Wife or girlfriend too tired to have sex?

[malboro_man]

Has your girlfriend or wife say she is too tired to have sex? Do you suspect she is actually tired of you rather than "tired"?

 

[TheJames101]

Sometimes people are just tired dude.

 

[Like_It_Hot]

@TheJames101 is so right... She might be just tired. But she might also be stressed, preoccupied by something, bored or no more interested toward sex or toward you. Only you can say. Ask her and listen! Is it a new situation? Women libido is also link to female hormones, menopause. Maybe she has health problem, her doctor could help if she wishes. Does she get orgasm? Some have no idea what it is. They like caresses but do not know about the real thing. Women and men are so different. It's wonderful but it brings difficulties to understand each other.

I had a girl friend with a stressful job. From Friday night to Sunday morning it was open bar. And the bar was always full in quantity, diversity and quality...
Same thing during long week-end and vacations (she had 2 months by year). Sex was never a problem for us.

 

[bodick7]

Sudden need for hiatus can happen.
I guess this can apply to typical male too. we’re ain’t machines.

 

[malboro_man]

Sometimes people are just tired dude.

Maybe but your mind gives up before your body does. Like on SP teased me: "I bet you can get it up again if there is an 18 y.o. pussy in front of you".

@Like_It_Hot : yes I guess she is stressed, so it's everybody! Sex is the best stress relieve.

@bodick7 : yes, I guess a hiatus is a good idea...not seeing her for 2 weeks.

Or maybe she is old LOL (gotten spoiled with seeing 18-22 y.o. SPs, over 22 is old but her being mid-30s civvie, I get to do with civvie that I can't do with a pro).