Well, my current relationship is on the blink of a total meltdown. After the Love fades, I realized that there are so many things I really dislike about her. I tried so hard to understand why she act/think like that, but evidently I failed. I ask you, ladies and gentlemen of the board, do you guys suffer as much as I do?
The thing that pisses me off the most is also the most common among girls I dated (and maybe all women, I dare not say): Subtle Mind Games.
She LOVES to get mad for apparently no reason at all and make me spend days (sometimes freaking weeks) to figure it out.
Once I was hanging out with her and her two female friends. One of them happens to be funny, and I never noticed that before. So, being the nice guy that I am, I complimented her. The reason I said it was to be nice to her friends, since they are HER friends. Well, things went downhill from that point on that day. I am extremely sensitive to how her acts, so I noticed that she was mad at me. When I noticed that, it was already like 2 hours later. (Her mood changes often, so I can't really tell unless she's been like that for a long period of time)
Well, I knew she was mad, but I had no idea why or when it started. I tried all my usual moves: compliments, light kisses, play with her hair, ask her how she feels, joke with her, buys her chocolate... so forth so forth... Nothing.
Ok, around 12 that night, we were talking about something and she said something about some stupid stuff that I did a long time ago. I said "Come on, that's not funny." We love to tease each other like that. But that time she reacted very differently and telltale signs appear on her face. She said "Well, I am sorry I am not funny like blah blah blah is."
OMFG, I thought to myself. THAT'S what it was... Then I told her, I said it to make her friend happy so she would be happy as well... I also told her how fun she was, how she's so funny all the time, it's not worth mentioning... blah blah... Then she was fine and happy.
However, I wasn't. I spend the whole freaking day trying to cheer her up, I asked her what's wrong more than two dozen times. I told her, I really have no idea what happened, PLEASE tell me. I freaking almost begged her. All then she's all happy and better because I finally figured it out.
What kind of a sick mind is this? WE ARE NOT PSYCHICS... I don't care how smart of sensitive a guy is, he can't always read your mind!!! I wanted to say that to her face. But that's gonna cost me later down the road, so I swallowed it. We swallow too, damn it !!!
That's also only ONE of the things I dislike about her...