met low quality women, got cheated on, so i guess life does have karma and i paid for it dearly.

What i learn from this as i got older and am now 48 is that if you have to chance to meet one good women that will love you, and want to settle down then you need to go for it or you will end up like me getting older alone and i will never meet anyone and die alone. All those women that you have options with are they good women or low quality one night stand women.

I think it's normal to make mistakes when it comes to relationships when people are very young.. don't beat yourself up over it, you'll meet someone

 

[maymay]

I think it's normal to make mistakes when it comes to relationships when people are very young.. don't beat yourself up over it, you'll meet someone

Yes i guess its a way to see it but back then i had a few good occasion to settle down with some very good women yet today its simply not going to happen.