I've only been doing this for a few months and was curious about something. I apologize if this question was posted before but I did a search and couldn't find anything.
How nervous are you the when you meet someone for the first time not knowing who they are and what to expect?
I'm not talking about the way they look, more for a safety issue, you are sometimes are welcoming these strangers into your place or going over to their place. What kind of precautions do you take, if any, to ensure that you will be as safe as possible?
This question again is for the ladies out there, not for the Merbiholics that go see them.