Who do you attract the most?
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30% Women around my age.
69% (hehe) Women way younger than me.
1% Mens.
In my professional life (or school) I'm a very assertive person without effort and most women seem to be attracted by that.
If they see me outside my professional life then they realize I'm an introvert and I like a lot being alone enjoying music and observing the world. That's when most of those women lose interest.
For the rest still interested (mostly young) then it becomes a roleplay and ask a lot of advices about life. They understand I'm not a saint and I've seen a fairly amount of shit on my life.
A few times I've been in a fantastic platonic relationship because they feel safe and even if they know I'm not a saint they understand that I'll never "make a move".
Story short... Young troubled women hahaha.
69% (hehe) Women way younger than me.
1% Mens.
In my professional life (or school) I'm a very assertive person without effort and most women seem to be attracted by that.
If they see me outside my professional life then they realize I'm an introvert and I like a lot being alone enjoying music and observing the world. That's when most of those women lose interest.
For the rest still interested (mostly young) then it becomes a roleplay and ask a lot of advices about life. They understand I'm not a saint and I've seen a fairly amount of shit on my life.
A few times I've been in a fantastic platonic relationship because they feel safe and even if they know I'm not a saint they understand that I'll never "make a move".
Story short... Young troubled women hahaha.
Slavs mostly Russians, Ukrainians and Serbians are still at the top of the list but I’d add Italians and mosquitoes
Oh yeah, mosquitoes!
in the past, lots of ebonies and latinas, more recently, asians, maybe because I had a lot of business to do in Chinatown in the past 2 years.
I also attract cops and parking tickets!
And they will bend you over but it won’t be fun :/
I think your talents are much more multi task related and you attract men who like someone who enjoys what she is doing and is a total sweetheart on top of that.
You tend to always way underestimate your talents.
But yeah blowjobs are great no arguments there.
When I get on dating apps, I rarely get fwb interest but it's usually by very forward BBWs.
For long term commitments it is usually shy women at least 4in and/or 50lbs smaller than me.
When I'm in strip clubs I often get better service by black women.
Usually younger than me or the same age.
For long term commitments it is usually shy women at least 4in and/or 50lbs smaller than me.
When I'm in strip clubs I often get better service by black women.
Usually younger than me or the same age.
Early on, I was intensely focused on my academics and career, and always worried about getting distracted. And it was always surprising to me when a colleague or a fellow student expressed interest. Since I did not go to bars or other places where I could meet women, the only folks I attracted were my colleagues and folks who were also nerdy like me. Since my chosen profession is male dominated, there were few opportunities.
Later, as I switched gears to becoming fit, dressing better, and other personality improvements, I have occasionally attracted attention from causal interactions, but I am till today very surprised when someone finds me attractive. The last time was at a bar with a lady who I thought was completely out of my league made the first move, and it ended being a wonderful evening. I think people perhaps find my ability to carry a conversation & humor an attractive quality. Having discovered the magic of beautiful women a bit later in life, I am even more grateful.
Later, as I switched gears to becoming fit, dressing better, and other personality improvements, I have occasionally attracted attention from causal interactions, but I am till today very surprised when someone finds me attractive. The last time was at a bar with a lady who I thought was completely out of my league made the first move, and it ended being a wonderful evening. I think people perhaps find my ability to carry a conversation & humor an attractive quality. Having discovered the magic of beautiful women a bit later in life, I am even more grateful.
I can relate to this even if I'm probably younger. I mentioned in another post how the impact of childhood bullying on self-esteem can be devastating and long-lasting. Add that to that an anxiety disorder and other mental health challenges and you get the picture. I never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl in my life outside of transactional dating even though I am far from unattractive and I have a high IQ. I got attached to an escort whom I like, but who has dark personality traits. At this point I'm not even trying to enter a relationship. I'm just trying to be content with what I have in life. I know I will probably be lonely all my life, but at least I have a purpose in life which I accomplish through my job. Feel free to react with your sad emoji.
Been considering this question for way too long. My clients look very different than the people hitting on me at clubs/gas stations and my FWBs. The only real crossover is that an alarming number of them are in IT.
I attract the same type of people as a SP and in my real life, but there are some people who book me as a SP that I would have never imagined would be interested in me.
I can relate to this! And when they book me again I'm always so surprised lol
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