My fellow merbites i met a nice colombian lady last summer while traveling by myself ( cali barranquilla bogota cartagena ) and since then i went back in september and last month we spend a beautiful week in cuba.. we text everyday and talk on the phone once or twice each week..
The thing is you hear so many horror stories about girls using foreigners only for legal citizenship papers or being sent money etc..
I've always had trust issues when it comes to girls from poorer countries and i've met quite a few and as soon as they would ask for money i'd end it right there.
The colombian lady has yet to ask me anything but i have a hard time imagining her being faithful for some reason..
Anyways does anyone have advices or hints that could me see clearer or any horror stories out there that could be helpful...?
P.S We applied for a tourist visa which was turned down by the canadian government due to her lack of travelling and insufficient funds etc.. and the last thing iwant to do is marry her and then be stuck with my horror story where she uses me just to bring her hidden boyfriend type of thing.. i might just be too paranoid lol