Why does it seem Strippers are the one's who truly live the "Party Lifestyle"?

[TheQuestion]

Hey guys,

So it seems that in the "Popular Imagination" Strippers are seen as Jaded and Tired with their job. Usually they are portayed as single mothers who hate
their job but do it any way for money. I am starting to believe this is not the case. It might be with tbe minority of Strippers, but there's also a large who aren't like this at all.

Popular Imagination; Pick Up Artists, sleezy guys who are good with women.
Reality; Nerds who sign up to programs and who are cheap and don't get any women.

Popular Imagination Strippers: Single mothers, Jaded with their job and bored with it. Usually not attractive.
Reality: Attractive women, who don't have financial issues since they have guys paying for everything.

Many regular women don't really live the "Party Lifestyle" as most people think. Many of them have a 9/5 job which make them only go out on
the weekend with their friends. And even they tend to be 'cliquey" and only hang out with a few guys. Meanwhile, with Strippers they are always out on a party. I follow some on Social media and notice they. are always going out most days.

Also some SW's I talked to online told me the Strippers do make money while with SB's its harder to make money..etc. The guys who frequent clubs tend to
already have money...etc.

But I'd like to hear your thought and ideas.

 

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I don't understand what the question is, can you clarify?

 

[LC18]

Sounds like you’ve watched too many movies my guy…

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Hey guys,

So it seems that in the "Popular Imagination" Strippers are seen as Jaded and Tired with their job. Usually they are portayed as single mothers who hate
their job but do it any way for money. I am starting to believe this is not the case. It might be with tbe minority of Strippers, but there's also a large who aren't like this at all.

Popular Imagination; Pick Up Artists, sleezy guys who are good with women.
Reality; Nerds who sign up to programs and who are cheap and don't get any women.

Popular Imagination Strippers: Single mothers, Jaded with their job and bored with it. Usually not attractive.
Reality: Attractive women, who don't have financial issues since they have guys paying for everything.

Many regular women don't really live the "Party Lifestyle" as most people think. Many of them have a 9/5 job which make them only go out on
the weekend with their friends. And even they tend to be 'cliquey" and only hang out with a few guys. Meanwhile, with Strippers they are always out on a party. I follow some on Social media and notice they. are always going out most days.

Also some SW's I talked to online told me the Strippers do make money while with SB's its harder to make money..etc. The guys who frequent clubs tend to
already have money...etc.

But I'd like to hear your thought and ideas.

Having had personal experience dating a stripper, one of the main reasons strippers tend to party a lot is because their nights often start off slow, leaving them with nothing better to do than drink alone or with a client.

It's important to keep in mind that many clients at a strip club prefer to have a drink and get to know the stripper before engaging in a dance. This tactic is highly popular among both the strippers and the clients.

The allure of an easy and luxurious lifestyle arises from the fact that strippers often get invited out for meals by clients. Gradually, the stripper learns how to score lavish gifts from clients without even having to do anything in return. Once they get a taste of this material luxury, it becomes an addiction for them.

Many guys fall into this trap, spending exorbitant amounts of money on the stripper without even having any sexual relations with them. This phenomenon characterizes the modern generation of strippers.

Ultimately, it is the clients who fall victim to the manipulative tactics of the strippers, as they know exactly what to say and cater to the clients' desires. The key difference between a service provider and a stripper is that service providers usually do not have the luxury of spending time having a drink with clients, as their time is strictly limited to the paid hour. Service providers understand that time is money, and they often have other appointments or obligations immediately after.

On the other hand, strippers have all the time in the world to chat with clients, as it is an integral part of their job. In fact, they frequently get paid just for engaging in conversation with clients.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Yes, but many of us here aren’t interested in the Party Lifestyle, or a quasi-relationship with a Sugar Baby (which I presume is what SB stands for) or being pick-up artists.

And by the way, many stereotypes end up being true. Enough late nights and alcohol and the once beautiful strippers are washed up in a few years and never make a good transition to escorting since tease and deny aren’t on the menu of most Johns.

Most here want beautiful women but they want to fuck them without illusions or bullshit. There are exceptions and their input is always interesting to read. I laughed when one lady said her biggest surprise was that some guys licked her pussy before even kissing her. So much for illusions. Guys who want to enhance the back end of the session by getting hard and cumming again tend to do that because there is plenty of time for kissing, talking, lap dances, and other sorts of fun between cum #1 and cum #2.

Strippers don’t get that concept. I will take an honest escort with an extensive menu who likes and studies sex anyday, over a lady who was a long-time stripper. Especially if the ladies are 30 years old or more. Long-term strippers have a lot of damage if they did the Party Lifestyle that long.

And illusions don’t stop with the North American choices. In many European countries, there are sex clubs such as German/Swiss/Austrian FKKs and Vive / Factory Air in Madrid that some guys love because they want to see many women at one time, drink (often with the sex worker), and select, often after talking to other guys there. If that is what they want fine. I will spend less time and money looking at ads, reading reviews, and asking questions (if the reviews aren’t explicit enough) of the escort before booking. I have no need for illusions. I know what I like and what I want and find the streamlined approach with escorts the best for me. I book long enough sessions for there to be time to talk, but for many guys who want to do many girls in Europe, they still, in my opinion, get more miles per gallon by getting multiple half-our sessions with escorts than spending the whole day at a sex club, especially if they are young and don’t want to sit around in the same place for hours and hours.

I agree with you my friend, service providers are more reliable and straightforward.

When you engage with service providers, you can expect a smooth and uncomplicated experience. You pay for a service which has been agreed upon between you and the service provider.

In my personal experience, service providers tend to be more educated and generally nicer people. On the other hand, the mentality of strippers is different, as they often come across as hardcore, unrefined, and lacking in manners. They manipulate clients solely for their own benefit, which I find to be quite selfish.

Surprisingly, many strippers are willing to accompany clients home for a high wiping fee, but the service they provide is usually terrible, monotonous, and strictly clock watcher.

In comparison, with the same amount of money, I could hire 3-4 service providers from a reputable agency.

Given the choice, I would always prefer a service provider over a stripper.

 

[Biggie Smalls]

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