Alright, I have set up an encounter with a special lady later this week and I find myself violating my own rule of thumb: never have any expectations before meeting someone, this way you can't possibly set yourself up for disappointment if it doesn't go well.
Every email I get from her makes me realize just how special she is. I have read outstanding reviews on her, typically discussing how gorgeous she is, her great services and her wonderful personality. Even though I have not met her, I find myself pulled in by her personality, which is by far the most important thing to me. Every email just gives me a little glimpse and makes me yearn for more - a lot more.
I have to ask all of you, how do you deal with your anticipations? I guess it is a slow week at work because I am usually too tired to think or anticipate. But lately, every time I go to bed, I think about her. I worry about how to make her feel special and I hope we'll get along.
How do you all deal with your anticipations? Is it easy to block someone out of your mind, especially if it's the first time? Do you find it hell to wait a week or a month for someone you eagerly want to meet?
Sometimes I wonder if spontaneity is better, this way your anticipations do not drain you and leave you flat as a pancake when you finally meet up with that special someone.