Continuos SP Cancellations and Your Time

[Fradi]

I really see two sides to this the first being, why does she agree to see him if she doesn’t intend to.
She could simply say I don’t want to see you or not respond at all if she doesn’t want to get into any kind of confrontation.
Playing games and cancelling all the time is just plain stupid behaviour, there is nothing that could be said in favour of someone who does this.
Rates whatever are irrelevant.

The other is after she does this to you on 3 separate times, why bother trying again.
Plenty of other young ladies in Montreal that will be happy to see you or should I say happy to take your money.

 

[Halloween Mike]

, but there's been a few times that a regular client did something that made me uncomfortable and they stopped booking me after I confronted them about it, because they took it really personally. And like Giselle said we never know how someone might react, it could be worse than losing the client. Even if the client doesn't have a violent reaction to being confronted he could still decide to spread false rumors about us or ruin our reputation otherwise.

I think sometimes maybe the reason why the excuse for cancelling sounds phony is the SP might be afraid you won't find her professionnal if she tells the truth.

As i said the psycho clients i can't relate ...

But you shouldn't be afraid to loose a client if you confront him and he chose to not see you after. It mean what he did made you uncomfortable but for him maybe that thing is part of what he like and is acceptable for another SP. So you were not a match for him any more... He respected you not booking you anymore. Just my way of seeing it.

As for not finding her professional well let me judge ...lol. It then will be up to me if i try again...

Maybe im just too honest of a person for this business lol

 

[Lunaseraphim]

But you shouldn't be afraid to loose a client if you confront him and he chose to not see you after. It mean what he did made you uncomfortable but for him maybe that thing is part of what he like and is acceptable for another SP. So you were not a match for him any more... He respected you not booking you anymore. Just my way of seeing it.

I'm not afraid of losing clients but it's my job and I'm running a business and have to make compromises at times, not every client is going to be perfect even if I'm blessed to be booked mostly by extremely respectful and appropriate gentlemen. I'm not talking about clients who crossed my boundaries sexually or physically here. But you're correct that there's going to be a point when my patience reaches it's limits.