It's one thing when it's a regular, if it's someone you just saw once such honesty would be quite rare (see talking head post). With some very high end HDH ladies, it's always a case of the highest bidder.It was no big deal and I am glad she is comfortable enough with me to just ask me and tell me the truth.
I usually found out from the "booker" that was used by these indies, rather than the ladies themselves, that I had gotten outbid.