If you found a woman to be in love with, ie., true love finally, would you keep hobbying or stop? My own past history was that I did stop (although a trip our to the strip clubs with the guys was still acceptable).
Would You Stop Hobbying?
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Ditto. Call me a sap or incurable romantic or devoted BF but If I fell in love again, my hobbying days will be a thing of the past... Strip joints being the exception. 
Don't get me wrong. Being in love and respecting your partner is not the same as being whipped. lol
Don't get me wrong. Being in love and respecting your partner is not the same as being whipped. lol
wondering if you have never dated a provider before girls how many times have you given your boyfreind money for another girl <girls who have bf not pimp>
i have been with dancers con can't handle her coming homdrunk and late every night that's my job i like the bed warmed up for me
escort just an escort i'm dating can't handle being in the middle of dinner or a movie and agency calls
escort if i really like her well it was once i let her work one shift when she
got home it was me or the job we were together 2 years she got a waitress
job
mp with an mp also 2 years 10 hour shifts obsessive regular clients <guys girls come home and talk about the job get ready>
all sex workers all of a sudden no more food in the kitchen or in the over
i usually end up at someother girls house who invites me for supper
<my problem with the latter usually friend or buisness associates ex wife or
girlfriend
i would rather be with a girl who makes 15 to 40 k and likes to cook and clean <when they do the dishes the little jiggle well they usally don't get done in one shot >and then i can take her to gibby's or lemeiac and spoil her with what ever she wants
my mother was a carrear woman an still is she was never home and now has been single
for too long
buisness exec's good for casual but not into serious
this question is like asking the russians what would they do if communism fell 15 years ago
go back now and see them, show their initial answer
i have been with dancers con can't handle her coming homdrunk and late every night that's my job i like the bed warmed up for me
escort just an escort i'm dating can't handle being in the middle of dinner or a movie and agency calls
escort if i really like her well it was once i let her work one shift when she
got home it was me or the job we were together 2 years she got a waitress
job
mp with an mp also 2 years 10 hour shifts obsessive regular clients <guys girls come home and talk about the job get ready>
all sex workers all of a sudden no more food in the kitchen or in the over
i usually end up at someother girls house who invites me for supper
<my problem with the latter usually friend or buisness associates ex wife or
girlfriend
i would rather be with a girl who makes 15 to 40 k and likes to cook and clean <when they do the dishes the little jiggle well they usally don't get done in one shot >and then i can take her to gibby's or lemeiac and spoil her with what ever she wants
my mother was a carrear woman an still is she was never home and now has been single
for too long
buisness exec's good for casual but not into serious
this question is like asking the russians what would they do if communism fell 15 years ago
go back now and see them, show their initial answer
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ServiceVIP said:
I'm asking all guys. I guess the ones who are married or attached and continue to see SPs would be the ones answering no, they won't stop.
I truly beleive that a man who has been hobbying for a while will start hobbying again once the initial flame starts to fade. A certain amount of hobbyists might stop but most will come back to it.
Once you know what it is to have a high octane sexual life with different partners and different sexual practices, I think it is hardly possible to settle down once and for all into a cozy, normal everyday sexuality wich brings a lot of good moments of complicity etc... but lacks the animal lust on wich the hobbying is based.
Once you know what it is to have a high octane sexual life with different partners and different sexual practices, I think it is hardly possible to settle down once and for all into a cozy, normal everyday sexuality wich brings a lot of good moments of complicity etc... but lacks the animal lust on wich the hobbying is based.
tothebone said:
I must be abnormal but I wouldn't mind if my future husband/boyfriend would be hobbying once in a while. What I would mind would be if he went to bars trying to pick up girls and have affairs.
nice cleo you must be a real woman
guys some times the hobby makes you appreciate so much more the women you love you become so much sweeter and careing cause you know you don't want to be married to the superstar you may have had the night before i lost
the two best relationships of my short life because i thought to be true to my woman
i had to stop i was high strung frusrated unfufilled then possesive dependant
and overbearing i still remember those beutiful eye's say to me
it's just you can be so suffercating and what did i do got high and depressesd cause she couldn't handle my affection should have went to the hobby i know it
guys some times the hobby makes you appreciate so much more the women you love you become so much sweeter and careing cause you know you don't want to be married to the superstar you may have had the night before i lost
the two best relationships of my short life because i thought to be true to my woman
i had to stop i was high strung frusrated unfufilled then possesive dependant
and overbearing i still remember those beutiful eye's say to me
it's just you can be so suffercating and what did i do got high and depressesd cause she couldn't handle my affection should have went to the hobby i know it
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Just like Cleo said, I wouldn't have a problem if my husband would see an escort once in a while (I would still love to know , maybe I'd call myself a Gigolo that night! ).
The way I see it, love is love and sex is just sex. Love with sex is even better than sex alone but sometime something different is fun too. And "paid for sex" is sex that doesn't become intimate and interfere with your couple.
On the other hand, I could never stand if he had an affair with a regular lover, a relationship with another woman.
I would without a doubt retire if I'd meet Mr. Right. I am a big romantic.
, maybe I'd call myself a Gigolo that night! ). The way I see it, love is love and sex is just sex. Love with sex is even better than sex alone but sometime something different is fun too. And "paid for sex" is sex that doesn't become intimate and interfere with your couple.
On the other hand, I could never stand if he had an affair with a regular lover, a relationship with another woman.
I would without a doubt retire if I'd meet Mr. Right. I am a big romantic.
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Maxima said:
I have no problem with that at all. I've accepted it long ago. I know I am going straight to Hell where the heat and all the party people and fun is.
I let calm quiet heaven to the perfect ones.
Lilly Lombard said:I have no problem with that at all. I've accepted it long ago. I know I am going straight to Hell where the heat and all the party people and fun is.
I let calm quiet heaven to the perfect ones.
Hello Lilly,
Come on sweetie. You are a bad girl
...just not THAT bad. But I think I understand your point. Hugs,
Korbel
Love is for dreamers, love is for believers
Love is for losers, love
Is for suckers
Love is for suckers, love is for suckers
Twisted Sister
Love is for losers, love
Is for suckers
Love is for suckers, love is for suckers
Twisted Sister
Yes, I did.
I did stop for several years, but now that the relationship is over I am back in the saddle again!
I did stop for several years, but now that the relationship is over I am back in the saddle again!
Sex and love, both can live separately. I love my GF but the sex drive between us is gone. I'll never have an affair with somebody else but seeing SP isn't an affair, it's plain and simple sex. Since I'm seeing SP, even if very rarely in the last year, I feel less stress and ressentment with the GF so, the relation is even better!
I have 2 girlfriends and a wife on the side. I'm madly in love with all of them. That's why I go up to Montreal; for peace, quiet, and no-strings-attached sex. You have no idea how nice it is to spend an hour or two with a beautiful girl and then have the rest of the evening to yourself.
Yes we do.Medic_565 said:
I voted "not sure" because
although I'm a romantic and don't want to cheat on a girl (and never did so far),
I don't know if I could resist the temptation... It is way too easy in downtown Montréal to walk into a massage place where girls offer FS ...
I'd have to leave the town, go back to places where it would be too difficult or too expensive.
I think a fourth choice should be added to the poll:
Would you continue with her knowledge/consent of your activities?
And maybe even a fifth:
How would you feel if SHE occasionally got banged by a stranger without your knowledge/consent?
Would you continue with her knowledge/consent of your activities?
And maybe even a fifth:
How would you feel if SHE occasionally got banged by a stranger without your knowledge/consent?
ExoticSpirit said:
Fuck No !! I was Hobbying in the early 90's a regular with The Heartbrakers until I got married. Still got divorced. WTF why stop
Ok !!!
You just found Mr. Right. I LUV the way you think Lilly. I could handle a life like that and if you wouldn't mind the odd 3some FMF or MFM. That would even be better. No I'm not gay. If you were willing to have a FMF then I would have to agree to MFM. So when are we getting married ? Let me know.
Lilly Lombard said:Just like Cleo said, I wouldn't have a problem if my husband would see an escort once in a while (I would still love to know
The way I see it, love is love and sex is just sex. Love with sex is even better than sex alone but sometime something different is fun too. And "paid for sex" is sex that doesn't become intimate and interfere with your couple.
On the other hand, I could never stand if he had an affair with a regular lover, a relationship with another woman.
I would without a doubt retire if I'd meet Mr. Right. I am a big romantic.
You just found Mr. Right. I LUV the way you think Lilly. I could handle a life like that and if you wouldn't mind the odd 3some FMF or MFM. That would even be better. No I'm not gay. If you were willing to have a FMF then I would have to agree to MFM. So when are we getting married ? Let me know.
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